NewStats: 3,262,576 , 8,177,570 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 08:14 PM 29725i

Have you ever been around a girl who breathes and lives because of her boyfriend?
Well, I have and it is sickening, some may say that it is because I was jealous but the wise ones would know that people who have their own lives are worth respecting. She could be your best friend, sister or any female companion in your life and every time she get’s into a relationship she acts as if she was born with this guy. Like they shared a womb (which would be disgusting) but honestly, she is annoying in every way because her life is centered around the love of her life. Here are signs that your life is centered around your boyfriend and it is sickening.

1. You have to text and call him all the time even when he doesn’t respond.
I mean, don’t you have other people you can use your airtime on. Call him all you want when you’re alone that doesn’t affect the rest of us but please with all due respect when you’re around people spend time with them and call your boyfriend later.

2. Every activity you do you must give an example of how he does it.
No one else cares sweety and if he is so good then maybe you should stick to doing it with him only. Praising your other half every once in a while is okay but every time is irritating.

Ok

3. You can’t confirm meeting your family or friends because you need to know when you two will meet first.
Surely, why did your friends and family become second class citizens. They were there before this man and if he leaves you, you will need them to listen to your problems.

4. You stopped having your own hobbies and took his instead.
All of a sudden you like football, and you almost like beer. Please give us a break and bring the person we knew back.

Girls please stop asking boys for money, it's irritating!

5. Your social media is just of him and you yet he never even posts you.
Surely, why must your social media be flooded with pictures of you and your boyfriend? Then when we go stalk him he has photos of him golfing, swimming and hanging out with the boys. You need to style up.

I'm not going to read!

6. You’re always at his place cooking and cleaning after him.
Yet you left your house or your mother’s looking like garbage.Shame on you.

You post this and he still doesn't give a shit!!! It's high time we ladies learn to do things because we want to.. Loose weight because it's healthy and not to please him, do everything we love because we only live once... Because these men don't give a shit.

Some ladies can't survive without a boyfriend

They usually think they are nothing without having the guy around or calling him all the time...

7. You cannot make future goals or plans without thinking about him and you’re not even married.
How sure are you he will be there? And if he will be why can’t you still have your own dreams and hopes? You wanted to do something really important to your life but now two months into dating this guy you start telling us I can’t do this I can't do that because of him.

8. You don’t have any friends anymore because he is enough as a friend.
Yeah you ditched your friends until the time you have issues then you run to them and they are not interested. Please do not be alarmed if we are no longer interested.

That's too much love..... sometimes such guy interest in the relationship will reduce based on too much monitoring....some girls can call like anything...the guy no be Customer care Na.....and if he no pick Na wahala

Ladycloud:
You post this and he still doesn't give a shit!!! It's high time we ladies learn to do things because we want to.. Loose weight because it's healthy and not to please him, do everything we love because we only live once... Because these men don't give a shit.

That's why I usually ignore "The ideal wife material" threads.

9. You obsessively think about him every second and analyze his every move.
Get a life.

Archangel15:
Girls please stop asking boys for money, it's irritating!

But that's not what the op is about nau.

makydebbie:
But that's not what the op is about nau.

And how is that any of your concern

10. He has at least once or twice asked you if you have other hobbies apart from him.
This is because he is tired of you crowding his space and he is giving you the hint, like we need space kind of hint.

Archangel15:


And how is that any of your concern

Sorry.

makydebbie:
That's why I usually ignore "The ideal wife material" threads.

lol I can understand why

11. If he is not around you’re sad and won’t have any plans.
You can’t think of anyone to hang out with or have any plans if it is not with him. It’s just a travesty, it really is.

12. You do everything to impress him at all times even when you don’t like it.
Yet he doesn’t even try that hard and you already walk around talking about the chocolates he bought for you. Meanwhile you’re even trying to speak better English for this man. Just stop it!

Ladycloud:
lol I can understand why

It's just better to be yourself and make yourself a better person. But changing your whole person to suit a man is on a desperate level which never ends well.
But then, I'm loving this thread and the OP's points. Op go on jare, we dey your back.

13. He is literally your air and everything and it is nauseating to everyone else.
In short who are you anyways?


https://omgvoice.com/relationships/signs-life-centered-around-boyfriend-sickening
Cc: Lalasticlala

See dem, forming feminist until their time almost runs out, then they realise their place in d order of nature.

mizzbuqui:
5. Your social media is just of him and you yet he never even posts you.
Surely, why must your social media be flooded with pictures of you and your boyfriend? Then when we go stalk him he has photos of him golfing, swimming and hanging out with the boys. You need to style up.

Juliet Ibrahim comes to mind.

Archangel15:
Girls please stop asking boys for money, it's irritating!

How is it irritating?

habsydiamond:
That's too much love..... sometimes such guy interest in the relationship will reduce based on too much monitoring....some girls can call like anything...the guy no be Customer care Na.....and if he no pick Na wahala

makydebbie:
Juliet Ibrahim comes to mind.

Yeah yeah

I like your points @Op. I just wish ladies out there can just learn ...