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On A Scale Of One To Ten, How Likely Am I The Father? (3433 Views)
ifyalways(f): 12:55pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Prognose: 3:29pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
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Re: On A Scale Of One To Ten, How Likely Am I The Father? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Hmm. Tough one. For me, it depends on the kind of woman you are dating. Is she loose. Is she a faithful kind of woman. Your answers should help you decide whether to marry now or wait and see. |
Gistboxblog: 4:21pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Loisemm: Well, what prompted me into asking questions after this long while, having considered her faithful and accepted the pregnancy without ever questioning if it was mine, is because, I borrowed her phone recently and stumbled upon some questionable messages, dated early February. My suspicion was more aroused by one message in which she was discussing her period with another man. She has somehow rationalized them. Still, I have doubts, and she doesn’t know I do. Cc: prognose, zed7, sisisioge, Katier00, becca2011, appsdope, kimbraa, eyinjuege. 1 Like 1 Share |
Katier00(f): 5:14pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog:just calm down and relax. Everything will be fine 1 Like |
zed7: 5:15pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
@op, The questionable message is the more reason not to rush into marriage. Marrying after confirmation still provides the needed ideal home for your baby if it turns out to be yours. 1 Like |
Holocene(m): 5:23pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Bruv, pls wait till the baby is born before you put a ring on that finger. Never be cajoled into marrying someone you ain't sure of. She might have concluded you are comfortable and wants a piece of that life and would go any extent to hook you up with pregnancy. My one cent ![]() ![]() |
sisisioge: 5:26pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Hmmmm...your gf have my exact circle. If she finished on the 10th, then she started on the 6th. She was safe on the 11th. She's so trying to get you to take responsibility. However, anything can happen. You might just have a lil one on the way. Quantifying the likelihood on a scale of 1 to 10, you are on 2 ![]() 3 Likes |
Dyt(f): 5:46pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: So discussing period with another man must have summed up to being intimate? Orisirisi Things these men can do A friend said her bf saw her chat with a guy about her ovulating and viola He almost killed her Like how can you tell a man you are ovulating I just laughed ehhh I wish she can see how much you have belittled her |
Dyt(f): 5:47pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: Me I will quote it |
Gistboxblog: 7:11pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
@dyt You are obviously biased. So, according to you, a woman discussing her menses (whether it flowed or not) with another man, especially when their message’s history clearly depicted that there had been an affair between them, shouldn’t justify their partner’s suspicions? Or you missed the part where I said the messages were “questionable”? You never bothered to ask what “questionable” really meant. Also, you needn’t generalize, could have waited (or asked) for specifics or draw conclusions based solely on the information at your disposal. I stated earlier that it was rationalized. The woman’s basis was that the affair with the man had ended prior to meeting me, which is now false. 1 Like |
Gistboxblog: 7:16pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
I just dodged a fast one. I have approached her with the facts you guys provided me with. And as it turns out, she saw her “ex,” so to say, who is an undergraduate (she even sent him money recently, my money), in January too, before and after she visited me. Right now, she claims she is unsure about who the father of the unborn child is, but I am confident I am not the father. I have canceled the marriage and would inform my family. I guess it’s all just a lesson. Thank you all so much — Cc: Mindfulness, prognose, zed7, sisisioge, Katier00, becca2011, appsdope, kimbraa, eyinjuege, Holocene. 3 Likes |
becca2011: 7:34pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
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Dyt(f): 7:37pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: Why didn't you question her on seeing the messages? You had to bring it to where no one really cares if you both end up good or worse? What happened to communication? You couldn't entail your fears to your partner but could give out every info to those that don't give a hoot about any of you Good luck with your mind getting twisted oo |
Dyt(f): 7:39pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: Oh Good for you But still get the test done If its yours Good If not Good too No one wants an unfaithful partner |
zed7: 7:48pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: And you wanted to wife a hò. When will we men learn? Never let the p get the better of you ever!!! 2 Likes |
Aquariann: 7:49pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: It was never your baby in the first place. Just a case of Alpha fvcks, Beta Bucks. She was looking for a comfortable life for herself and her child and you were the perfect "provider" candidate. Every female moniker that commented on this thread prior knew this fact. Also, because she took your virginity you were in a haste to marry her? There were too many red flags to ignore. First of which you guys live in different cities. Secondly she was rushing you to the registry. As a side note my man, never get married in the registry. You have a whole lot to lose. And for crying out loud, Can you just stop having unprotected sex? What is wrong with you guys? Fathering someone else's child is the least you should worry about. I've seen the look of regret on the faces of several young and comfortable guys like you when a positive HIV result was handed to them. Mr. lover man, I hope she's now an ex? The fact that she's cheating on you, lied about ending things, gave your money to her true love (father of the child) is unforgivable. Not to mention attempting to another man's child to you and force you to marry her. 2 Likes |
Holocene(m): 7:50pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Trust the women to defend one of their own. The things women of these days do and try to hook it up to a dude really scares the poo outta me. What sane woman will discuss period and ovulation with another man who ain't hitting that asss. Bruv, don't be misled and intimidated into getting married like say na one big trophy. Marriage is not a one day thing, it a a lifetime and if you make the mistake initially, it's a lifetime of regrets. NEVER MARRY OUTTA PITY. 4 Likes |
Gistboxblog: 7:59pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
becca2011: Yeah. Even if I am sure (or she changes tune, claiming it’s no longer mine), I would conduct a DNA test once the child is born, especially when there is a chance it could be mine. Because if it turns out to be mine, it’s my blood, and I need to raise her right. The only thing that would not be going on now is the marriage. I can’t marry her. |
Gistboxblog: 8:03pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Aquariann: Thank you, Aquariann. Yes, she is now an ex. But I won't be throwing her out immediately as she is heavy. After she got pregnant, we started living together so that I could take care of her, but that will change soon. |
Gistboxblog: 8:05pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Holocene: Thank you! |
Dyt(f): 8:06pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Holocene: Not every man.takes life the hard way There could be reasons for getting to that You eat too much You are moody Your look terrible Casual discussions Flips hair |
Gistboxblog: 8:06pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
zed7: Thanks! I have learned my lesson. |
Gistboxblog: 8:19pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Dyt: Thanks for your input. Nonetheless, I know why I bothered to bring it here (and I am now glad I did) for experienced, unbiased, second opinions. If anything, it afforded me with informed opinions on how to proceed. 1 Like |
Dyt(f): 8:22pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: In your head I am biased Not like I care Shrugs |
Holocene(m): 8:33pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Dyt:Lol, is he a doctor or a nurse? |
Aquariann: 8:41pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Gistboxblog: How soon is soon? My man stop reasoning with your manhood and send this lady back to her parents immediately. You're obviously still pvssy whipped and haven't learnt any lesson at all after all. Do you really think she loves you or appreciates the kindness being shown to her? Get this message, no matter what you do for her, now and even when the baby is born, you'll never be loved like the man whose baby she's carrying. And if you think the guy isn't in the know about her giving you his child (pending when he is able to face you and shock you with the truth in future) your joking. He's still a student after all and can't even look after himself but depends on your money from her. What kinda cuckold are you? Taking care of another man's woman, his unborn child and the man himself (by proxy) just because the lady still gives you pvssy and you want to appear like a nice man? Please do not endanger your wellbeing/life by still keeping this lady nearby. She can go diabolical on your case sef. 3 Likes |
crackhaus: 8:52pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Dyt: Most women are not so flippant to discuss things like cycle, period, and ovulation, with just any guy. I know you're probably going to ask me if I'm a woman to make such claims.. ![]() Well you have to be honest with yourself here. Perhaps you can say things like that to your male friends, but that would make you the exception, definitely not the usual. A good number of my friends happen to be of the opposite sex and I can tell you for a fact that for every one of them I've had that kind of gist with, we were either already intimate or about to get intimate. What kind of fuckery will make me go about discussing ovulation or menstrual cycles with a woman who is just a 'FRIEND'? Am I one of her girlfriends or what exactly ![]() ![]() This guy has every reason to be suspicious, as a matter of fact he should be worried. 5 Likes |
Dyt(f): 8:56pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Holocene: crackhaus: I wouldn't know I read the chat and didn't see nothing to cause a fuse She said she was cranky Turned gourmand And the guy asked why She said she thinks its ovulation That was it Nothing more **rolls eyes**** |
Holocene(m): 9:10pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Dyt: Ok, let's imagine you see your boyfriend or husband discussing about his erection and payload volume with another lady who ain't a doctor or healthcare professional at best....then you would come here and raise hell over his head... What is fuckeddup is fuckeddup...stop rubbing anointing oil over it to make sell. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Dyt(f): 9:14pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Holocene: Yes sir To you men Its wrong Not gonna do this with you Y'all win |
Holocene(m): 9:17pm On Jul 01, 2018 |
Dyt: Oh my, first time I have ever won against a woman. You are rare breed. 1 Like |