NewStats: 3,262,845 , 8,178,341 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 07:14 PM 3b3w73

lefulefu:
U were just a sidechick. Which sane man who is in love with u would jus turn around and marry another woman. It doesnt happen. He never loved u and all he wanted was just a cheap thrill from u even when married.

I wish you guys will make things easy for everyone.

Tell a girl you see as sidechick material straight and plain that all you want is for her to be your sidechick. If she is cool with it, she keys in, if she is not, she move on. Why lie and give us hope? Why complicate things for we ladies?

Afterall, one man's sidechickmaterial is another man's wife material.

TonyeBarcanista:

That a man cheats doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love his wife. It depends on how he goes about it and his attitude towards her.

CAVEAT: This isn't justifying cheats though

@ the bolded is opposed to your caveat. Isn't it just ok if a man cheats and he as always is expected to cheat?

Vega100:
it's a man's world ma'am, you should get that into your brain... It sure is, forget what any westernisation shit tries to deceive u girls, it certainly is, and will remain a man's world, men call the short, not girls... So understand this and you will know how to relate with men.

sure it is...but as you grow older you'd better understand that women have always run the show and you've been deluded, believing you call the shots... never forget the multiplier effect of a woman; you put garbage in, you get garbage out....pressed down shaken down and running over back into your own bossom

desiregold:
I wish you guys will make things easy for everyone.

Tell a girl you see as sidechick material straight and plain that all you want is for her to be your sidechick. If she is cool with it, she keys in, if she is not, she move on. Why lie and give us hope? Why complicate things for we ladies?

Afterall, one man's sidechickmaterial is another man's wife material.

but there are men who let ladies know they are side chics them.or have u not heard of ladies who get invited into the home of a married man when the madam is not around.the man will let her know he"s married but she will still tag along.many of such ladies who date married men even rebuff the advances of serious single guys why cos he married men pamper them with gifts.

TonyeBarcanista:

That a man cheats doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love his wife. It depends on how he goes about it and his attitude towards her.

CAVEAT: This isn't justifying cheats though

any man who goes about cheating on his wife is not attracted to his wife.he might have sisterly love 4 her but the attraction is not just there.

So, she already knew the guy have done traditional marriage about a year prior and was still fucking him non the less. At this point she has not yet realized that she is a side chick.

But stopped doing after she realized the guy has done his white wedding and this was when it dawn on her that, she is a side chick?

lefulefu:

any man who goes about cheating on his wife is not attracted to his wife.he might have sisterly love 4 her but the attraction is not just there.

Not necessarily true.

Some cheat because of lust not because they don't love their wives. It's like a wealthy man that still dip his hand to steal people's resources not because he's poor or lacking but because his appetite for more money.

Don't get it twisted bro

TonyeBarcanista:
Not necessarily true.

Some cheat because of lust not because they don't love their wives. It's like a wealthy man that still dip his hand to steal people's resources not because he's poor or lacking but because his appetite for more money.

Don't get it twisted bro

lets be honest with ourselves ..we men have our spec and desire some physical quality in a woman.some guys love tall women and some love chuncky ladies.now imagine a man who loves tall ladies now gets married to a fat chick cos of her intelligence or maybe because of her kindness so tell me why wont he cheat. he loves his wife as a person but he is not atttacted to his wife.most men who cheat dont find their wife sexually attractive.

TonyeBarcanista:
Not necessarily true.

Some cheat because of lust not because they don't love their wives.

of course he might care for her but what i am saying is that the attraction is not there

lefulefu:
lets be honest with ourselves ..we men have our spec and desire some physical quality in a woman.some guys love tall women and some love chuncky ladies.now imagine a man who loves tall ladies now gets married to a fat chick cos of her intelligence or maybe because of her kindness so tell me why wont he cheat. he loves his wife as a person but he is not atttacted to his wife.most men who cheat dont find their wife sexually attractive.

Again, here you go!

A lot of men with beautiful wives still cheat with uglier women (Tiger Woods comes to mind). It doesn't mean there is less attraction, a lot of factors contributes to cheating and chief among it is lust.

If having your spec as wife is enough to prevent cheating, then Jay-Z wouldn't have cheated on Beyonce. You see, looks, beauty, love etc aren't enough to stop a man from cheating. #Fact

I agree that some men who settled for less cheat because of meeting that need but it isn't the case most times.

Also, successful or relatively successful men have high chance of cheating because their feat naturally attract ladies unlike failures or unsuccessful people.

lefulefu:
of course he might care for her but what i am saying is that the attraction is not there

Sweet, save your strength. He will forever defend cheating from men. Let's switch genders, you see him barking like a loose dog all over Nairaland.
Save your strength boo.

lefulefu:
of course he might care for her but what i am saying is that the attraction is not there

Looks of a woman has NEVER prevented a man from cheating.

Only a man's principle, disability, illness, poverty or failure can prevent a man from cheating!

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Eberechi24:

Sweet, save your strength. He will forever defend cheating from men. Let's switch genders, you see him barking like a loose dog all over Nairaland.
Save your strength boo.

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TonyeBarcanista:

Again, here you go!

A lot of men with beautiful wives still cheat with uglier women (Tiger Woods comes to mind). It doesn't mean there is less attraction, a lot of factors contributes to cheating and chief among it is lust.

If having your spec as wife is enough to prevent cheating, then Jay-Z wouldn't have cheated on Beyonce. You see, looks, beauty, love etc aren't enough to stop a man from cheating. #Fact

I agree that some men who settled for less cheat because of meeting that need but it isn't the case most times.

Also, successful or relatively successful men have high chance of cheating because their feat naturally attract ladies unlike failures or unsuccessful people.

agreed that many rich succesful men cheat but an equal number of men on the struggling side also who are married also have mistreses.their okada riders,keke riders who also have mistresses.no be today.the thing is dat when u not satisfied with ur wife and ur mariage is empty u bound to look outside.imagine u happy in ur marriage and the sex life is good why will u stress urself looking outside..lol.

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TonyeBarcanista:

Again, here you go!

A lot of men with beautiful wives still cheat with uglier women (Tiger Woods comes to mind). It doesn't mean there is less attraction, a lot of factors contributes to cheating and chief among it is lust.

If having your spec as wife is enough to prevent cheating, then Jay-Z wouldn't have cheated on Beyonce. You see, looks, beauty, love etc aren't enough to stop a man from cheating. #Fact

I agree that some men who settled for less cheat because of meeting that need but it isn't the case most times.

Also, successful or relatively successful men have high chance of cheating because their feat naturally attract ladies unlike failures or unsuccessful people.

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lefulefu:
agreed that many rich succesful men cheat but an equal number of men on the struggling side also who are married also have mistreses.their okada riders,keke riders who also have mistresses.no be today.the thing is dat when u not satisfied with ur wife and ur mariage is empty u bound to look outside.

You see where I say "successful men" or relatively successful men? The Okada riders are deemed relatively successful within their sphere and they attract girls/women at that level. Success is relative !

imagine u happy in ur marriage and the sex life is good why will u stress urself looking outside..lol

It is LUST bro!

It usually has nothing to do with state of marriage in the home! Many men in "happy" or relatively happy home CHEAT. That's it

Like I earlier opined, it is same way a wealthy billionaire still dip hands to steal a few millions despite having more than enough for himself and his family!

TonyeBarcanista:

Looks of a woman has NEVER prevented a man from cheating.

Only a man's principle, disability, illness, poverty or failure can prevent a man from cheating!

yes a mans principle can stop him from cheating i agree but the other ones u just listed cant stop a man from cheating oo. and i never said looks can stop a man nau..i said attraction.what u might consider beautiful might be ugly to another man.when a man is getting married to a lady its very important he is attracted to her.

lefulefu:
yes a mans principle can stop him from cheating i agree but the other ones u just listed cant stop a man from cheating oo. and i never said looks can stop a man nau..i said attraction.what u might consider beautiful might be ugly to another man.when a man is getting married to a lady its very important he is attracted to her.

My brother, there is no need arguing back and forth!

I think we've both made our points!

BlaqCoffee109:
sure it is...but as you grow older you'd better understand that women have always run the show and you've been deluded, believing you call the shots... never forget the multiplier effect of a woman; you put garbage in, you get garbage out....pressed down shaken down and running over back into your own bossom

I'm way older, and older than you very well I can assure, and I think in NK you the one who time will explain things clearly to, your delusions will soon unravel and clear of your eyes!!! No worry, marriage go soon come for ur side, you go see am with your korokoro eyes, I'll beg you to just bookmark this page, and save my message, it will be very helpful to you.