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To avoid an embarrassing situation guys, how do you tell a young Lady that your offer to give her a lift the other day wasn't to get her INTEREST (or should I use the word ATTENTION?) rather that it was an act of kindness and generosity from your NICE self nothing more?
Especially when you both were supposed to be going towards opposite directions yet you offered to drive her home first before heading to yours.

To the Ladies, how did \ do you feel about it and also, how did you handle it when he explained or explains himself?

Post her number make I help u explain.

On that matter leave her alone.

That's d best way to explain to her.

Relate with her nicely as a friend on other issues.

Simple!

Oluromantic:
On that matter leave her alone.

That's d best way to explain to her.

Relate with her nicely as a friend on other issues.

Simple!

in addy, oga lifter @ OP when next you lift her again, discuss politics or football till you drop her off, next time she’ll not accept your lifts again. Or you can lift her, en route the destination, use the words of God/bible to lift her to the most high God!

Spexo001:
Post her number make I help u explain.

Hahahahaa, okay it is dot nine dot. four four four. tiree tiree. four dot four

Oluromantic:
On that matter leave her alone.

That's d best way to explain to her.

Relate with her nicely as a friend on other issues.

Simple!

That is sensible but here it isn't her words that made me notice that I may have done beyond giving her a lift, it is her actions, THEY are totally telling me that

Fazemood:

Hahahahaa, okay it is dot nine dot. four four four. tiree tiree. four dot four

stupidity:
in addy, oga lifter @ OP when next you lift her again, discuss politics or football till you drop her off, next time she’ll not accept your lifts again. Or you can lift her, en route the destination, use the words of God/bible to lift her to the most high God!

Abi? Hahahaha, guy you ain't stupid as your name says. With this manner, there may not be a next lift.

You must have shown interest. One way or the other. Explain yourself and stop lifting and maintain your distance

chiommy123:
You must have shown interest. One way or the other. Explain yourself and stop lifting and maintain your distance

Hahaha I like that. 'Stop lifting and maintain your distance' . I may have ed a message unintentionally. I will keep my distance.

Though I'd still ask; you as a lady, how will you handle the situation if he begins to act different from the way you though he should be acting towards you? Especially when you are thinking he gave you a lift as a way of showing interest in you?

Fazemood:

Hahaha I like that. 'Stop lifting and maintain your distance' . I may have ed a message unintentionally. I will keep my distance.

Though I'd still ask; you as a lady, how will you handle the situation if he begins to act different from the way you though he should be acting towards you? Especially when you are thinking he gave you a lift as a way of showing interest in you?

I will jejely advice myself especially if he didn't open his mouth to ask me out but I'll give you attitude oh

chiommy123:
I will jejely advice myself especially if he didn't open his mouth to ask me out but I'll give you attitude oh

Now you wah getting my point. Hai yam hin trouble o

Brother we all know that you won't lift someone you are not attracted to. It may be an innocent act to you but the lady is at the back of her mind thinking the opposite. This is how women are wired to think especially to the opposite sex.

Of course in the cause of been too familiar with her overtime, Sexual emotions might come in. She been attractive to you is an emotion and it is the first step to developing Sexual emotions.

Fazemood:

Now you wah getting my point. Hai yam hin trouble o

serious one for that matter

chiommy123:
serious one for that matter

Hahahahaa, issoryt. I'll have to brace up for the impact. Girls eh! Lol

Fazemood:

Hahahahaa, issoryt. I'll have to brace up for the impact. Girls eh! Lol

nothing. just explain to her and keep your cool