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If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems (2002 Views)
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bongolistik(m): 11:01am On Sep 23, 2017 |
I tell you, love exist love exist, not in place like Nigeria. Yes love exist in places like Mexico, Puerto Rico, Philippines and even in India but certainly not in Nigeria. At least you see true and ionate love in Zeeworld, Telemundo (Mauricio vs Mirinda) and some other soaps that you watch. But here in Nigeria, the moment you accept to date a girl just know that you have accepted to date her problems and possibly the problems of her immediate and extended family , for that is the only way that most Nigerian girls can be in a sustainable relationship, always demanding you to solve one problem or the other anytime she calls you. What is even wrong with our Nigerian girls, is it that they no longer know problems that are reserved for their parents to solve and the ones that their boyfriends can assist on? At least I was a little happy for one girl that I was chatting with yesterday that told me that she asked her father to buy her a replacement phone battery, though her dad turned the request down, but at least for even demanding that from her dad was a good move. I later gave her scope on how she would get a better response from her dad. Yes I used that as an example because it's quite rare to see Nigerian girls making such demands from their parents as all they know is turning to their boyfriends for any and every single problem they have, and they would even carry their family problems to their boyfriends to solve. They would call you and demand for recharge card, hair cream, powder, money to plait new hair, fix nails. They would even let you know that their provisions is finished and that you need to buy for them. House rent, they will call, their mama is sick they would want you to foot the bills. In fact they would even call you to buy panties for them, only because you have just opened up your mouth to ask them out. And all you get as a guy from them is false show of love, they will claim they love you only because those things they get from you, without you even knowing that other guys are taking free scholarships behind you and helping you together to shine their congos in your absence. In fact Nigerian girls "I love you I love you" truly suck for they only profess this love when you are flowing with them in their unending demands. Talk of birthday, you would hardly ask a girl out and she tells that her birthday just ed, it is mostly my birthday is coming up so so date in front and guess what, they are expecting you to foot the bills of the birthday celebration or do something extraordinary. Nigeria girls, why are you like that? Does it mean that one can no longer love a Nigerian girl while maintaining his peace? It is very very annoying when Nigerian girls become a burden upon you just for asking her out instead of being your gentle soul mate or that companion that gives you joy and that brings a lot into your friendship/relationship. I just tire for una abeg. One girl 2 days ago was demanding for cash that she needs to use it to buy food items cos she is broke. OK I told her to wait let month end that I will assist her with something when I receive payment. Same girl that we have pending assistance that I want to render her called again this morning, telling me that her mum is sick and that she has no money.. Na wah o. Omoh, me sef wey my house rent is expiring ending of this month, is that not something that I should focus on. The most annoying is when they call you and the next is just start pouring out their problems as if they are the only ones in this life with problems. For me, any girl that thinks she would carry all her problems including that of her family to put on top my small head, that girl is surely on a long thing, she is totally on her own. Thank God that I am not even the type that reason with dik, maybe I will channel them 4 Likes |
Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 23, 2017 |
I haven't read this yet I will come back to read it but I hope you are not saying trash
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franklyncj: 11:02am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Hmm
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9jayes: 11:03am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Reason why I get money to date her with her problems
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Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 11:04am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Evaberry:Please don't bother. It's absolute trash. OP, how about you don't generalize and limit it to the spec of girls you know? |
planetx13: 11:06am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Of course, the posters above me are not going to like this..... one already concluding that it is trash and the other in .. My dear(s) ....Use your so called intelligence to make a living for yourselves, that is all he is saying. And for you saying don't generalize. . ........ you don't have to become paranoid about that.. how come you missed the part about the girl who asked her dad for battery replacement ( whom he gave Kudos to). What he is saying is the truth and nothing but the truth. Majority of Nigerian girls see relationships as a job opportunity and nothing more even the self acclaimed feminists that don't even6 understand the meaning of the Word "feminism". What is good for the Goose is also very good for the Gander .. . If ladies have the right to speak out when they are hurt or unhappy, i think that Men also have that right to speak their minds. So finally..... dating or relationships is not a job, and non of the parties involved should see it as such.......
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mikejj(m): 11:07am On Sep 23, 2017 |
![]() ![]() It's absolute trash.[/quote] kikiki its a trash in the eyes of ladies ko.because na true. 1 Like |
mikejj(m): 11:09am On Sep 23, 2017 |
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Homeboiy: 11:12am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Sure
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bongolistik(m): 11:22am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:I guess you are from India ![]() ![]() |
Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 11:25am On Sep 23, 2017 |
bongolistik:Mumbai to be precise. |
Adaumunocha(f): 11:29am On Sep 23, 2017 |
. The moment you accept to date him, you don turn second mum to him.
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SmellingAnus(m): 11:31am On Sep 23, 2017 |
I partially agree with you... Haven't you heard the popular saying... " No finance, No romance ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Belosconi: 11:39am On Sep 23, 2017 |
In Flavour's voice "I love you I love you bu na'onu"
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okitikpo: 12:11pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
OP be rest assured that they will come for your head. Hope you are wearing protective helmet
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charleff512(m): 12:40pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
okitikpo:He Needs An Amoury Of Defensive Weapons Cos He Just Open A Thread Of Arsenals |
Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 12:55pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Nice one op we sure will make u. turn
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zolapower: 2:25pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
bongolistik:guy be ready for our slay queen they are coming for you soon . |
IamLEGEND1: 2:29pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
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drunkpunk(m): 2:36pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Lizzdeb:Happy Birthday!! |
Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 2:38pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
whats this one saying?
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Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 2:41pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Sekxy don't bother,its trashy.
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Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
TGoddess:oh thanks dear |
Kobicove(m): 5:14pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Stop dating hungry girls ![]() |
Ladyjumong(f): 5:44pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: ![]() ![]() |
Blackhawk01: 5:47pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Evaberry: Total bullshit. Don't bother coming back biko, na the usual lamentation of broke guys. ![]() |
Experience285(m): 5:59pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Guy pls send me hi on my whatsap. We really need to talk. Am in d same shoe with u.very urgent.. I will tell u what to do. Cos it works for me08172964029
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Tosinville(m): 7:00pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
The poster is right, you trying to date a Nigerian girl is like you chasing her to solve her problem again when you still have yours to handle.
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Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
its a guys job to correct this mentality buh majority of us are too pvssy minded to bother. That's where they hook us
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dorin27(f): 8:27pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
All ladies are not same!
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Re: If You Ask A Nigerian Girl Out, Know That You Have Accepted To Date Her Problems by Nobody: 8:46pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
Na wa. Op it's well Not all Nigerian ladies are like what u portrayed. |
okitikpo: 7:27am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:so the moment he starts taking all your problems that is when he is not broke? You just affirmed to what op is saying |
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