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A Durban based man and a Twitter , @VJBritemnLive who invited her girlfriend to his house for the first time ever is mad at mad at her for spending time at his place and leaving without washing the dishes.

Read his tweet below;
"I invited my girlfriend for the first time ever at my place & I was extremely disappointed to be honest, she came this morning & left without even washing dishes let alone some cleaning. I thought this one was actually wife material but she entirely failed this girlfriending test"

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/05/man-disappointed-after-his-girlfriend-left-his-house-without-washing-the-dishes.html

girlfriend not wife oo, were u expecting her to do your house chores for u.. baba employ a house help and stop ranting on Twitter ... if u do it yourself will ur hand fall down

PELE !!!

bizza45:
girlfriend not wife oo, were u expecting her to do your house chores for u.. baba employ a house help and stop ranting on Twitter ... if u do it yourself will ur hand fall down

but the girl must be expecting Porsche from him.


All those below me bashing the OP for taking the girlfriend to be slave, does washing dish for someone you love and dating automatically make you a slave and maid? We have lots of ladies out there looking for men with husband materials. If you can’t show your side of wifery, how do you expect to meet a man with husband material?

Secondly, I tire for the way people reason, this is why men feel they own their wife, some of yall are saying she’s only his girlfriend and not her maid or slave, so when he decides to pay her dowry and marry her, only then we can now call her his slave and maid. By then na to carry all my friends dirty clothes give her to wash. Nonsense.

little things as that goes a long way for a man but girls won't understand

Lol. "To your tents, o Israel"

Some girls cannot come and kill themselves...and die. They don't like what they hate and in your own scenario, it is washing plates.

As much as the girl isn't in anyway obligated to do the cleaning, her doing it would earn her some respect from the guy, it's just like borrowing a car for use and not refuelling it, thou you aren't obligated to refuel but if you do you have earned some respect for yourself

will u stfu?

She is ur gf,not yet ur wife

do u want her to be ur slave and u will eventually dump her when u are tired of her

my gf even do better but later i got tired of it,it later turn to a stale thing to me.

and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

It depends on how it all went down....

First of all, she didn't sleep over 4 you to say she didn't do any chore in the morning before leaving (depends on how early she needs to leave sef).

Secondly, she was visiting for the first time... The only reason i will offer to do the dishes in a boyfriend's house(not sleeping over) I'm visiting for the first time is if i ate food during the time of visit...The dude is even supposed to be gracious enough to refuse the offer, except the girl insists.

If i am a dude and a girlfriend visits me for the first time ,and for no reason goes on a hunting expedition for dirty dishes , i'll definitely find that weird.... I won't be surprised if this same guy in question comes on the internet to blast the girlfriend and girls in general for being a pretentious lot if that happened to be the case.

Finally, I think ladies should have good manners(not restricted to ladies) and also be themselves at all times...It isn't cool to over do things, eg turning yourself into a slave/maid just to impress a boyfriend (everything should be done in moderation).... The truth is,whoever loves you loves you in spite of your shortcomings....Don't goan kee yourself on top chores ,cos you want to please somebody whose heart is already with another girl who probably doesn't even do anything at all.

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Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool,see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

Just imagine!...and he's even ranting with all confidence...chai, gals have suffered oooo

No no no I won't this. Especially on first time basis, and please guys learn to keep your surroundings clean. If you are a busy person you can just employ the services of a cleaner to tidy up, that's allowed still.

Fact ; A girlfriend is not obligated to do chores for a boyfriend and a boyfriend is not obligated to anything for a girlfriend finacially.

Sometimes men hype ladies and make it look like they are offering too much in a relationship with this chores of a shii.

What d'fvck is chores? Clean guys can never crave for women to do chores for them, they'll clean their house, do the cooking , even when the lady is around and make her useless, she'll start questioning herself and feeling uncomfortable with your acts, she'll then realize how useless you are turning her, make them look useful only on bed and watch how they'll force themselves to do chores for you

Ladies will come to social media to claim they love men that can cook, but it's a big lie, in reality they don't pray to have a boyfriend that can cook better, it's a threat to them, i'v seen lots of them

We men sometimes make them look useful with chores and cooking, that's why they are quick to ask for money and start depending on you.

Ovoko4u:
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Just imagine!...and he's even ranting with all confidence...chai, gals have suffered oooo

imagine.
that she didn't do the work of girlfriending.
some of these guys are annoyingly useless.

Olalan:
As much as the girl isn't in anyway obligated to do the cleaning, [s]her doing it would earn her some respect from the guy, it's just like borrowing a car for use and not refuelling it, thou you aren't obligated to refuel but if you do you have earned some respect for yourself

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trash trash trash.
take your respect to the kitchen by doing the needful.keep your kitchen neat,sweep and scrub.
don't be a lazy youth.

so long she's your girlfriend and not wife, you have no reason whatsoever to complain about not being birthed,brushed or cooked for.Dafuq,what are you guys turning ladies into??

is she your slave or your Nanny?

So?

OP (castedayo), I am also dissapointed in reading your English.

medexico:
little things as that goes a long way for a man but girls won't understand

I swear

Good morning Nairalanders! hope y'all had splendid night? I wish y'all a successful day.


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back to topic: This topic is a breakfast for feminist.
They'll be here in 1.......2.......3
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modified: they've already arrived before me.


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Any girl who visits' met a dirty dishes without washing........... dump her......

Don't blame her, it's the way she was brought up. no good home training.. Next time, talk sense into her..

Preshy561:
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trash trash trash.
take your respect to the kitchen by doing the needful.keep your kitchen neat,sweep and scrub.
don't be a lazy youth.

so long she's your girlfriend and not wife, you have no reason whatsoever to complain about not being birthed,brushed or cooked for.Dafuq,what are you guys turning ladies into??

is she your slave or your Nanny?

U sound so pained and, taking it personal also. It is the man that will marry a woman not the other way round. So the woman must show some qualities of a wife b4 she will become one. You can't do overnight as a wife wat u couldn't do as a gf.

Please, be humble. Men are Lords to women, and must be respected. I never made it so. The make himself (God) made it so.

Okay we don hear. Next one please

Preshy561:
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trash trash trash.
take your respect to the kitchen by doing the needful.keep your kitchen neat,sweep and scrub.
don't be a lazy youth.

so long she's your girlfriend and not wife, you have no reason whatsoever to complain about not being birthed,brushed or cooked for.Dafuq,what are you guys turning ladies into??

is she your slave or your Nanny?
No

opinions will always differ , that doesn't negate his view in anyway. You shouldn't have trashed his view just like that.

CastedAyo:
A Durban based man and a Twitter , @VJBritemnLive who invited her girlfriend to his house for the first time ever is mad at mad at her for spending time at his place and leaving without washing the dishes.

Read his tweet below;
"I invited my girlfriend for the first time ever at my place & I was extremely disappointed to be honest, she came this morning & left without even washing dishes let alone some cleaning. I thought this one was actually wife material but she entirely failed this girlfriending test"

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/05/man-disappointed-after-his-girlfriend-left-his-house-without-washing-the-dishes.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Why are u screaming blue murder, just treat her as a Fling and continue searching. It's obvious she is an unrepentant SLAY QUEEN

ybalogs:
opinions will always differ , that doesn't negate his view in anyway. You shouldn't have trashed his view just like that.

he shouldn't be a lazy youth.
what happened to his legs and hands?
can't he work for it.


turning ladies to kitchen instruments.

What if she didn't check the kitchen , you said she came in the morning and left, so its possible she didn't know na,

just saying ....
and what ifnshe was testing you to know if your are a husband material ?




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the devil is just testing both of you to know who has common sense jae

Looking for who would do his dishes! Is his hand bandaged?

Lol... See as girls they foam for mouth like say they wan die for this thread . This one pain them

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Lisaflex:
It depends on how it all went down....

First of all, she didn't sleep over 4 you to say she didn't do any chore in the morning before leaving (depends on how early she needs to leave sef).

Secondly, she was visiting for the first time... The only reason i will offer to do the dishes in a boyfriend's house(not sleeping over) I'm visiting for the first time is if i ate food during the time of visit...The dude is even supposed to be gracious enough to refuse the offer, except the girl insists.

If i am a dude and a girlfriend visits me for the first time ,and for no reason goes on a hunting expedition for dirty dishes , i'll definitely find that weird.... I won't be surprised if this same guy in question comes on the internet to blast the girlfriend and girls in general for being a pretentious lot if that happened to be the case.

Finally, I think ladies should have good manners(not restricted to ladies) and also be themselves at all times...It isn't cool to over do things, eg turning yourself into a slave/maid just to impress a boyfriend (everything should be done in moderation).... The truth is,whoever loves you loves you in spite of your shortcomings....Don't goan kee yourself on top chores ,cos you want to please somebody whose heart is already with another girl who probably doesn't even do anything at all.

You talk sense, I totally agree.and what kind of man leaves his house dirty when he is expecting potential bar? He should be ashamed of himself.

DrinkLimca:
Don't blame her, it's the way she was brought up. no good home training..
Next time, talk sense into her..

If you actually thought this made sense while typing it, I'd suggest that you visit the nearest hospital for checkup.