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We all have our pasts, some are manageable while others are very complex. You love this lady so much, she is the best you have ever seen, but you discovered your close friend slept with her so much in the past. Will you still go ahead to marry her?

Very dangerous thing to do!

Friends these days cannot be trusted, as long as your guy don enter, he can get back there anytime he wishes no matter how much assurance she gives you.

A wise man once said

A pvssy once fvxked cannot be unfuvked, but it can most definitely be re-fuvcked!

so, give urself brain!

Once debe

Just be reminded that u are marrying her coz of her attitude and not that loose hole between her legs..

In the Philippines eehn.. there's this woman who had 16children from her first husband sha. But when her husband died due to the altercation, her husband's friend who is a single guy with no kids at all marry her and had 8 more kids with her

AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER

This one is strong...

QueenSuccubus:



Just be reminded that u are marrying her coz of her attitude and not that loose hole between her legs..

In the Philippines eehn.. there's this woman who had 16children from her first husband sha. But when her husband died due to the altercation, her husband's friend who is a single guy with no kids at all marry her and had 8 more kids with her

AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER

Philippines? Is that one a country or a mere branch office.

My friend slept with her? Hell no i cant oo. Its risky marrying a lady like dat.

QueenSuccubus:



Just be reminded that u are marrying her coz of her attitude and not that loose hole between her legs..

In the Philippines eehn.. there's this woman who had 16children from her first husband sha. But when her husband died due to the altercation, her husband's friend who is a single guy with no kids at all marry her and had 8 more kids with her

AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER

Wow...& ur recommendation is?

QueenSuccubus:



Just be reminded that u are marrying her coz of her attitude and not that loose hole between her legs..

In the Philippines eehn.. there's this woman who had 16children from her first husband sha. But when her husband died due to the altercation, her husband's friend who is a single guy with no kids at all marry her and had 8 more kids with her

AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER

what sense does this make OP friend is alive and kicking anything can happen between the girl and the guy in future for me this is no
No room for sentimental

MrRichmond:
Very dangerous thing to do!

Friends these days cannot be trusted, as long as your guy don enter, he can get back there anytime he wishes no matter how much assurance she gives you.

A wise man once said

A pvssy once fvxked cannot be unfuvked, but it can most definitely be re-fuvcked! so give urself brain!

My dear, d@'s lie. Most Ladies never go back 2 their vomits, I myself finds it repulsive. Unless she never really left in her heart,

Op if you want to marry her please go ahead. Getting a wife material these days is not as simple as people think. Even single guys in their 40s will attest to it. Because your friend did not appreciate a good woman in his life doesn't mean When God gave him one , does not mean u shouldn't when u see one.

Most women as soon as theyve broken up with their ex, it's finished. Nothing takes them back to him. Especially when u it she's a very good woman

She won't disappoint you.

I have a friend who got married to her ex boyfriend, friend. This lady is so good but her stupid ex is a bloody player and good for nothing guy, who even scammed her of 400k! She almost died of heartbreak. Crying uncontrollably in my office explaining what happened. The 400k is gone till today.

After the breakup, his friend was shocked, her bf could do such to her and also breakup with her. Last last he married her. And they are living happily together. Very nice woman.

Some men do not deserve a good wife. They don't. God will give them a good woman, they will use selfish wicked attitude to drive her away.

OP listen to guys and not girls.....


U'd never feel comfortable seeing your guy, knowing he has been there and done alot of damages



U go dey shame sef

It’s really just shameful knowing that your friend has seen your wife’s pant. It’s embarassing, there’s no pride in it. Unless your mentally strong enough to handle it, don’t even bother.

It's not a problem to me.

Saff:
It’s really just shameful knowing that your friend has seen your wife’s pant. It’s embarassing, there’s no pride in it. Unless your mentally strong enough to handle it, don’t even bother.

the only reasonable comment from a female on this thread!

thank you, I was about to generalize something sha but thank you for changing my perspective a lil bit.......

don't do it guys..... only one in a million similar scenarios play out well.... it is one of the most difficult things on earth to cope with.......

if anyone is going to do it..... make sure u condition ur mind for the worst and brace for impact at all times.... might not even happen BTW them but will u be able to convince ur mind?

newdawn2017:

My dear, d@'s lie. Most Ladies never go back 2 their vomits, I myself finds it repulsive. Unless she never really left in her heart,

so what of those married ladies sleeping with their exs nko?

oshe111:
OP losten to giys and not girls.....


U'd never feel comfortable seeing your guy, knowing he has been there and done alot of damages



U go dey shame sef

the old spark go always come back when the friend is visiting them .last last the friend go resume smashing the guy wife behind im back.na so e dey always be.

olsome:
We all have our pasts, some are manageable while others are very complex. You love this lady so much, she is the best you have ever seen , but you discovered your close friend slept with her so much in the past. Will you still go ahead to marry her?

Marriage is not about LOVE. The earlier we understand this, the better for us.

LOVE should be the last thing to consider in marriage as there are many things and areas we should focus on.

As a man, do you know what it means for your friend to know how and what your wife's nakednesss look like?

Too bad!!!!!!

It's risky though. Because if your friend were to ever pop back into your lives, I promise you, that love will gradually turn to a deep distrust and then hate. Don't do it because one day very soon, you will definitely throw her past in her face

edictng:
Once debe

Always debe

olsome:
We all have our pasts, some are manageable while others are very complex. You love this lady so much, she is the best you have ever seen, but you discovered your close friend slept with her so much in the past. Will you still go ahead to marry her?

have you heard of okafor’s law?

The operative words here being “ in the past” it’s very possible with the way people dive in and out of each other’s sexual organs it’s possible that you will stumble across few common elements. And men can’t be sanctimonious about this some of you have slept with whole families, some all her friends including her grandmother.

Hell no. Can't, won't and never.

Burgerlomo:

Always debe

washere burgerlom.o

edictng:
washere burgerlom.o

Wagbayi

No! I will NEVER!
The past to me is as important as the present and a pointer to the future.

No! I will NEVER!
The past to me is as important as the present and a pointer to the future.

I can't even take as my girlfriend someone that a friend of mine or anyone I know have slept with in the past let alone dream about marriage.

Tonyebarcanista why are you not asleep?? late night duties??



At topic, dont do it bro, except you and your friend are now more like strangers.

....and one day, at a particular time like that, your friend will brag about how he left something for you, he will tell ppl ur wives ringing tone in bed ND might secretly come back for more cos OLD WOODS ARE BEST TO burn and OLD WINES ARE ALWAYS TASTY.

STARGREEN:

Wow...& ur recommendation is?

Well, therefore i conclude that never judged her juz bcoz of her past. Everybody has a past.

But ONLY ON NAIRALAND WHERE ALOT OF these yeye little boys and little girls want to paint a flawless kind of life but in reality it's an opposite.

MrRichmond:
Very dangerous thing to do!

Friends these days cannot be trusted, as long as your guy don enter, he can get back there anytime he wishes no matter how much assurance she gives you.

A wise man once said

A pvssy once fvxked cannot be unfuvked, but it can most definitely be re-fuvcked!

so, give urself brain!

Talking about Okafor's law?

That is a myth. If a lady sleeps with an ex, it is because she wanted to and not because an ex will always have the chance to sleep with her because he has done it before.