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Just for learning sake, please be kind enough (if you are less busy) to share your heart break story here.

Haven't been in a meaningful relationship before but I think I do need to be now (I need to prepare myself for something).

The one I had was in J2 (still a kid), took me almost 2 years to recover.

HeWrites:
Haven't been in a meaningful relationship before but I think I do need to be now (I need to prepare myself for something).

The one I had was in J2 (still a kid), took me almost 2 years to recover.

That one na heart death..Lol

SoapQueen:


That one na heart death..Lol

HeWrites:
Haven't been in a meaningful relationship before but I think I do need to be now (I need to prepare myself for something).

The one I had was in J2 (still a kid), took me almost 2 years to recover.

Share the experience bro, We might learn from it you know?

after spending 30 days in the church doing fasting and praying, my cousin still lost her cute angel, that's the only issue that has broken my heart, what could be worse than that?

Rangojack:
Just for learning sake, please be kind enough (if you are less busy) to share your heart break story here.

You,share your own..

SoapQueen:

That one na heart death..Lol

Na so

Rangojack:

Share the experience bro, We might learn from it you know?

I was 15 years old then. There's nothing you can learn from a relationship of that age na

heartbreak is when he promised #300,000 but gave me #295,000

highpriestess:
heartbreak is when he promised #300,000 but gave me #295,000

I tell you girl men can be funny atimes

elyna:
after spending 30 days in the church doing fasting and praying, my cousin still lost her cute angel, that's the only issue that has broken my heart, what could be worse than that?

Eyah, so sorry about that. I have been there, so I can relate.

Can't share because its a long story

But one thing I want guys to learn is that if Ur gf best friend don't like Ur gf relationship with u,,,pls don't bother to cherish the relationship because Ur gf friend will make Ur gf cheat on u so well.

Ladies are easily convinced by there friends

The only ''Heart break i gat was in 1997 when i sok ma Garri keep jejely but d Kuli-Kuli beside it was kidnapped. What a great lost

RIP my dear Kuli-Kuli ( Cause i know you are long dead )

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell you girl men can be funny atimes

very funny set up people.

SoapQueen:



You,share your own..

I had this promising relationship with this lovely girl, we were more than lovers, we were good friends. Initially no secrets,everything was so sweet. I loved her sha!
I tried to meet her needs too when she's down,in short we were thinking towards marriage.
Until she suddenly changed. She will shout for me like this ehn?,smh, I really don suffer o. She'd leave me in the midst of a conversation and not even care to come back, she started calling me Mr. xyz (real name withheld) in our conversations,she did many things enough to make me mad and just call it quit but guess what? I was in love, I just thought twas mood swing or something. When I saw that it was getting out of hands, I started watching out. Behold she started telling red lies(that's what I call Lies that the liar forgot he/she has told),yet I played along however at that point I asked her what was wrong with us?
She refused to talk,she said I won't force words out of her mouth,after much pestering she talked! She wanted out, she said I should pause anything called love between us, she started saying this and that....I gave her space (in pains, Choi! I don love sha) and asked again and she said I was too good for her. Like seriously? Have I ever condemned you? She said No. Have I ever this,that she said No. Have I offended you? She said No, We can make it work na. I begged this girl "taya" but she refused to "gree". I'd call her like this,she won't answer,she refused to see me sef. At that point I knew her heart is now elsewhere. I woke up to the reality!
It was very painful to know that someone I love and I thought loved me back could just wake up one morning and say She doesn't want me again.I'd planned the future with her, she left me all to myself to achieve it alone. I still miss her sha. I was really wounded in my heart then too,she left me with no choice than to believe that Love is scam!

olaleks007:
Can't share because its a long story

But one thing I want guys to learn is that if Ur gf best friend don't like Ur gf relationship with u,,,pls don't bother to cherish the relationship because Ur gf friend will make Ur gf cheat on u so well.

Ladies are easily convinced by there friends

Hmmm, now I wish you can just tell us the story. Please na

olaleks007:
Can't share because its a long story

But one thing I want guys to learn is that if Ur gf best friend don't like Ur gf relationship with u,,,pls don't bother to cherish the relationship because Ur gf friend will make Ur gf cheat on u so well.

Ladies are easily convinced by there friends

Not all ladies o ¿

Rangojack:


I had this promising relationship with this lovely girl, we were more than lovers, we were good friends. Initially no secrets,everything was so sweet. I loved her sha!
I tried to meet her needs too when she's down,in short we were thinking towards marriage.
Until she suddenly changed. She will shout for me like this ehn?,smh, I really don suffer o. She'd leave me in the midst of a conversation and not even care to come back, she started calling me Mr. xyz (real name withheld) in our conversations,she did many things enough to make me mad and just call it quit but guess what? I was in love, I just thought twas mood swing or something. When I saw that it was getting out of hands, I started watching out. Behold she started telling red lies(that's what I call Lies that the liar forgot he/she has told),yet I played along however at that point I asked her what was wrong with us?
She refused to talk,she said I won't force words out of her mouth,after much pestering she talked! She wanted out, she said I should pause anything called love between us, she started saying this and that....I gave her space (in pains, Choi! I don love sha) and asked again and she said I was too good for her. Like seriously? Have I ever condemned you? She said No. Have I ever this,that she said No. Have I offended you? She said No, We can make it work na. I begged this girl "taya" but she refused to "gree". I'd call her like this,she won't answer,she refused to see me sef. At that point I knew her heart is now elsewhere. I woke up to the reality!
It was very painful to know that someone I love and I thought loved me back could just wake up one morning and say She doesn't want me again.I'd planned the future with her, she left me all to myself to achieve it alone. I still miss her sha. I was really wounded in my heart then too,she left me believing that Love is scam!

Jeezz, I feel your pain, been there too.... When the love is one-sided, it will always fail

BooTina:

Jeezz, I feel your pain, been there too.... When the love is one-sided, it will always fail

Thanks sis. I like your words "when love is one-sided, it will always fail"

Rangojack:

Thanks sis. I like your words "when love is one-sided, it will always fail"

and when love is two seconded will it survive

agbonkamen:
and when love is two seconded will it survive

If Love is two-sided in a relationship,it's most likely to survive ma, because both of you will want to make it work.

Rangojack:


I had this promising relationship with this lovely girl, we were more than lovers, we were good friends. Initially no secrets,everything was so sweet. I loved her sha!
I tried to meet her needs too when she's down,in short we were thinking towards marriage.
Until she suddenly changed. She will shout for me like this ehn?,smh, I really don suffer o. She'd leave me in the midst of a conversation and not even care to come back, she started calling me Mr. xyz (real name withheld) in our conversations,she did many things enough to make me mad and just call it quit but guess what? I was in love, I just thought twas mood swing or something. When I saw that it was getting out of hands, I started watching out. Behold she started telling red lies(that's what I call Lies that the liar forgot he/she has told),yet I played along however at that point I asked her what was wrong with us?
She refused to talk,she said I won't force words out of her mouth,after much pestering she talked! She wanted out, she said I should pause anything called love between us, she started saying this and that....I gave her space (in pains, Choi! I don love sha) and asked again and she said I was too good for her. Like seriously? Have I ever condemned you? She said No. Have I ever this,that she said No. Have I offended you? She said No, We can make it work na. I begged this girl "taya" but she refused to "gree". I'd call her like this,she won't answer,she refused to see me sef. At that point I knew her heart is now elsewhere. I woke up to the reality!
It was very painful to know that someone I love and I thought loved me back could just wake up one morning and say She doesn't want me again.I'd planned the future with her, she left me all to myself to achieve it alone. I still miss her sha. I was really wounded in my heart then too,she left me with no choice than to believe that Love is scam!

exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

Started boarding, from d age of five, pry1. Cried my eyes out till JS3.

Now, everyone thinks, I'm heartless

Yet to see/meet d relationship or situation, I can't walk away from. Iyalaya love


Just don't call my bluff

Danty37:

exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

Oh my God! Trust me, you are still hurting. Please, don't wish her bad. Please. Just move on.
Modified:

So, apparently some peeps are a bit unhappy that I said the guy should move on, they said I don't know what it means to be heartbroken. Lol.

To answer their question. Yes,I have experienced heartbreaks.

When? Presently, I am healing from a heartbreak. This is a situation that had me going to the Doctor's on Friday because my of my heart rate. A guy I loved genuinely didn't only go cold turkey on me, he called me names FOR NO REASON. This is same person that begged and begged him to give him a chance. My mental health nose dived.

It is imperative to know that we ought to take care of ourselves. Pain is worse when you feel you have brought it on yourself.

I will still say, move on please.

Danty37:

exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

I feel your pain bro. But stop cursing her,karma they say is a bitch, she will meet her waterloo for deceiving you whether you curse her or not, so leave her to God. One thing I am sure of is that we will naturally get a better person in place of any hoe that left. Sorry bro.

SoapQueen:




Oh my God! Trust me, you are still hurting. Please, don't wish her bad. Please. Just move on.

Yea.. Thanks.. It got to the point that I always use my monthly and feeding allowance for her.. I will buy clothes, she will take them all.. Took my ATM card to Justrite to buy whatever she likes all in the name of love... Tell me why God won't punish her.. And as for me Daniel, I thought I was in love..

Rangojack:

I feel your pain bro. But stop cursing her,karma they say is a bitch, she will meet her waterloo for deceiving you whether you curse her or not, so leave her to God. One thing I am sure of is that we will naturally get a better person in place of any hoe that left. Sorry bro.

thanks bro.. I have moved on but I regret everything I ever did to her.

Danty37:


thanks bro.. I have moved on but I regret everything I ever did to her.

Same here. If I mention the things I sacrificed in my own ordeal all in the name of love, you will marvel.
Love is scam; my conclusion. Girls? Fear them.
Yet they'd be acting as if guys are the alpha & omega of heart break.

Danty37:

exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine.....
I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family..

I feel your pain but please allow God to judge and take revenge.
Sometimes, things like this could eventually be for our own good.
If only man can see beyond the physical, maybe we would rather be thankful to God.