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We met last month and everything going smoothly...And then all of a sudden she asks me what i earn as salary?

I just skillfully waved the question off but she's been pestering me to tell her. Now her mood has changed because i didn't.

To me there are certain questions that should be asked at a certain time and i felt she should understand that.

I feel she's being nosy....what would you do in this situation guys?

Ask her this question in return like this, ''BABY, WHY DO YOU WANT TO KNOW THIS BAD HOW MUCH I AM PAID AT THIS EARLY STAGE OF OUR RELATIONSHIP?''.

tell her now....she wants to know if she is safe ur babe get sense

divinehand2003:
Ask her this question in return like this, ''BABY, WHY DO YOU WANT TO KNOW THIS BAD HOW MUCH I AM WHAT AT THIS EARLY STAGE OF OUR RELATIONSHIP?''.

I did and she gave me the answer i expected....

"Nothing!...I just want to know...am i not your girlfriend?"

She would lyk 2 knw her fate 4rm nw

Mimido2:
tell her now....she wants to know if she is safe ur babe get sense

Well, from what she saw when we met and the fact that we have been together, she has seen signs that she is already safe. i don't knw if she is just asking out of sheer curiosity

she wants to know how likely u re to be affected by cancer of d pocket

maryam6:
She would lyk 2 knw her faith 4rm nw

I believe you meant fate....i give her most of her basic needs and it's not like i really lack anything so what's her own?

Tell her the 10percent of your salary and see her reaction, and if d 10percent is too small you can tell her d 50% of it.

That Girl is a Beeach...
Sorry to say disss
Kinda Girl that will Usain-Bolt when the cheese becomes Sour

she wan know if she go pity you wan she dy chow your money like hot fried plantain..

S

Tell her 50% of your salary and see her reaction.

prince3009:


I did and she gave me the answer i expected....

"Nothing!...I just want to know...am i not your girlfriend?"

Then you will reply like this, '' ARE YOU THE DELILAH THAT HAS BEEN SENT BY THE PHILISTINES TO DESTROY ME? ''

prince3009:
We met last month and everything going smoothly...And then all of a sudden she asks me what i earn as salary?

I just skillfully waved the question off but she's been pestering me to tell her. Now her mood has changed because i didn't.

To me there are certain questions that should be asked at a certain time and i felt she should understand that.

I feel she's being nosy....what would you do in this situation guys?

I think you should just tell her. if money is what she is after you will find out soon enough.

prince3009:


I believe you meant fate....i give her most of her basic needs and it's not like i really lack anything so what's her own?

Oh yes, sorry 4 dat.


Well, she might have her reason 4 asking.

prince3009:
We met last month and everything going smoothly...And then all of a sudden she asks me what i earn as salary?

I just skillfully waved the question off but she's been pestering me to tell her. Now her mood has changed because i didn't.

To me there are certain questions that should be asked at a certain time and i felt she should understand that.

I feel she's being nosy....what would you do in this situation guys?

Bro it is easy na, just tell her a white lie. Falsify your earning to her.
You can break down 50 or 70 percent of your earning as salary to her .Chikena.

Let her know you are not comfortable discussing that right now. If she pesters you still, you might want to give her a range to work with.

hey bro!u gat no chill @ all...she is just trying to know if there is any gold to dig from you! deal with it

A girl who wants to eat your money won't ask such.

She asked because she wants to know whether you're capable of getting married soon.

What's her age?

Just tell her half of what you earn, then watch her reaction, but thats a dumb question to ask by a lady in an new relationship.

prince3009:
We met last month and everything going smoothly...And then all of a sudden she asks me what i earn as salary?

I just skillfully waved the question off but she's been pestering me to tell her. Now her mood has changed because i didn't.

To me there are certain questions that should be asked at a certain time and i felt she should understand that.

I feel she's being nosy....what would you do in this situation guys?

She wants to know so that she go know as she go dey tax you na






...A gold digger spotted!

Adaure4ever:
Just tell her half of what you earn, then watch her reaction, but thats a dumb question to ask by a lady in an new relationship.

This girl is making sense

Mimido2:
tell her now....she wants to know if she is safe ur babe get sense

What sense is in that?the logic you applied is warped girl!quit it

Adaure4ever:
Just tell her half of what you earn, then watch her reaction, but thats a dumb question to ask by a lady in an new relationship.

Seconded.

prince3009:
We met last month and everything going smoothly...And then all of a sudden she asks me what i earn as salary?

I just skillfully waved the question off but she's been pestering me to tell her. Now her mood has changed because i didn't.

To me there are certain questions that should be asked at a certain time and i felt she should understand that.

I feel she's being nosy....what would you do in this situation guys?

I can tell a lady how much I earned in a deal but not how much I earn in a month.....for Christ sake that's like telling her what to expect inside Pandora's box and mine Aint got a limit......A month and she is already asking....I Aint saying she is a gold digger but she Aint looking to screw with some broke dude

I don't think there's anything wrong telling your lady how much you earn. A sensible and wise lady who truly loves you will help plan your life by such knowledge as she will be cautious of asking too much or for unnecessary stuffs.

Adaure4ever:
Just tell her half of what you earn, then watch her reaction, but thats a dumb question to ask by a lady in an new relationship.

Would really have loved to employ this technique but don't want the "So you lied to me" talk to rear up it's head one day

Ehena, tell her what she wants to hear na,,,,you know what women love hearing

Tell her please. Also, endeavour to buy her a note book and pen!

Nah she your village people handover the work they start to.

Pumpkin34:
Tell her 50% of your salary and see her reaction.

Blackpumpkin

Bro, don't tell her anything. If she acts cold towards you and sulks because of this, then be assured that you are dating "trouble".