NewStats: 3,264,459 , 8,183,782 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 07:57 AM 6z2i

I envy you


Wish i were u.i want to be a baby father o




Congrats.you are a man

Naija, n'a wah for some people ohh. No joy at all. Naija philosophy. Anyone who made a mistake should be killed

Excuse me sir, congrats on been a daddy in advance. Many women are crying and moving around because they cannot get pregnant not to talk of giving birth. Some men have spent their hard earned cash looking for means of becoming daddies. You are here talking of your girlfriend who you impregnated and is insisting on keeping the child. I love that your girlfriend I must confess for having such in mind despite being the person carrying the load. As for you I don't know what to tell you. You believe she is not able to give birth and take care of the child at her age, when girls her age her are already married with more than 2 children. Just allow her give birth to your child, simple.

Sucre4:


Marriage is not my option now. I still have lots of things to do.
I wouldnt want to have a baby that will come and suffer. A baby that I won't be there for.
Moreover, my parents won't like it. Having that child will affect my job and school.
I have never thought of marrying her. Just surprise ñd whats making her to keep that baby.
Best if my knowledge, she us not skillful, she is in her final year.
Babe just want to unsettled me

hmmm, your babe does not want to unsettle you. you choose to unsettle your self.Moreover you seem selfish,have you considered the trauma she will go through aborting that child and living with the thoughts all her life? you are not read for a baby but you were ready for sex.you made your bed, man up and lay on it.All i see in your post is a man not willing to take responsibility for his actions.Making a family is not as Expensive as you make it look,once you live within your means

Sucre4:
Am not new here, I created this separate for the purpose of this.
Met my babe last month. A final year student in on of the uni in phc.
Well, we had sex and now she said she is pregnant.
Am working and also in school.
Am not ready to keep a baby now. I need to finish up my studies and get a better work. I won't want to have a kid that will end up with either my or her parents. I have let her know all these.
Surprisingly, babe said she is going to keep the pregnancy. She said she don't mind going to a neighbouring country to have the baby..
Am confused. What could be her motivation to have a baby at 25 and in her final year. Don't know what to do. Your advise pls

Having sex without protection is really risky. Have u checked yurself for STD first? One month is too short for her to get pregnant although, it isn't impossible but u have to be responsible for yur actions. Pls don't advice her to go for an abortion cos you will be puting her life at risk and u never can tell what will happen when she does the procedure. Wait till the baby is born and go for a paternity test but, let her know your intentions. Gd luck

lilspiceyy:

Having sex without protection is really risky. Have u checked yurself for STD first? One month is too short for her to get pregnant although, it isn't impossible but u have to be responsible for yur actions. Pls don't advice her to go for an abortion cos you will be puting her life at risk and u never can tell what will happen when she does the procedure. Wait till the baby is born and go for a paternity test but, let her know your intentions. Gd luck

One month is too short?.
Well, my mind tells me babe is thinking of selling the child.
Well, she just agreed to abort it. Is just 2wks old. Sure, there won't be any complication at this stage

Sucre4:


One month is too short?.
Well, my mind tells me babe is thinking of selling the child.
Well, she just agreed to abort it. Is just 2wks old. Sure, there won't be any complication at this stage

I still think aborting the baby isn't the best option. Dis is lesson bro. I knw u had sex with without protection because u trust she doesn't have STD. But, u shldnt try dat anymore no matter how intense the urge to have sex is and there is no protection at that moment cos with dis u are protecting yourself, her, preventing unwanted pregnancy and killing of the innocent (baby).

lilspiceyy:

I still think aborting the baby isn't the best option. Dis is lesson bro. I knw u had sex with without protection because u trust she doesn't have STD. But, u shldnt try dat anymore no matter how intense the urge to have sex is and there is no protection at that moment cos with dis u are protecting yourself, her, preventing unwanted pregnancy and killing of the innocent (baby).

Thank.
I asked her if she was free she said yes. It was after I have done it that she said she didn't understand what I was saying.
Gosh, feel like strangling her

lilspiceyy:

I still think aborting the baby isn't the best option. Dis is lesson bro. I knw u had sex with without protection because u trust she doesn't have STD. But, u shldnt try dat anymore no matter how intense the urge to have sex is and there is no protection at that moment cos with dis u are protecting yourself, her, preventing unwanted pregnancy and killing of the innocent (baby).

Thank.
I asked her if she was free she said yes. It was after I have done it that she said she didn't understand what I was saying.
Gosh, felt like strangling her.
Okay I told her to take something and she said she will that I shouldn't worry. Just surprise she didn't take anything that day.

I believe she wants to tie u down wid d pregnancy.tht kinda babe wld do anytin insane to kip u inbtw her thighs.. her till she delivers nd by dt i dnt mean 'kpekus' o..collect d baby nd cut all sexual or amorous ties with her,xo dat the only tin u av to do wid her is d baby....marrying her cos shes preg for u wont end well..(ur destiny dey ur hand).

Sucre4:

Thank.
I asked her if she was free she said yes. It was after I have done it that she said she didn't understand what I was saying.
Gosh, felt like strangling her.
Okay I told her to take something and she said she will that I shouldn't worry. Just surprise she didn't take anything that day.

Next time don't ask. Pls protect yourself.

op, you've made the mistake it's in the past now focus on the future. are you sure the pregnancy is yours? how can you ask her to go and get tested and bring you the results? don't you know she can manipulate things? hope you recall the day you two fked because it might help you in this case, schedule a day with her, take her to a hospital, get her tested check the date you fked her and how old the pregnancy is to see if it tallies. Not done yet, later you can also go for paternity test bro, thanks to the west who knows how many of our forefathers wey enter this kind trap.
bottom line is she wants to trap you but ensure she knows that you're NEVER EVER EVER going to marry her if that's her plan no matter what, she can be a baby mama if she's cool with that. This is bad but situation demands some not so good actions, I don't know how you are going to do it but also ensure she knows and believes that there is another girl that you truly love and won't fall for her pranks. good luck.

Sucre4:
Am not new here, I created this separate for the purpose of this.
Met my babe last month. A final year student in on of the uni in phc.
Well, we had sex and now she said she is pregnant.
Am working and also in school.
Am not ready to keep a baby now. I need to finish up my studies and get a better work. I won't want to have a kid that will end up with either my or her parents. I have let her know all these.
Surprisingly, babe said she is going to keep the pregnancy. She said she don't mind going to a neighbouring country to have the baby..
Am confused. What could be her motivation to have a baby at 25 and in her final year. Don't know what to do. Your advise pls

Do you love her ?

If YES, keep the baby..

Op.....iffa slap u ehnn

Hmmm, you met her a month ago and u were already under her pants. ... Am i the only one seeing the essence of friendship before relationship? (if that was one)
Now, all of these you'd have considered first, i bet you didnt weigh your options op!
Well, you are ready for the baby, if not, you'll run away from unprotected sex. Congrats baba baby. I rejoice with you

Sucre4:


Never read this.
Thanks. I must persuade her to take it away. Shey nah woman She be, I will talk her into it

very likely its another mans child, a month into the relationship? She probably agreed to date you just to find someone to pin that pregnancy on.

Please post the date you first had sex with her, and approx, date she told you she was pregnant and date of Her last period if possible. Lemme calculate, Hoes ain't loyal.

Homguy:
very likely its another mans child, a month into the relationship? She probably agreed to date you just to find someone to pin that pregnancy on.

Please post the date you first had sex with her, and approx, date she told you she was pregnant and date of Her last period if possible. Lemme calculate, Hoes ain't loyal.

I met her a month ago. Had sex with her a week later. She said is two weeks old which I think she is right if actually that's what the test says.
I have asked her to bring the test to me, she came to my house without it..
Bottom line is she has agreed to terminate it. I don't want to be harsh on her so as not to blow things out of proportion.

Welcome to father hold. We should all welcome the latest baby papa in nl

So u still be boy boy wey u no sabi how to play sharp game when u are not ready to be the winner ehnn maka chukuw #gerrarouf here menh

Decker:
Quick question, how serious are both of you in this relationship? Do you see yourselves getting married or have you decided to get married?

I am asking because it seems the girl wants to use the child as an insurance in case you decide not to marry her in the near future or as a means to persuade you to marry her faster.

Well since she wants to keep the child, there isn't much you can do about it. I don't mean to sound rude but you brought this upon yourself and you have to bear the full consequence.

Since you objected to her keeping the child and she went against your objection, she shouldn't force all the burden of providing for the child's upkeep on you.

Wrong wrong wrong. At 25, she is no longer a child and she understands it. People have kids much earlier these days. Marriage would not be Paramount on her mind because they are both still in school. So forget the story of tying him down.

The minute two people decide to be involved sexually, whether with or without protection they stand the risk of getting pregnant.

The burden of providing for that child is on him whether he let's her keep it or not.

Lastly, the decision to keep an unexpected child is hard. So OP should just start finding ways of earning extra cash. Others did it. You will not die.

Kingsley1000:
I envy you


Wish i were u.i want to be a baby father o




Congrats.you are a man

I'd like to be a daddy too, but I want it in a family setting. No baby mama but 'wife.'

Sucre4:


I met her a month ago. Had sex with her a week later. She said is two weeks old which I think she is right if actually that's what the test says.
I have asked her to bring the test to me, she came to my house without it..
Bottom line is she has agreed to terminate it. I don't want to be harsh on her so as not to blow things out of proportion.

terminate it!? This is A Fvcking Baby And not some molded thing!!

naijaboiy:
If she wants to keep it then let her keep it. It's better than aborting it.

But how come you were not sharp enough not to take precautions during sex?

Nawa o!

but seriously this is not hard, I dont blame the girl for wanting to keep it because she's now of age, it's better you father d child since you are working already.
congrats man

Charlezz:

but seriously this is not hard, I dont blame the girl for wanting to keep it because she's now of age, it's better you father d child since you are working already.
congrats man

If na you you go gree father am?

naijaboiy:

If na you you go gree father am?

sharps! I go Humbly fly the girl go Cotonu mk she go deliver am while I hustle

Charlezz:

sharps! I go Humbly fly the girl go Cotonu mk she go deliver am while I hustle

Like that your friend wey dem scam bah?

naijaboiy:

Like that your friend wey dem scam bah?

lol Mehn the guy request for the picture strip from her she start the take am personal

Sucre4:


Marriage is not my option now. I still have lots of things to do.
I wouldnt want to have a baby that will come and suffer. A baby that I won't be there for.
Moreover, my parents won't like it. Having that child will affect my job and school.
I have never thought of marrying her. Just surprise ñd whats making her to keep that baby.
Best if my knowledge, she us not skillful, she is in her final year.
Babe just want to unsettled me

Man up and stop blaming her

SosaMontana:
First of all PATERNITY TEST
because these hoes ain't loyal
and then congrat you are a man now
Go and be buying baby stuffs
What are you expecting when u dey shag
Without c**dom

abi ooooo, why did him "KPONKI" her when he Neva ready?

I was here on Nairaland on that day. Why don't you come here to seek advice before inscribing her?
Now, you are here seeking advice.

Am no longer here.


Seek Jesus early when he can be found.

If she abort the baby, your name will both be writen in the book of murderers in heaven.

Suffer the shame and humiliation or play smartness and suffer in hell.
I warm you o.