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guys so 2 days ago on my way to work i ran into an old school mate that i used to love she have changed and looking more beautiful we chatted for a few she told me she is married and have kids i was happy for her we exchange numbers, so today she text me and wanted to visit me ,being that shes married im a little uncomfortable. but i dont want her to feel rejected

my fellow nairalanders what do you advice

Make sure you don't allow her come over. Keep posting her.

Grant her visit first, do not jump into conclusion yet with your negative thoughts.

Dirty mind, she is just coming to preach the word with her bible

One thing may lead to the other. Though she may not have anything in mind for now but the truth is - dont permit her to come. And if u cant keep to thiiz advice bro, be sure u are responsible for whatsoever happens.

My sincere advice to you.

MvpSplendor:
One thing may lead to the other. Though she may not have anything in mind for now but the truth is - dont permit her to come. And if u cant keep to thiiz advice bro, be sure u are responsible for whatsoever happens.

My sincere advice to you.

thank you bro for your advice

Are you a he goat that you can't control sexual urge or what? An innocent lady simply wants to hang out and gist with you as an old friend and you're here jittering. What's wrong with some people?

If you know you may be tempted to rape the innocent married woman, please tell her not to visit.
Smh.

Her visit could be innocent.. You might be over thinking things. If you aren't comfortable just suggest a neutral place for your meet.

prick no get respect

Katier00:
Dirty mind, she is just coming to preach the word with her bible

Going to his house to Preach??




I smell...

we appreciate you for being honest. now we know you don't trust yourself not to talk of others

well, for me if girl is visiting me and am so attracted to her I mean sexually or I get lust for the babe. I don't hang out with her indoors only outdoor, where people are watching us. and if she is coming to my house tho not mine actually cuz am still with my parent, I usually invite her to my mom's living room and introduce her to my mom then we hang out there, or sometimes just in the compound so that I don't get chance to try stupid move I'll regret later.

in your case she's somebody's wife. be careful bro.

why would a married woman, be planning to visit a single guy in the first place? and at his house, this is how the cheating starts just one moment of vulnerability and the next thing, the deed has been done. be very careful there are some things you can never undo

What was the point of exchanging numbers in the first place? You knew what you were doing go ahead and finish what you started. Why do men walk into traps with their eyes wide open?

You have a dirty mind. She innocently wants to hangout, your mind is thinking differently. God help you. What makes you think a married lady can't have a nice chat with past/single friends.

Guy go repent

MissRaine69:
What was the point of exchanging numbers in the first place? You knew what you were doing go ahead and finish what you started. Why do men walk into traps with their eyes wide open?

My married exes still communicate with me, although just via phone calls and social media platforms, it doesn't mean anything so long my thoughts are pure, we are still friends, some even would like to hook me up with their single friends

Sir let her visit you and give her money. She is only stylishly asking you to give her money

When we visit guys, if you guys have sexx, with us we expect you to give us some money minimum of 20k

And try to keep the relationship with your married friend secret by not telling anyone

Wilfredpat22:
Sir let her visit you and give her money. She is only stylishly asking you to give her money

When we visit guys, if you guys have sexx, with us we expect you to give us some money minimum of 20k

And try to keep the relationship with your married friend secret by not telling anyone

20kkkkk!!!!?
For how many rounds of sex?.
Few young men would do that.... For example I stay at KETU and a lady come visiting from OJOTA after having sex, I would give her 20k ? If she visits me 3times a week that is 60k....

I think only sugar daddies can handle such financial situation not me..

SmilingMary:


My married exes still communicate with me, although just via phone calls and social media platforms, it doesn't mean anything so long my thoughts are pure, we are still friends, some even would like to hook me up with their single friends

That’s you ....that does not apply to the other millions out there

Her visit might be a harmless one buh z not proper for her to visit u at home.... even if both of u wants to meet nd chat let it be in an arena or eatery

Is that not what prostitutes do?

Wilfredpat22:
Sir let her visit you and give her money. She is only stylishly asking you to give her money

When we visit guys, if you guys have sexx, with us we expect you to give us some money minimum of 20k

And try to keep the relationship with your married friend secret by not telling anyone

mmadu5:
thank you bro for your advice

l like ur heart bro. Just be careful.