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HMmm, I just learnt that yesterday.


People are too oocupied with themselves to care about anyone, pls share your experiences

Wetin you get?

The day I went to Access bank, state HQ to pay in N80.

This would help me withdraw my N920.

That day, the teller guy look me finish, start to frown.
The Guy must have been angry with poverty.

That's life for you.

Only me can take care of myself, make myself happy.You can't make someone else your source of joy, they also have dia life 2 live..

My mama na the only persin wey truly give a damn about me..

I've written an article concerning this.

Why don't you check it out?

This entitlement mentality kills indeed.


You see in life, I’ve come to realize that nobody owes you anything except yourself. You’re here on earth for a reason. You’re to leave your mark and go (death). Even if you don’t end up leaving a legacy behind, life doesn’t owe you an explanation. Life is what we make of it even though life experiences and mentalities/ideologies picked up throughout life shape you into what you're.

Nobody owes you anything. Not friends, not family, not foes. No one owes us anything. This entitlement mentality has rather made us (humans) to be liabilities rather than entities. We’ve to choose one. You either be self entitled to everything and blame others for your shortcomings and getting disappointed every time or you take the bull by the horn and realize that in life, it’s you against the world.



Read more at.. https://makydebbiesmusings./2018/06/03/life-and-entitlements-no-one-owes-you-a-thing/

The fact that one shouldn't expect doesn't mean that one shouldn't accept or wouldn't experience favour. Experience has shown me that nature never fails those who're altruistic, loyal and beneficent towards others.

In summary, so long as you're conscientious, there'll always be someone that cares for you or someone nature will make available to care in your time of dire need - yet forget expectedness.

People do give a fùck about people with skills.
Acquire some amazing skills and people will give a fùck about you. If you don't, then they'll only give the fùck to your pùssy and not who you are.

Me living my life like I'm alone in this unfathomable world.

Engrossed on my work and be nice to my clients.

Give respect to those that deserve it.

Everybody is my friend so no need of keeping friends.

Doing what is good and never to slack.

Nobody care about you...talking from many experience.

Only God love and think about you.

TarOrfeek:
The day I went to Access bank, state HQ to pay in N80.

This would help me withdraw my N920.

That day, the teller guy look me finish, start to frown.
The Guy must have been angry with poverty.

Hahahahahahah.

TarOrfeek:
The day I went to Access bank, state HQ to pay in N80.

This would help me withdraw my N920.

That day, the teller guy look me finish, start to frown.
The Guy must have been angry with poverty.

hahahahah you get mind oooo but if it was a girl you wouldn't have done it

Never given a fuckkk abt what people think, I didn't come to this world to please anybody

May 11......I was almost being kidnapped while my friends ran for their lives.

shoyemiayodeji:
May 11......I was almost being kidnapped while my friends ran for their lives.

Bros you're funny sha

Dis is perfectly normal na. Or did you expect them to stay there while you're been kidnapped.

You can only complain if they didn't mk attempts to find u later

I left social media, Facebook, Instagram, twitter, whatsapp etc... On my birthday a month ago, the messages I received were from, stanbic ibtc, gtbank, royal exchange...
That day, I realised no body really cares.. People only u when they need money or favours

ranmoor:
I left social media, Facebook, Instagram, twitter, whatsapp etc... On my birthday a month ago, the messages I received were from, stanbic ibtc, gtbank, royal exchange...
That day, I realised no body really cares.. People only u when they need money or favours

true bro.

I'm naturally someone who cares but recently,

I force myself everyday to stop caring bout people.

Why waste my time?

IF I CAN'T HELP MYSELF, NOBODY ELSE CAN.

that's the mentality I grew up with. It has helped me a lot..

My mom do tell me;
A PERSON THAT WAITS FOR A ROASTED CHICKEN TO JUMP FROM THE PLATE AND ENTER HIS MOUTH WILL WAIT FOR A LONG TIME..

For me, If I had the opportunity to choose, ill choose not to be born....Cos life to me is freaking meaningless, So right now, I'm just taking each day at a time, looking forward to old age when I'll just away, but right now let's just say I'm staying alive for my family, hubby and kid....uhaaaa

iLegendd:
People do give a fùck about people with skills.
Acquire some amazing skills and people will give a fùck about you. If you don't, then they'll only give the fùck to your pùssy and not who you are.

"PEOPLE DO GIVE A FVCK ABOUT PEOPLE WITH SKILLS"

You are right but not in Nigeria..
There are a lot of talented people in Nigeria but nobody gives a bleep about them..
There are also a lot of talentless people in Nigeria and people give a bleep about them. Why?

You know the story..

Laeroy:
For me, If I had the opportunity to choose, ill choose not to be born....Cos life to me is freaking meaningless, So right now, I'm just taking each day at a time, looking forward to old age when I'll just away, but right now let's just say I'm staying alive for my family, hubby and kid....uhaaaa

If you were my kind I'd say something but since you are my opposite stay in chux

Jamariwolff:
HMmm, I just learnt that yesterday.


People are too oocupied with themselves to care about anyone, pls share your experiences

Peter Tosh once said ''I am not in this world to live up to your expectation, neither are you here to live up to mine.'' I don't care whether you don't care. Basically, that's my philosophy on this topic.

What you have to do is trust yourself, and once you do that you'll be so carried away in your own pursuit, so much that you won't give a fukc who cares about you or who doesn't.

Boulevard Of Broken Dreams- Green Day.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Soa3gO7tL-c

I Am That I Am- Peter Tosh.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DMTgTaWGnE

No one really cares in the end you just realise that it is only your feelings that matters

What I majorly have an issue with is why certain people help others and then start counting the things they've done for them leaving the unsuspecting helped thinking that they're recipients of some selfless generosity. They couldn't be more wrong.

milemimi93:


"PEOPLE DO GIVE A FVCK ABOUT PEOPLE WITH SKILLS"

You are right but not in Nigeria..
There are a lot of talented people in Nigeria but nobody gives a bleep about them..
There are also a lot of talentless people in Nigeria and people give a bleep about them. Why?

You know the story..

You're almost right, but the angle I'm coming from is: [n]"developed skill."[/b] Sorry, I omitted the word "developed."

Let's me give you an example. I learned how the dating game works 10 years ago, but no one gave fùck if I had the skill or not. Why? because no one gives a fùck about a skill the owner has refused to make known, let a lone and undeveloped one.

So, I wrote some books on this skill and now people give a fùck. The fùck has been fetching some fùcking money.

If I had kept quiet or come online and shout, "Someone please help me give a fùck because I have a skill," do you think anyone would've given a fùck?

People give a fùck as long as your skill is fùcking developed and made public. This is why everyone must struggle on their own to develop their skills first before a good fùck can be given.

iLegendd:
You're almost right, but the angle I'm coming from is: [n]"developed skill."[/b] Sorry, I omitted the word "developed."

Let's me give you an example. I learned how the dating game works 10 years ago, but no one gave fùck if I had the skill or not. Why? because no one gives a fùck about a skill the owner has refused to make known, let a lone and undeveloped one.

So, I wrote some books on this skill and now people give a fùck. The fùck has been fetching some fùcking money.

If I had kept quiet or come online and shout, "Someone please help me give a fùck because I have a skill," do you think anyone would've given a fùck?

People give a fùck as long as your skill is fùcking developed and made public. This is why everyone must struggle on their own to develop their skills first before a good fùck can be given.

Please sorry to ask are you a female?

milemimi93:


Please sorry to ask are you a female?

Lol. Do your investigation.

Yesterday, today, everyday

Everyday of my life.....At one point when money was flowing in everybody day form care...so i had to stop work cos i decided to go to school....money stop to come and i had to start managing my savings....as they nor see the extras wen day fly about na so they still fly.....i will soon be going for hols...i asked like 3 people to squart with them so i can work for d 3months and since my family relocated....all 3 of them started giving me attitude....if i back then i go just day shake my head...come to think of the fact i always watch out for this same people

Yup, most people are around you cos you have something. Lose that thing and watch them disappear from your life. Though I always people most times and I'm sometimes the first to communicate with them after a long time.
Though I sometimes wish I never had this caring attitude of mine; it kills at some point.

iLegendd:
Lol. Do your investigation.

Nah! Am not good at that... Just tell me.

Jamariwolff:
Bros you're funny sha

Dis is perfectly normal na. Or did you expect them to stay there while you're been kidnapped.

You can only complain if they didn't mk attempts to find u later

...while you're being...

makydebbie:
I've written an article concerning this.

Why don't you check it out?

This entitlement mentality kills indeed.


You see in life, I’ve come to realize that nobody owes you anything except yourself. You’re here on earth for a reason. You’re to leave your mark and go (death). Even if you don’t end up leaving a legacy behind, life doesn’t owe you an explanation. Life is what we make of it even though life experiences and mentalities/ideologies picked up throughout life shape you into what you're.

Nobody owes you anything. Not friends, not family, not foes. No one owes us anything. This entitlement mentality has rather made us (humans) to be liabilities rather than entities. We’ve to choose one. You either be self entitled to everything and blame others for your shortcomings and getting disappointed every time or you take the bull by the horn and realize that in life, it’s you against the world.



Read more at.. https://makydebbiesmusings./2018/06/03/life-and-entitlements-no-one-owes-you-a-thing/

But why do you think that no one owes you anything?