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Guys what's your take on using your female bestie as your best man/lady on your wedding day? Is it something you can do?

Nigerian Twitter @AlabaOginni used his female friend as his Best Man and had this to say about it:

Feminism no be only by shouting or fighting. The beautiful lady behind me was my best man at my wedding today, and she did a darn good job.

Photo of his wife below.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/nigerian-guy-uses-female-friend-as-best.html

Handsome guy

my bestie comes to mind

I see nothing wrong.

Weddings are more about the blessings there, and also the celebration of the families and friends together.

So, no biggie,
But can a lady use a guy as a bridesmaid tho, that's tricky.

Feminists trying to make a bold statement

Hian! U people have started again

INTROVERT:
Handsome guy

I always tell u to close ur teeth

Naija bloggers at it again!

Changes.

OK

does best man have to be a best friend?

Cool.
That being said we will expect to see guys as brides maids men

baddest

See friendzoning

Hmmmm
Things are really changing oo

BESTMAN not BESTWOMAN. The world is turning upside down nowadays. So a guy can do BestLady too? Even the whites bringing up this feminism thingy i don't think they use guys as best ladies... At least haven't come across one yet

dayowunmi:
BESTMAN not BESTWOMAN. The world is turning upside down nowadays. So a guy can do BestLady too? Even the whites bringing up this feminism thingy i don't think they use females as best ladies... At least haven't come across one yet

casttlebarbz:
baddest

How does this pix of urs colorate with the topic of this thread?

Wierd buh cute

Hmm

Bros this is sucide

She sponsored the wedding.

Strange, but i'm not suprised

weird..... most people jes wanna stand out

And what if the wife choses a man as bridesmaid

Gigolo uses mistress as best(wo)man

If this is true, bros you're a loser in the men's circle aka the wolf park. No real nigga to get your back on your day? Dafuq. You need to start doing something wrong bro. Drink beer, smoke w**d, do bet naija, just do something to belong to a "park". I rest my case.


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It would turn to a trend now, I can't use tho.

I really like the bride,

Just see as she dey busy de snap her own pics while these other people do their thing,

To me, she trusts the guy enough to accept that they are just besties and not banging each other.



U see? We can be friends with nothing sexual attached.

dayowunmi:
BESTMAN not BESTWOMAN. The world is turning upside down nowadays. So a guy can do BestLady too? Even the whites bringing up this feminism thingy i don't think they use guys as best ladies... At least haven't come across one yet

The world is already upside-down. What they are doing now is just putting a finish touch to it.

dayowunmi:
BESTMAN not BESTWOMAN. The world is turning upside down nowadays. So a guy can do BestLady too? Even the whites bringing up this feminism thingy i don't think they use guys as best ladies... At least haven't come across one yet

So until we come across one before it becomes acceptable?

undisputedgbola:

So until we come across one before it becomes acceptable?

It's not unacceptable because i haven't come across it but because it's odd. It's called Best man for a reason. Above all, things are rapidly changing in our world and the scope of right and wrong is getting thinner by the day. Ultimately it's his choice to make.