NewStats: 3,262,677 , 8,177,852 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 09:28 AM 6g5f3q

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

If I hear! Ok send me ur bf's number for confirmation.

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

its a pity you haven't had the chance to travel out. Going dutch isn't a big deal in the western world.

This is nice

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

Thank you o, I thought so too. Poverty or irresponsibility has turned our guys into sthelse

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

This kinda tinking shows u are a show off kinda person jst lik davido, so u dey shame to contribute moni in front of waiter? Hmmmm nor be ur moni ni?

Mak God help ur bf cos ur type naim go say she dey shame to use stove cook sinc una neigbour dey use gas

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

ACTUALLY MEANING.............

Jadekitana:
he pays for everything.

Who is fooling who

In Nigeria only a broke ass will allow you pay for everything so in practice you NEVER pay or you pay on the 8733rd date.

The Geneva and Yaounde convention stipulates that the bill is split 50:50 no matter who eats what.
Clearly this is different from the Owerri declaration and the Abuja Rules of Engagement or the Lagos Protocol as amended

dollyjoy:
she is actually right,it doesnt just seem right to start donating money in front of a waiter/waitress.



It either the guy is settling it,or the lady settles it,not spilting bills for Godsake

the maths is simple if the bill is on the high and we wanna have that luxury. ....na to do the donations for house or sign IOY

Holyfield1:
OP Its like u know someone in my family Cox all the aforementioned characteristics is of no one but my uncles wife, One would help her work from morning to night sweating profusely like a Christmas goat yet not even a 50 naira coke to wash the internal sweat down my throat....Such a woman is indeed the definition of stinginess...Na them dry always pull person tro for soup money

Her own stinginess no be here ooooo

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

That means ure stingy na

Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he ed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

Jadekitana:
But why should we split bills when we go out on dates? It's simple, either I pay for everything or he pays for everything. It's somehow when we start doing donation in front of the waiter or waitress because one person has decided not to cheat the other.

Be honest, Hw many times hv u paid for evrything on a date. None

ameboismyhobby:
I av half of dis traits to say d truth bt dat doesn't mean am stingy, am jst being careful wit my money, so wen u break my heart, I no go too cry nd say Choi, Udeme, Udeme, afta evritin I did for u

another definition of stingy......bae. careful with her money and why must u foresee heart break and hoping to use ur money comfort urslf. .....

ronald4lif:


Haha, if them use am carry me will mean I went through same route I came from. My brother what's bad in that?

He that was born will die someday thus dying in the middle of ecstasy isn't a bad one if you ask me.

So you no fit celibate like oga Lalasticlala wey still be virgin at his old age?

....

missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he ed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

Madame, I dont pray another lady snatch your husband. please appreciate his effort by getting a gift for him even if he can gallantly afford it. Tnx.

True

Even When They Are Working Class Ladies, As Well Receiving Salaries, They'll Still Tell You That; The Salary Is'nt A Enough To Take Care Of There Needs. That's To Say, The Money Know Feat Go Any Where For The Month, Or To Take Care Of Her Personal Needs, Talk More Of Giving Or Borrowing Some one... Nah There Way ooooooohhhhh!!!!!

There are those that are so stingy they can't even offer you a bottle of coke even on Christmas day. Yeah I know one. She's stingy personified. U talk about cheap gifts, I can't even her giving me any sort of gift.

missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he ed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

married woman watin u cum dey advice these girls here..... just dont be too comfortable with that idea.......but on that matter you are STINGY. also try to define gift rightly

You deem yourself "lesser" being all because of your stinginess?

It's called showing "love" to the ones you care about, no amount of gift can amount to that person but you only do them to make them feel special and truly loved.

If another woman showers him with those stuffs outside and he begins to give her more attention and you less attention you'll be worried that what have you done wrong when you ignore the "littlest" of things in a marriage.

missyadorable:
Well,for me I grew up with the mentality that my money must not reach a guy except my brothers.

Spending money on my guy in cash or kind will make him take me for granted,like "she is spending her cash on me,she is desperate" cos that's how African men think

I didn't think gifts were necessary.I didn't play romance with my money....

I could agree to split the bills on date but my weak point was getting my guy gifts on special occasions...I didn't pester for gifts too cos I could afford whatever I wanted..

Now,am married and I can't imagine buying my husband a gift...I didn't give him any gift on his bday in January and on valentine's day.i just behaved like it was every normal sunday.Although, he bought me a gift which I didn't see as a big deal.just muttered "thank you" n tossed it aside

3 days ago,he ed a comment about it and I replied "you are a man,what do u need gifts for? You need anything,you go and buy it,you can afford it"

And he took offence! And I don't understand why a supernatural human being should want a gift from a "lesser" being called woman

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

spotted

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

no be say u even fine sef.psheew!Biko si ebe a puo

Its a wonder that I don't fall within any of the category listed. *wowing at myself* I try sha!

MzPecs:
Thank God i'm not stingy!

eeeeh.. . shhhhhh... shhhhh.. keep quiet... no talk am again

Women are the most stingy creation of the almighty,am cool with that though, but the annoying thing is when they call men stingy . I'm like...

SolexxBarry:

"Nonsense"

I no fit dey fight my egbon nah

dollyjoy:
a million likes.


It actually embarrassing!!

see ur wowo face.puo here biko

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

Oloshi na him u be....I think say after you don read through you go learn something,..u stil carry you wack mentality stil comment with am...

wristbangle:


Madame, I dont pray another lady snatch your husband. please appreciate his effort by getting a gift for him even if he can gallantly afford it. Tnx.

Lol..gift or no gift,a man who wants to leave will leave....No amount of gifts and good treatment from a wife can keep a man away from other ladies..and he knows I dnt bother about such stuff.Life continues!

Jasi7:


Oloshi na him u be....I think say after you don read through you go learn something,..u stil carry you wack mentality stil comment with am...

pained arsehole

menabae:
,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies

And why should a guy spend on you? That's left for sugar daddies right.

menabae:
pained arsehole

Big for nothing daughter of a lazy man....