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I tell you, love exist love exist, not in place like Nigeria. Yes love exist in places like Mexico, Puerto Rico, Philippines and even in India but certainly not in Nigeria.

At least you see true and ionate love in Zeeworld, Telemundo (Mauricio vs Mirinda) and some other soaps that you watch.

But here in Nigeria, the moment you accept to date a girl just know that you have accepted to date her problems and possibly the problems of her immediate and extended family , for that is the only way that most Nigerian girls can be in a sustainable relationship, always demanding you to solve one problem or the other anytime she calls you.

What is even wrong with our Nigerian girls, is it that they no longer know problems that are reserved for their parents to solve and the ones that their boyfriends can assist on?

At least I was a little happy for one girl that I was chatting with yesterday that told me that she asked her father to buy her a replacement phone battery, though her dad turned the request down, but at least for even demanding that from her dad was a good move.

I later gave her scope on how she would get a better response from her dad.

Yes I used that as an example because it's quite rare to see Nigerian girls making such demands from their parents as all they know is turning to their boyfriends for any and every single problem they have, and they would even carry their family problems to their boyfriends to solve.

They would call you and demand for recharge card, hair cream, powder, money to plait new hair, fix nails. They would even let you know that their provisions is finished and that you need to buy for them.

House rent, they will call, their mama is sick they would want you to foot the bills. In fact they would even call you to buy panties for them, only because you have just opened up your mouth to ask them out.

And all you get as a guy from them is false show of love, they will claim they love you only because those things they get from you, without you even knowing that other guys are taking free scholarships behind you and helping you together to shine their congos in your absence.

In fact Nigerian girls "I love you I love you" truly suck for they only profess this love when you are flowing with them in their unending demands.

Talk of birthday, you would hardly ask a girl out and she tells that her birthday just ed, it is mostly my birthday is coming up so so date in front and guess what, they are expecting you to foot the bills of the birthday celebration or do something extraordinary.

Nigeria girls, why are you like that? Does it mean that one can no longer love a Nigerian girl while maintaining his peace?

It is very very annoying when Nigerian girls become a burden upon you just for asking her out instead of being your gentle soul mate or that companion that gives you joy and that brings a lot into your friendship/relationship.

I just tire for una abeg. One girl 2 days ago was demanding for cash that she needs to use it to buy food items cos she is broke. OK I told her to wait let month end that I will assist her with something when I receive payment.

Same girl that we have pending assistance that I want to render her called again this morning, telling me that her mum is sick and that she has no money.. Na wah o.

Omoh, me sef wey my house rent is expiring ending of this month, is that not something that I should focus on.

The most annoying is when they call you and the next is just start pouring out their problems as if they are the only ones in this life with problems.

For me, any girl that thinks she would carry all her problems including that of her family to put on top my small head, that girl is surely on a long thing, she is totally on her own. Thank God that I am not even the type that reason with dik, maybe I will channel them

I haven't read this yet I will come back to read it but I hope you are not saying trash

Hmm

Reason why I get money to date her with her problems

Evaberry:
I haven't read this yet I will come back to read it but I hope you are not saying trash

Please don't bother.
It's absolute trash.

OP, how about you don't generalize and limit it to the spec of girls you know?

Of course, the posters above me are not going to like this..... one already concluding that it is trash and the other in .. My dear(s) ....Use your so called intelligence to make a living for yourselves, that is all he is saying. And for you saying don't generalize. . ........ you don't have to become paranoid about that.. how come you missed the part about the girl who asked her dad for battery replacement ( whom he gave Kudos to). What he is saying is the truth and nothing but the truth. Majority of Nigerian girls see relationships as a job opportunity and nothing more even the self acclaimed feminists that don't even6 understand the meaning of the Word "feminism". What is good for the Goose is also very good for the Gander .. . If ladies have the right to speak out when they are hurt or unhappy, i think that Men also have that right to speak their minds. So finally..... dating or relationships is not a job, and non of the parties involved should see it as such.......

author=Lawlahdey post=60747866]Please don't bother.
It's absolute trash.[/quote] kikiki its a trash in the eyes of ladies ko.because na true.

the moment when one yoruba or igbo girl has dealt with your life.then this kind of topic comes up

Sure

Lawlahdey:
Please don't bother.
It's absolute trash.

OP, how about you don't generalize and limit it to the spec of girls you know?

I guess you are from India

bongolistik:
I guess you are from India

Mumbai to be precise.

. The moment you accept to date him, you don turn second mum to him.

I partially agree with you... Haven't you heard the popular saying... " No finance, No romance ".... Anyway, I think a guy shouldn't be stingy in a relationship but I also think the girl should also be considerate especially about her demands...

In Flavour's voice "I love you I love you bu na'onu"

OP be rest assured that they will come for your head. Hope you are wearing protective helmet

okitikpo:
OP be rest assured that they will come for your head. Hope you are wearing protective helmet

He Needs An Amoury Of Defensive Weapons Cos He Just Open A Thread Of Arsenals

Nice one op we sure will make u. turn

bongolistik:
I tell you, love exist love exist, not in place like Nigeria. Yes love exist in places like Mexico, Puerto Rico, Philippines and even in India but certainly not in Nigeria.

At least you see true and ionate love in Zeeworld, Telemundo (Mauricio vs Mirinda) and some other soaps that you watch.

But here in Nigeria, the moment you accept to date a girl just know that you have accepted to date her problems and possibly the problems of her immediate and extended family , for that is the only way that most Nigerian girls can be in a sustainable relationship, always demanding you to solve one problem or the other anytime she calls you.

What is even wrong with our Nigerian girls, is it that they no longer know problems that are reserved for their parents to solve and the ones that their boyfriends can assist on?

At least I was a little happy for one girl that I was chatting with yesterday that told me that she asked her father to buy her a replacement phone battery, though her dad turned the request down, but at least for even demanding that from her dad was a good move.

I later gave her scope on how she would get a better response from her dad.

Yes I used that as an example because it's quite rare to see Nigerian girls making such demands from their parents as all they know is turning to their boyfriends for any and every single problem they have, and they would even carry their family problems to their boyfriends to solve.

They would call you and demand for recharge card, hair cream, powder, money to plait new hair, fix nails. They would even let you know that their provisions is finished and that you need to buy for them.

House rent, they will call, their mama is sick they would want you to foot the bills. In fact they would even call you to buy panties for them, only because you have just opened up your mouth to ask them out.

And all you get as a guy from them is false show of love, they will claim they love you only because those things they get from you, without you even knowing that other guys are taking free scholarships behind you and helping you together to shine their congos in your absence.

In fact Nigerian girls "I love you I love you" truly suck for they only profess this love when you are flowing with them in their unending demands.

Talk of birthday, you would hardly ask a girl out and she tells that her birthday just ed, it is mostly my birthday is coming up so so date in front and guess what, they are expecting you to foot the bills of the birthday celebration or do something extraordinary.

Nigeria girls, why are you like that? Does it mean that one can no longer love a Nigerian girl while maintaining his peace?

It is very very annoying when Nigerian girls become a burden upon you just for asking her out instead of being your gentle soul mate or that companion that gives you joy and that brings a lot into your friendship/relationship.

I just tire for una abeg. One girl 2 days ago was demanding for cash that she needs to use it to buy food items cos she is broke. OK I told her to wait let month end that I will assist her with something when I receive payment.

Same girl that we have pending assistance that I want to render her called again this morning, telling me that her mum is sick and that she has no money.. Na wah o.

Omoh, me sef wey my house rent is expiring ending of this month, is that not something that I should focus on.

The most annoying is when they call you and the next is just start pouring out their problems as if they are the only ones in this life with problems.

For me, any girl that thinks she would carry all her problems including that of her family to put on top my small head, that girl is surely on a long thing, she is totally on her own. Thank God that I am not even the type that reason with dik, maybe I will channel them

guy be ready for our slay queen they are coming for you soon .

Lizzdeb:
Nice one op we sure will make u. turn

Happy Birthday!!

whats this one saying?

Sekxy don't bother,its trashy.

TGoddess:
Sekxy don't bother,its trashy.

oh thanks dear

Stop dating hungry girls

Lawlahdey:
Please don't bother.
It's absolute trash.

OP, how about you don't generalize and limit it to the spec of girls you know?

Evaberry:
I haven't read this yet I will come back to read it but I hope you are not saying trash

Total bullshit. Don't bother coming back biko, na the usual lamentation of broke guys.

Guy pls send me hi on my whatsap. We really need to talk. Am in d same shoe with u.very urgent.. I will tell u what to do. Cos it works for me08172964029

The poster is right, you trying to date a Nigerian girl is like you chasing her to solve her problem again when you still have yours to handle.

its a guys job to correct this mentality buh majority of us are too pvssy minded to bother. That's where they hook us

All ladies are not same!

Na wa.


Op it's well


Not all Nigerian ladies are like what u portrayed.

Blackhawk01:


Total bullshit. Don't bother coming back biko, na the usual lamentation of broke guys.

so the moment he starts taking all your problems that is when he is not broke? You just affirmed to what op is saying