NewStats: 3,262,899 , 8,178,497 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 June 2025 at 01:22 AM 2s5p4d

Extrazee:

Awww! Beauty with brains. If you're not married yet, I pray for a good and loving husband for you.
You understand the issue. Some fools are even in of a vasectomy and some said condoms.
Why would a married man use condom? Even if he decides to use condom, it's not the best option. For sexually active couples, it won't work. It's bound to fail one day.

Abeg, go and sit down. Man of responsibility indeed. I guess you're one of them. When you evil, it'll get back to you one day.

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that is if I really do evil. Huh?

Fourwinds:
ofcourse I have heard of dat....dat was exactly what d man did but d wife secretly discarded it and it resulted to pregnancy...this is how d man got to know something is fishy

does condom sound strange?

my dear the man got what he bargained for

smith666999:


does condom sound strange?

my dear the man got what he bargained for

young man if woman tie wrapper., does she need to wear skirt again...if d woman feels she is not comfortable with d contraception she should have told d husband then if he fails to wear protection u can now blame him

Fourwinds:
young man if woman tie wrapper., does she need to wear skirt again...if d woman feels she is not comfortable with d contraception she should have told d husband then if he fails to wear protection u can now blame him

am sure there is nothing called "withdrawal" method, we all got that skill naturally that saved the day for us.

Extrazee:

Smh... This is exactly why most of you are beaten blue-black like Mercy Aigbe.
You always claim right for silly reasons. I guess the man should have a vasectomy to prove he's helpful and part of the family planning.

Really? That's all you can say? Silly reasons? So I guess a woman is always responsible for a guy beating her abi? The woman is always at the wrong I guess.

The funny thing is that I asked another person the exact question I asked you and he answered it more reasonably and without any sentiment.
No one said the wife had no blame in the issue but why is the husband putting the whole blame on her as if she did it alone. Besides you shouldn't make judgements with just one side of a story, there are always two sides of it (unless you've concluded that the wife is always at the wrong)

I'm not being sentimental nor am I siding with the wife cause I'm a girl but people always think they're right base on their point of veiw. If the man doesn't want more children why can't he have a vascotomy? Because he's a man and he isn't supposed to or what? There are different ways you could've answered the questions that'll be reasonable and objective but you gave no valid answer except excusing domestic violence against women.

emperormossad:

Because of the convenience and reliability of that method. If she hadn't removed it, most likely this complaint will not come up, baring a 'miracle'. Permanent sterilization methods are available but they also have their consequences on the sex lives of those involved. That's why hormonal methods are preferred, easily reversible when needed, cost-effective and satisfying.

Really, I love your answer. It makes a lot of sense and isn't sentimental.

Onyochejohn:
you are just brainless

Which tribe and state are you from
I will like to know

Ode.

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yoruba people and their family wahala shaa
So they even born like rabbit sef .
The "educated people"..
Same people dat were shadding a couple here sometime ago for giving birth to 6. .

Wat sucks here is not ur "giving birth to many" rather ur hypocrisy.. i don taya for una ooh

Extrazee:

Awww! Beauty with brains. If you're not married yet, I pray for a good and loving husband for you.
You understand the issue. Some fools are even in of a vasectomy and some said condoms.
Why would a married man use condom? Even if he decides to use condom, it's not the best option. For sexually active couples, it won't work. It's bound to fail one day

I'll invite you .

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"The woman deserves no merci" coolzeal

Angel196:


Really? That's all you can say? Silly reasons? So I guess a woman is always responsible for a guy beating her abi? The woman is always at the wrong I guess.

The funny thing is that I asked another person the exact question I asked you and he answered it more reasonably and without any sentiment.
No one said the wife had no blame in the issue but why is the husband putting the whole blame on her as if she did it alone. Besides you shouldn't make judgements with just one side of a story, there are always two sides of it (unless you've concluded that the wife is always at the wrong)

I'm not being sentimental nor am I siding with the wife cause I'm a girl but people always think they're right base on their point of veiw. If the man doesn't want more children why can't he have a vascotomy? Because he's a man and he isn't supposed to or what? There are different ways you could've answered the questions that'll be reasonable and objective but you gave no valid answer except excusing domestic violence against women.

Humour me, how old are you?

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yoruba people and their family wahala shaa
So they even born like rabbit sef .
The "educated people"..
Same people dat were shadding a couple here sometime ago for giving birth to 6. .

Wat sucks here is not ur "giving birth to many" rather ur hypocrisy.. i don taya for una ooh

are you dumb, did you read the what the husby said?. is the hubby not a yoruba man?.

Extrazee:
Humour me, how old are you?

I'm young. The not married kind of young if that's what you are really asking.

Angel196:


I'm young. The not married kind of young if that's what you are really asking.

I can understand the reason for your posts now. I knew I was arguing with an inexperienced person.
Get back to me on this when you're older or married. You have no idea what you're arguing about.
Have fun.

Extrazee:

I can understand the reason for your posts now. I knew I was arguing with an inexperienced person.
Get back to me on this when you're older or married. You have no idea what you're arguing about.
Have fun.

Hahaha, really, I knew that's what you were going to say. But believe me, age doesn't always have effect on experience or maturity.

Yes, I've never been married but that doesn't mean I haven't seen and witnessed enough marital clashes between husbands and wives to know you can't judgment base on one side of a story.
Plus my parents weren't a firm believer of shielding children (if they are 16 and above) from marriage troubles until they get married with absolutely no clue about it.

Marriage isn't easy. It's not the 'so in love' 'happily ever after' people think it is. Anyone who wants to succeed in marriage has to be a lot of things, especially patient, responsible, forgiving, strong and understanding. Though sometimes even those qualities aren't enough to save a marriage.

My dad was once a community leader so we've heard and witnessed many cases of marital rifts. The funny thing is that its not always the one who reports a case that is right or innocent. You have to listen to both sides in order to deliver fair judgements. There's a say that the devil is not always as bad as people paint him to be.

If you think me not being married means I'm clueless about what happens in marriages then fine. Have it your way.

Angel196:


Really, I love your answer. It makes a lot of sense and isn't sentimental.

Thank you.

Deilluminator:
will you your husband to use condoms always? Be realistic. Withdrawal method is very risky, you know it.

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y not.is there any danger in using condoms

emperormossad:

The failure rate of condoms will alarm you when it comes to preventing pregnancy, they just have a way of disappointing you when you need them most. Withdrawal method? Let's not even go there. Before you even 'ejaculate', the pre-cum laden with sperms have made their way past the vagina into the cervix. It takes 90 seconds to get to the tubes. Withdrawal method is the least reliable. I think the wife shouldn't have removed the device implanted.

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She might be scared cos i think it has some negative effects.and moreover the rumour is everywhere that implant can lead to cancer if proper hygeine is not mantained.so lady is just trying to save her life

amakadihot87:
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She might be scared cos i think it has some negative effects.and moreover the rumour is everywhere that implant can lead to cancer if proper hygeine is not mantained.so lady is just trying to save her life

Subdermal implants ddo not cause cancer.

Emerald557:
The man should have gone for family planning (vasectomy) for himself after the first 2 kids or continually use condom. Family planning for women is as dangerous as the risk of abortion and childbirth of which the best option is childbirth..... My oplinion though

Auntie Emaraldinho so it is better for you to die and leave your children motherless after you have gotten pregnant again because contraceptives = abortion in your eyes abi? Issorite, make sure your husband finds another wife who will take care of your children properly before he kills you then.

Sooooo funny,can't stop laughing.

Them dey forbid d man from using condom? Or is condom now expensive?

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yoruba people and their family wahala shaa
So they even born like rabbit sef .
The "educated people"..
Same people dat were shadding a couple here sometime ago for giving birth to 6. .

Wat sucks here is not ur "giving birth to many" rather ur hypocrisy.. i don taya for una ooh

Statements like this made Awolowo to sacrifice over three million stubborn ingrates like you to the Yoruba gods of Sango, Osun, Ogun, Oya, Aiyelala and Esu Odara