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Ahdonhear

Nonsense

You peps wldnt kill me ere...nw let's wait for d dt person dt wld counter dis topic..guyz

people are constantly thinking and pushing ahead on how to make money and up their game.. these romance sections peeps are all about relationship talk and gossip... smh ... boring boring talks..

nice post by falcony tho..

Hmmm op u think all you wrote is true ba OK let me tell you small.







I knew and still know every member of his family down to the last person

all his closest friends down to the last person.




showing affection in public, he's a master of that. in fact he introduced me to everyone as his wife.


am usually in the family gathering most of the time.



despite all these



Guess what!!!!!!!



men will always be men.

he derives joy in manipulating people even his family , masking it with loving and caring attitude.

but everyone have seen him for who he truly is, no one takes him serious anymore.

Twaci:
Dogs? Really?
Nice one OP(s).

yes, his pets will hate you... u are a complete stranger and intruder

Another thread with no original ingredient

this is subjective .. see let me tell you especially on this point on "if he does not discuss future with you". I will tell you my story, met a girl we got going and all. time ed we talked about family, future and how she will complete school, serve, law school and all. and in not close to two months ON. the girl starts giving attitude and non challant and suddenly she won't call or keep in touch. I don't even know if we have anything now.

really these opinions are not universal in any way my friend. girls are not trustworthy people so are boys. we only pray to God to bless us with 'our partners'

Theres a guy that does the total opposite of this with me, and he's not my boyfriend.

Friends for 8 years now. We'd have the best relationship ever if he were a christian, and not a few months younger than I am. The age is not even a big deal because I dont look my age.

With him I realised love is a decision and you can choose who/who not to fall for.

sorry for the tmi

Religiously following

Honestly1:
Please what is side chik?

Amugba legbe

10 signs that you are the main chick loading ...

falconey:
ok

9. he doesn't your birthday despite telling him 3 times before the date.



10. most of his discussion with you is about sex or romance.



11. when he is with you he always stare at your boobs,ass and curves.





12. when it happens he invites you to his house the first 10minutes he is reaching out for your goodies. you are not even done with the fanta and gala he offered you.




13. when he is with his friends and you by he doesn't say hi or maintain eye , he ignores you like a stranger.




written by falconey
inspired by two bottles of goldberg ( say no to drugs)

falconeyyyyyyyy killed it ooooo

Bobscrabb:
End time threa...d

Foooool no b only end time thread mtcheeeeeew

Any girl that notices these, stay and think she's the main chick(whatever that means) is not only stup1d but should be flogged at the market square.

But then. I don't agree with not meeting his family, it's about the both of you first, although names must definitely come up.

blessedfavoured:
Theres a guy that does the total opposite of this with me, and he's not my boyfriend.

Friends for 8 years now. We'd have the best relationship ever if he were a christian, and not a few months younger than I am. The age is not even a big deal because I dont look my age.

With him I realised love is a decision and you can choose who/who not to fall for.

sorry for the tmi

I guess I don't see what the problem is, if you both are religious, it's still god after all and if you both are reasonable, you'd find a way to co-exist.

It would have been very hard if one of you was atheistic.

If all you said is really true, I think you might be missing a chance on something that might surprise you.

My dear Op,
Some guys still do all the above to the so called "side chick"( which I don't believe in)

I have heard a lot of stories.

Honestly1:
Please what is side chik?

A baby chicken that likes to perch the side of your feet

We are all side chicks to a guy before getting married.



























No!
I'm not one to any of you
U gerrit

so guys go thru al dis stress al in d name of bleepin? a guy cn stil intoduce u to his family wen he knws dah d rltionship wunt cross mainroad. So Op i disagree wiv some of ur points

freecocoa:
I guess I don't see what the problem is, if you both are religious, it's still god after all and if you both are reasonable, you'd find a way to co-exist.

It would have been very hard if one of you was atheistic.

If all you said is really true, I think you might be missing a chance on something that might surprise you.

but when both our families would have none of that... my parents are flexible with tribe, but not religion.

I agree - im missing out on an amazing relationship with him

DanceVille:
Guys have "Side Girls".You can think that you're the one and only buh infact you maybe that "Side chick" yourself.
I came up 8 signs that show you're his side chick buh not his girlfriend.

You can thank me later or even send me a Pm...

1.You're Never Invited To A Family Gathering

If you have never met a guy's parents and siblings or haven't been to any events that include his friends, this is a indicator that you're his Side chick buh not the "Main Chick".

2.He Hates Surprises

And surprise visits in particular.Your man doesn't want you to come unannounced, without notifications.So if he constantly says he hates surprise visits, it's time to get concerned.

3.Protective Of His Phone

He has a on his phone and makes sure to lock it after everytime he uses it.When the phone rings, it either goes into another room to take the call, ignores it completely, or turns the volume down super low so that you can't possibly hear a thing that is being said.

4.Refuses To Show Affection In Public

If you grab his hand and he pulls his hand away, or you never get a kiss or hug, or you never get too close when you're out together, this could be a sign that you're 100% side chick.

5.Avoids Having Selfie With You

If you notice that your guy is dodging selfies like "Bullets" whenever you tilt your phone to take a picture..He's afraid his Main chick might see the pic.

6.Strange Calls

He dials or receive calls from a strange number.And he always has to pick it, he never tells you who it was.Buh you know that it is not his mom or sibling.Sometimes the number might not be stored in his phone .That's a sign to check it all up, because it can be the second(Main Chick).

7.He's Not Calling You His Girlfriend

When it's time to introduce you to his friends, colleagues or even relatives, he just introduces you with your name.And he never calls you his girlfriend or sweet words like "Dear, Honey, Bae. Etc among his circle.

8.Never Talks About The Future

Asking him about his views on the future of your relationship is like "Pulling Teeth".In his mind he's probably well aware that keeping you as the other woman won't last long, so why plan on a future at all?

Ladies if you're seeing parts of these signs, it surely means you're his "Side Chick"...

Feel free to add yours

Comments are highly welcome.

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DanceVille

everytin u jt said is equivalent to mine...guess am d side chick...*crying*laughing*doing d both

blessedfavoured:


but when both our families would have none of that... my parents are flexible with tribe, but not religion.

I agree - im missing out on an amazing relationship with him

You just going to let go like that?

freecocoa:
You just going to let go like that?

what can a sister do? If it was just my family, I know they'll come around eventually. But he's said it that he knows his mum is not cool with the idea but he can convince her bla bla. But I dont have power for that type of battle. Like I said im not in love with him but hes a great guy.

blessedfavoured:


what can a sister do? If it was just my family, I know they'll come around eventually. But he's said it that he knows his mum is not cool with the idea but he can convince her bla bla. But I dont have power for that type of battle. Like I said im not in love with him but hes a great guy.

didn't know you are not in love with him, since you aren't, there's no point.

9. If the only time you see his dick is when it's hard, u r d side chick..... okbye

Ok let me add mine.
8 signs he's just a booty call and not your boyfriend.

1. He doesn't visit you in your house probably because he doesn't want your people to see him as your boyfriend.

2.When he is with his friends in his house, you call to visit him and he refuses that's because he doesn't want you to meet his friends.

3. When he tells you let's keep it low key for now and the low key thingy getting longer.

4. When he doesn't let you hangout with him

5. He calls you only when he needs something from you like when he is lonely,bored and seemingly want sex.

6. He doesn't talk so romantic to you both on and off the phone. He only does when he needs you to come be with him in his house especially when he wants sex.

7. He doesn't even take a minute to discuss with you about relationship when you guys are together.

8. He always smooth talk you into having sex with him in his house and after everything he starts telling you "may be you should start going home now, I will call you." Then you are his BOOTY CALL!

I always make sure all my side chicks knows their position. I don't hide my bae pics away from them.. But I give them the reaction that nobody knows what the future have in stock for everyone. Lol

falconey:
ok

9. he doesn't your birthday despite telling him 3 times before the date.



10. most of his discussion with you is about sex or romance.



11. when he is with you he always stare at your boobs,ass and curves.





12. when it happens he invites you to his house the first 10minutes he is reaching out for your goodies. you are not even done with the fanta and gala he offered you.





13. when he is with his friends and you by he doesn't say hi or maintain eye , he ignores you like a stranger.




written by falconey
inspired by two bottles of goldberg ( say no to drugs)

lol

side chick, front chick, main chick....all na chick

babyfaceafrica:
Guy you lie!!!

Protective of his fone.....some of us are very picky and we just like keeping things so if I say don't touch my phone..just let it be ...



Refuses to show affection in Public.......u too dey lie OP,who affection for public help?....introverts don usually like showing affection in public,and they are the most faithful personality...


Refuses to take selfie.....oga na selfy dey call am not selfies...so if I no take With you and you vex ,you are on your own....I have never even taken any personal selfy ,so why should I take with you..who selfie help?


He never call you his girlfriend........oga I can call you my wife,babe anything and still be screwing your best friend....words are not action...ladies be wise..no be. By calling you gf o....


Make I stop here dring cold zobo...NEPA don dey cooperate small!!!

kids like u won't understand