NewStats: 3,261,190 , 8,173,351 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 02:01 PM z1e6y

revontuli:


I already ran away overseas to the other side of the world.
He is going after the weak and vulnerable people nearby, not very likely to go after me but I still have some fear and watch out.

don't worry. You'll be safe. Just confide in the authorities or someone you can trust. Also arm yourself. Anything can happen. Getting a gun is easier over there right?

I couldn't tell any of this to my close friends and family cause of shame.
Easier to tell complete strangers you know. I felt ashamed for allowing this to happen.
I got the divorce in 2017 but didn't have the mental energy to kick him out and dealing with the lawyers and such, until this past summer.
I shouldn't be ashamed, the shame isn't mine but it's quite embarrassing to tell family and most friends about such a thing.

He got committed into mental hospital against his will for violent and suicidal behavior before, I found that out much much later.

SweetBuns:
don't worry. You'll be safe. Just confide in the authorities or someone you can trust. Also arm yourself. Anything can happen. Getting a gun is easier over there right?

I relocated to Europe and we aren't allowed to get guns here. I can get a crossbow though, there are no restriction on non-firearms. Crossbow is just as deadly and no permits are required, just some marksman skills.

revontuli:
I couldn't tell any of this to my close friends and family cause of shame.
Easier to tell complete strangers you know. I felt ashamed for allowing this to happen.
I got the divorce in 2017 but didn't have the mental energy to kick him out and dealing with the lawyers and such, until this past summer.
I shouldn't be ashamed, the shame isn't mine but it's quite embarrassing to tell family and most friends about such a thing.

He got committed into mental hospital against his will for violent and suicidal behavior before, I found that out much much later.

that mindset you have can get you killed. If you can't tell your family this and call them to help you in this your time of need, what do you have them for?

Offpoint:

Sorry, but I got one question for you: How and where the f''k do you meet this psycho to the point of marrying him? what the f''k attracted you to him?

As long as he's alive and free, your life is in danger, it doesn't matter how long you'll run.

Met him through mutual friends. He wasn't a psycho then, though, quite the opposite. He had a reputation as a good Samaritan. Helping everyone in need, protector of the weak, he also helped me with a lot of difficult things and gave me when I battled with chronic illness. Who could guess? None of his close friends had any idea, either.

I am trying to get him arrested for possible child rape, cause he nearly itted that to the woman he kidnapped and raped. He said he did "something horrible" and his little nephew took his own life. A 9 year old child. If they don't open a case with this, I will lose all faith in the American law enforcement.

revontuli:


I relocated to Europe and we aren't allowed to get guns here. I can get a crossbow though, there are no restriction on non-firearms. Crossbow is just as deadly and no permits are required, just some marksman skills.

carrying a crossbow around is both unethical as it is strange. Imagine carrying a crossbow to work? Looks and sounds strange right?.
Take some judo and karate classes on self defense. You might never know when you'd need them (your life could be on the line)
Also get some thing lethal but less pronounced like pepper spray. It helps a lot( it has helped me once)

revontuli:


Met him through mutual friends. He wasn't a psycho then, though, quite the opposite. He had a reputation as a good Samaritan. Helping everyone in need, protector of the weak, he also helped me with a lot of difficult things and gave me when I battled with chronic illness. Who could guess? None of his close friends had any idea, either.

I am trying to get him arrested for possible child rape, cause he nearly itted that to the woman he kidnapped and raped. He said he did "something horrible" and his little nephew took his own life. A 9 year old child. If they don't open a case with this, I will lose all faith in the American law enforcement.

people change until their last breath

SweetBuns:
that mindset you have can get you killed. If you can't tell your family this and call them to help you in this your time of need, what do you have them for?

I live thousands of miles away from my family, too. They are not in any position to do anything. If they had any power to do anything I'd bite the embarassment and tell them. But all of the friends I have in Texas know everything.

SweetBuns:
carrying a crossbow around is both unethical as it is strange. Imagine carrying a crossbow to work? Looks and sounds strange right?.
Take some judo and karate classes on self defense. You might never know when you'd need them (your life could be on the line)
Also get some thing lethal but less pronounced like pepper spray. It helps a lot( it has helped me once)

Not carrying but keeping at home and car in case.
I can't learn martial arts cause of a disability I have.
If I could I would.
The possibility of him making such a long trip to go after me is low, though.
I will report the threats and such to the authorities here, if it's possible to get him denied entry to the country. Looking into the options.

revontuli:


Met him through mutual friends. He wasn't a psycho then, though, quite the opposite. He had a reputation as a good Samaritan. Helping everyone in need, protector of the weak, he also helped me with a lot of difficult things and gave me when I battled with chronic illness. Who could guess? None of his close friends had any idea, either.

I am trying to get him arrested for possible child rape, cause he nearly itted that to the woman he kidnapped and raped. He said he did "something horrible" and his little nephew took his own life. A 9 year old child. If they don't open a case with this, I will lose all faith in the American law enforcement.

What's responsible for his drastic change of behavior? is he doing drugs? do you suspect any case of drugs?

revontuli:


Not carrying but keeping at home and car in case.
I can't learn martial arts cause of a disability I have.
If I could I would.
The possibility of him making such a long trip to go after me is low, though.
I will report the threats and such to the authorities here, if it's possible to get him denied entry to the country. Looking into the options.

there is ability in disability. And don't think he won't come after you. He is now unhinged mentally and won't think like a normal human
Girl, its almost midnight here and I need to catch some sleep. I have a big day tomorrow. Stay safe okay?

revontuli:
Photo 1: The living room

Photo 2: The kitchen bar, he hoarded trash for 2 years and the place became a breeding grounds for swarms of flies and cockroaches, sick f**k hung flypapers all over the place instead of cleaning up.

Photos 3,4: The bedroom, completely trashed. He is a fat blob like Jabba the Hut, kept eating fast food and drinking soda and just throwing all the trash on the floor, and actually LIVED in that mess.

OMG !

What attracted you to him in the first place ??

She has been banned by an anti spam bot. Revontuli, please stay safe. I know what will happen if he tries to find you

revontuli:


I have never been to Nigeria.
The house is in the US (Texas), I'm in Europe. Ran away form that monster pretty much.

beautiful lady..

ha ah this oyinbo woman is smart and kinda funny too...

I like the way she uses her word.

i still can't believe someone actually survived living in that house.. It's good you've kicked him out anyway . problem solved huh

I just hope you can handle what's coming at you right now as I'm pretty sure so many people on this forum will start shooting their shot.

Every country has its own problems you can't do these things with people knowing and still get away with it in Nigeria.

The part about jungle justice was actually funny.She has a way of adding comic relief to her rants.

That moment you realized that the cute babe you've been chatting with is a bored young man hiding behind a smartphone

Newboss:
That moment you realized that the cute babe you've been chatting with is a bored young man hiding behind a smartphone

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ha too much sense no go kee you ma broda but she sounds feminine tho... I have no doubt she's white too.

Oyinbo no too sabi lie. only if they're whining and they have this way of typing enlgish .. especially American .

SweetBuns:
Some men are just very inconsiderate and stupid. Sometimes they act without thinking. How does this actions done by him help the matter now?
Sister you'd better stay far away from him. If he could destroy things that belongs to you like this then imagine what he'd do if he had the chance to deal with you.

Where do you stay?

revontuli:
Not cheap to remove all that trash from the house and the dumped junk-furniture form the yard.

I can't hate that sick b*stard enough and no amount of beating and torture would be enough for what he did to me and my house over those years.

He was not present when they did the eviction, neighbors said he got a long haul truck driving job and wasn't coming home much.
I hope he dies in a fire burning and screaming somewhere out in the middle of nowhere.

This got me

revontuli:


Oh I ran away for my life and took my things with me. He stole my gold, silver, valuable things and never gave any of it back, despite the court order. I learned later it is pointless to try to enforce the court order, it will cost me tons of money and I am not likely to get it back. Apparently he won't even go to jail for stealing my valuables, or trashing my house. He completely got away with this.

I learned that he kidnapped, tortured and brutally raped a woman who is a friend's girlfriend. He bullied and intimidated the victim so bad, she refuses to go to the police, refuses to leave her apartment too. We couldn't convince her to file charges. She is convinced he will go kill all of her family if she talks. We don't know how many other people he possibly hurt. I tried to call the sheriff's department to report him as a violent criminal, but they brushed me off and said they can do nothing unless the victim herself comes forth and officially presses charges. They will do NOTHING and let a violent, sick psycho walk free and get away with all this crime.

This is Texas for you.
Dark and ugly side of America.

Come to think of it this devil was once your lover, your honey pie and your world , what changed

lefulefu:


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mikejj
kimbraa
oyindidi
WiningEleven
luminiouz etc

thats why they call them woman and wife...its their nature to do the cleaning...but this man own too much.

Let me help you clean that up...cleaning up("idoti)rubbish Is my hobby.....

Infact I was born to clean I swear...

mikejj:
thats why they call them woman and wife...its their nature to do the cleaning...but this man own too much.

the man na complete werey

Offpoint:
I'm here to read comments and ask for your husband side of the story. That's what my old man once told me before he died "Offpoint no matter how tempting a story involving two persons is... never judgement until you hear them both"

"Whatever becomes of a man is influenced and fuel by something" offpoint 2018



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Modified:
just checked the profile and I see a white woman.
........
I won't say what the devil is tempting me to say.

Whatever the case may be.... op I'm single and extremely caring. taking care of houses is one of my hobby

I LOVE NAIJA, DEM NOR DEY CARRY LAST.
MY GUY DONE QUICKLY DROP CV.

MAKE I DROP MINE.
@OP, PPLE SAY I'M AS HUMBLE, DEPENDABLE, CARING, TRUSTING, LOVING AND AN EXCELLENT COMPANION AND FRIEND LIKE JESUS... WOULD U LIKE TO FIND OUT IF I'M SO MUCH MORE

Cladez:
Every country has its own problems you can't do these things with people knowing and still get away with it in Nigeria.

The part about jungle justice was actually funny.She has a way of adding comic relief to her rants.

it happens in nigeria but only if the property u using was purchased by ur lover and u mess up then she trashes it up.

revontuli:
I have been away for a while cause I have been fighting legal battles to evict my ex who has been illegally squatting at my house months after divorce. It took forever to kick him out of there cause I'm overseas and it's difficult to coordinate things with 8 hours time difference.
Constable kept dragging his feet and made stupid excuses to delay it and cost me a ton of money. The lawyer was not very communicative and didn't do a good job with pushign the constable. In the end I had to personally call the constable office and literally weep and scream on the phone to get them to realize I am the victim and my house is being trashed (which I was told by friends who visited there, before my ex turned completely psycho and alienated them all.)


He went more and more insane and turned into a sick trash hoarder.

This is the state of my house after they removed the broken, old, trashed furniture. 1st photo is the furniture and some of my old stuff piled in the front yard. The others are in the house.
It used to be nice when I lived there. It became totally unrecognizeable, literally a "Hoarders buried alive" episode and a horror show.
I steeled myself hardcore not to have a heart attack when my lawyer sent me the video report post-eviction.



Edit note: The house is in Texas. I'm in Europe. The monster wasn't there when they evicted him.

@Op, the difficult part has past. He's out of the house. Now you can rebuild.
Before you get too moody, look at the brighter side....that man is out of your life for good

ecstasy357:


I LOVE NAIJA, DEM NOR DEY CARRY LAST.
MY GUY DONE QUICKLY DROP CV.

MAKE I DROP MINE.
@OP, PPLE SAY I'M AS HUMBLE, DEPENDABLE, CARING, TRUSTING, LOVING AND AN EXCELLENT COMPANION AND FRIEND LIKE JESUS... WOULD U LIKE TO FIND OUT IF I'M SO MUCH MORE

Guy I no like that level o, abeg submit your CV elsewhere o, I need this job more than you.. country hash.

revontuli:
Not cheap to remove all that trash from the house and the dumped junk-furniture form the yard.

I can't hate that sick b*stard enough and no amount of beating and torture would be enough for what he did to me and my house over those years.

He was not present when they did the eviction, neighbors said he got a long haul truck driving job and wasn't coming home much.
I hope he dies in a fire burning and screaming somewhere out in the middle of nowhere.

Burning fire or cancer?
Make up your mind.

lefulefu:
the man na complete werey

full time werey...d wife no go ever open for am next time now...

Wow this is really nasty and i woke up this morning complaining about a roach that was abandoned in the kitchen to my family