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After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serious affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay for it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

emmyeuler1:
After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serous affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay fir it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

Cut your loss and move on.
You are an undergraduate.The most important companionship you need now is with your books.

This sh#t happens all the time.We've been there too.Spend more time developing yourself as an undergraduate.Relationships distract and often is a waste of time.

Take heart and move on.

emmyeuler1:
After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serous affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay fir it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

Mumu......better face your studies,
Graduate,
Make money so you can afford a Sex Doll

u want to go spiritual? I can see u have no means of lively hood

Congratulations: that lady is not a wife material, she couldnt have been faithful wife to you. Law of karmal will soon get her.

Relationship is not a do or die affair... If it does not work out as planned, u move on with ur life...there are other ladies willing & ready to be with u. Stop thinking negatively by "going spiritual"

sometimes God wants us to change our boat so we dont sink..bro instead of punishing her..be her best friend.

Iphone5:


Mumu......better face your studies, Graduate, Make money so you can afford a Sex Doll

sex doll

baba Love isn't something you can control it comes like a spell and just livz in a weird way! just be cool and wait for the right Gal! dm plenty even d ones wy gap ur old babe! chill bro

Sorry bro.... Just move on

emmyeuler1:
After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serous affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay fir it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

Pay her back with a First Class result from school!!!!

love can be very intangible.....
she forgot you for reasons best know to her (probably money)
now it is time for you to forget her. let her go and dont beg her

in life i trust just 3 pepople
me, i and myself.
i advice you to do thesame especially when it comes to girls who are very erratic

rotex4real:


Pay her back with a First Class result from school!!!!

pharmacy doesn't operate on a 2-1,1-1 scale of grading

Go which spiritual? You dated her for 5yrs?
And you're still an undergraduate on top?
Are you a padlock boyfriend or what?

Maybe she read that thread on how unmarried ladies above 30 are evening newspapers. The babe wants to be fresh early morning newspaper. The type they supply to banks...

The sad reality is: lots of you will keep getting dumped for older, committed, responsible and financially stable guys. These kinda guys are believed to be more futuristic. Sorry ehn, find another girl in first year and date. Na there your wife dey, all things being equal.

Byebye...

I don't know her but I will help her say this prayer: Any spiritual force you attempt to use on her will come back to you 1000 folds in Jesus Name. Amen

Idiot is she your wife that you are thinking of using spiritual forces against her

Move on brother...
Relationship no be do or die na...
There are so many fishes in the river....
Your soulmate would surely come by...

912:
I don't know her but I will help her say this prayer: Any spiritual force you attempt to use on her will come back to you 1000 folds in Jesus Name. Amen

Idiot is she your wife that you are thinking of using spiritual forces against her

bro we had an agreement and she didn't keep to it.Do u know what input I have made into her to get to her present height?do u know the sacrifices I have made....you don't talk like that bro....U don't even know the pain I am battling with due to shock

make more money before relationship una no go hear

Some people sef... They will just be looking for ways to tie down their fellow human beings. A relationship is a matter of choice, she broke up with you because she doesn't see any future with you, you are and undergraduate and still have quite a long way to go. You should focus on your studies and what you intend to do after school to stand financially, she leaving you gives you a better opportunity to achieve that. You should be grateful not being spiritually wicked and diabolic.

Really

bro,I understand how you feel and you don't need to do any spiritual thing on her.all what you need is to just keep moving with your life and be very hardworking I know she will finally regret what she did

Even if you are with someone for 10 years, is it by force to marry that person. Love is not enough abeg, and she possibly couldnt see herself spending the rest of her life with you. Its heart breaking but you will get over it in time. Move on please and let everybody live their happily ever after.

deafeyez:


sex doll

abi nah, that seems like their(girls) greatest threat at the moment

make money. That's the best revenge.

emmyeuler1:
After 5yrs of dating,companionship and serous affection,my girlfriend finally dumped me for a banker.We are both undergraduates of the Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife and about entering final year.I just discovered a change in attitude on her part.She finally opened up that she was no longer interested and started dating a banker who works at the Access bank located inside the OAU campus.Please should I go spiritual by making her pay fir it or ignore it?...I need ur advice

she made the best decision to have left you.... if you have the natural instinct of going spiritual what you should be concerned about now is how u left jesus not how nyash left you.

emmyeuler1:
bro we had an agreement and she didn't keep to it.Do u know what input I have made into her to get to her present height?do u know the sacrifices I have made....you don't talk like that bro....U don't even know the pain I am battling with due to shock

I sympathise with you regarding your broken heart and I know heart break can be brutal. However, even considering to go the length of soliciting diabolical means to get back at her is unthinkable and crazy. So because she left you your plan now is to destroy her life. That means you never loved her and you have a wicked heart. So if you guys were married only God knows what you would have done to her then.

You are still in school concentrate on your studies and make something meaningful of your life. Relationship issues shouldn't be your problem now

Heartbreak is not an easy battle bro. But don't add another problem to yourself by going spiritual. Brace yourself and move on. There are more to life than one stupid heartbreaker out there. I bet you she will surely regret her actions

Bro... Which one Be Spiritual again? Abi u be Ritualist... Woman Leaving Shouldn't be a Problem... Abi u wan Carry d PoPo For Head... Since ur In ur Finals Focus and Come out with Gud Result Work hard and Succeed in Life.... U Neva Even Meet Women... Ur Going Spiritual For Ur Class Girl... Nawa uoooh

Arghh, they are all the same, bro ride on nd leave her alone, better things are ahead of you.
But if na me, iffa get smtin wey past spiritual self, i go use m knack m. 5 yrs no b bean nah

pocohantas:
Go which spiritual? You dated her for 5yrs?
And you're still an undergraduate on top?
Are you a padlock boyfriend or what?

Maybe she read that thread on how unmarried ladies above 30 are evening newspapers. The babe wants to be fresh early morning newspaper. The type they supply to banks...

Lots of you will keep getting dumped for older, responsible and financially stable guys. These kinda guys are believed to be more futuristic. Sorry ehn, find another girl in first year and date.
Na there your wife dey, all things being equal.

Byebye...

You must not comment anyways. If the guy were to be millionaire as an undergraduate shey the girl would have been loyal to stay. Is all good.

viyon02:
Congratulations: that lady is not a wife material, she couldnt have been faithful wife to you. Law of karmal will soon get her.

Abeg whch one is law of Karma? is she his wife already? who tell u dt he has an intention of marryin her? dea is nothing like karma here