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Women, will you prefer to marry a man younger than you or remain single? I know ideally, a man should be older than his wife but in a case where its not working as expected, will you settle with a man younger than you?

Well I don't think there's anything wrong with that,as long as there's love and respect between both.

It's absurd. The age should be the same or slightly above not below. It's weird and what's with this

'.... Or remain single' phrase that you guys always spew?

like spinsterhood is some kind of death sentence or disease. Marriage is optional

grad2012:
Nothing wrong with that,the most important thing is the love.

Hmm

Ain't nothing wrong

I bet that most women will only stoop that low only if they feel age is not on their side

Vinshu:
It's absurd. The age should be the same or slightly above not below. It's weird and what's with this

'.... Or remain single' phrase that you guys always spew?

like spinsterhood is some kind of death sentence or disease. Marriage is optional

its not a death sentence, yeah! but no woman would wany to be a spinster for life especially one without a child

Abeg who get risla here.......I wan use am mole

AfricanApple:
its not a death sentence, yeah! but no woman would wany to be a spinster for life especially one without a child

Really? No Nigerian woman I guess. Because I don't see anything special about a child. What is a child going to do for you? That is special?

Vinshu:


Really? No Nigerian woman I guess. Because I don't see anything special about a child. What is a child going to do for you? That is special?

If ur mama bn reason like ds nko?

Vinshu:


Really? No Nigerian woman I guess. Because I don't see anything special about a child. What is a child going to do for you? That is special?

okay o, madam oyinbo. I won't even answer because every woman knows the answer to that. I wish you good luck on your spinsterhood

Vinshu:


Really? No Nigerian woman I guess. Because I don't see anything special about a child. What is a child going to do for you? That is special?

Then same thing you have done, is doing and will do for your mother. If only your mum thought about it this way, you won't be on Nairaland today

AfricanApple:
okay o, madam oyinbo. I won't even answer because every woman knows the answer to that. I wish you good luck on your spinsterhood

I'm married. You see you guys should think outside the box. It helps alot.

Someone ing wearing of hijab is not necessarily a Muslim same way a person saying marriage is optional is not necessarily single. #ThinkBetter

Obinovictor:


Then same thing you have done, is doing and will do for your mother. If only your mum thought about it this way, you won't be on Nairaland today

You know I didn't ask my mother to give birth to me so be mature and leave my mother out of this.

Vinshu:


I'm married. You see you guys should think outside the box. It helps alot.

Someone ing wearing of hijab is not necessarily a Muslim same way a person saying marriage is optional is not necessarily single. #ThinkBetter

You are not talking like somebody who is enjoying your marriage, my apologies please if my comment sounds deregatory. My point is marriage is suppose to be blissful & everyone (man & woman) would like to be in it. For somebody to sound like you are doing sends a negative signal about your marriage.

foxgiovani:
You are not talking like somebody who is enjoying your marriage, my apologies please if my comment sounds deregatory. My point is marriage is suppose to be blissful & everyone (man & woman) would like to be in it. For somebody to sound like you are doing sends a negative signal about your marriage.

That's your opinion. You are entitled to it.

Marriage is optional. Premarital sex is fun and bliss that doesn't mean everyone must indulge in it. Clubbing is fun and bliss that doesn't mean everyone must visit clubs same way marriage is fun and bliss but that doesn't mean everyone must be married. Again #ThinkBetter

Besides my marriage is really cool. You don't get to talk about it. It's non of your business

Vinshu:


That's your opinion. You are entitled to it.

Marriage is optional. Premarital sex is fun and bliss that doesn't mean everyone must indulge in it. Clubbing is fun and bliss that doesn't mean everyone must visit clubs same way marriage is fun and bliss but that doesn't mean everyone must be married. Again #ThinkBetter

Besides my marriage is really cool. You don't get to talk about it. It's non of your business

Nodding my head.

foxgiovani:
Nodding my head.

Be nodding your head like agama lizard. What concerns you or her post with her marital life? that you would say she is not enjoying it. How e take concern you sef. Una go leave topic dey comment on person personal life. This is what whogosca.m was complaining about to Seu.n

Vinshu:
It's absurd. The age should be the same or slightly above not below. It's weird and what's with this

'.... Or remain single' phrase that you guys always spew?

like spinsterhood is some kind of death sentence or disease. Marriage is optional

And what point are you trying to make @emboldened?

NewSheriff:
And what point are you trying to make @emboldened?

Marriage is not compulsory. No one would die because he/she is single so stop making single people feel worthless! Thats my point. If you read well, you'd see it right below the emboldened

Vinshu:


Marriage is not compulsory. No one would die because he/she is single so stop making single people feel worthless! Thats my point. If you read well, you'd see it right below the emboldened

And where did the op make it look like one would die if he/she is single or make single people feel worthless? How was he supposed to put it considering the topic he brought up?

All in the name of I must talk. Mtcheew

in my opinion its wrong for ladies to settle for a man with lesser age cuz most times the lady has more control over the guy in the relationship. Vinshu is right; better single that going into a relationship you know wont last.

NewSheriff:
And where did the op make it look like one would die if he/she is single or make single people feel worthless? How was he supposed to put it considering the topic he brought up?

All in the name of I must talk. Mtcheew

I get it. You just needed to make a comment and probably obtain my attention. Yeah you got it. Congrats

For me 2 years is enough. Bt a friend of mine is 5 years older dan her fiance, who has already paid bride price for her. So u see, sometimes age is nothing bt a number

Vinshu:


I get it. You just needed to make a comment and probably obtain my attention. Yeah you got it. Congrats

Stop trying too hard to appear smart. You goofed! Accept it and move on if your pride will allow you.

NewSheriff:
Stop trying too hard to appear smart. You goofed! Accept it and move on if your pride will allow you.

Stop trying too hard to keep my attention.

And the beat goes on

willanderson:
in my opinion its wrong for ladies to settle for a man with lesser age cuz most times the lady has more control over the guy in the relationship. Vinshu is right; better single that going into a relationship you know wont last.

Yea, you are on point!

Get the sh¡t outa here

foxgiovani:
I bet that most women will only stoop that low only if they feel age is not on their side

There is no stooping low kakan... why repeat what doesn't work for u... when u are yet to try something else.. plus i think age shudnt matter only when it becomes outrageous

Vinshu:
It's absurd. The age should be the same or slightly above not below. It's weird and what's with this

'.... Or remain single' phrase that you guys always spew?

like spinsterhood is some kind of death sentence or disease. Marriage is optional

if your parent thought that way I don't think you will be here talking trash

Mide6:

There is no stooping low kakan... why repeat what doesn't work for u... when u are yet to try something else.. plus i think age shudnt matter only when it becomes outrageous

Why when it becomes outrageous? Anybody can go ahead & do what he/she likes