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BeeBeeOoh:
This is the more reason why men will always impregnate their ladies/women before walking down the aisle. Girls of these days are something else, the rate at which they go for abortion makes one to wonder if it's now the latest trend; just imagine after so many years of massive kpusing & nyashing your wife but she's gat no womb. Mehn! God help her dat day.
How many abortions have you sponsored? Hypocrite







God also help those men that they've caged with God's time is the best..

BeeBeeOoh:
This is the more reason why men will always impregnate their ladies/women before walking down the aisle. Girls of these days are something else, the rate at which they go for abortion makes one to wonder if it's now the latest trend; just imagine after so many years of massive kpusing & nyashing your wife but she's gat no womb. Mehn! God help her dat day.
How many abortions have you sponsored? Hypocrite







God also help those men that they've caged with God's time is the best..

How many abortions have you sponsored? Hypocrite

Empredboy:
Just yesterday an op said it's not good for guys to sample ladies before marriage but this story has given us reason why a lady must be pregnant before marriage cos 70% of ladies in their 20s has had an abortion. Talking from experience

If every girl you meet refuses to get pregnant before marriage, will you remain single? NO. You will take ur chances. Na girls I blame sef. Me eh? Hahahahahaha! Make I see d guy wey fear no go catch to open him mouth tell me say make I carry belle before him go marry me. Hehehehehehe! Reserving my comments

koife:

You're wrong sir.
The purpose of marriage is satisfaction of the flesh...children are only bonus from marriage.
Didn't he say in sickness and In health I do?

GOD SAID,'Be ye fruitful and multiply','children are the heritage of the Lord, and the FRUIT OF THE WOMB is his reward'. Procreation is ONE of the reasons for marriage. There's Companionship. There's legitimate intimacy(S.exual)

mutter:
The man had a right to divorce her. The purpose of marriage is procreation.
It was really evil to tie a man up so long and waste his money. .

That is not the sole purpose ( it doesn't even rank amongst the first three ) , you can procreate without getting married officially.

I the man's action as well , not because she can't have children again but because she was dishonest about her past ( a part of her past which would affect her future ). Honesty is necessary in any relationship.

Atlantian:
Outside the box thinking is what separates men from boys.

I want to call you to a thread concerning what we discussed some weeks back..do you mind

islandprincess:
Husband pls forgive,, tho i dont abortion. But pls forgive,,, dias no miracle God cannot perform

There's at least one He can't do

BornnAgainChild:



And men too stop giving false hope and predictions all in the name of "I am a pastor,the lord spoke to me"..blah blah blah

Joy1706:

How many abortions have you sponsored? Hypocrite

i've not been a fan of abortion right from d on set sweetie, I take my responsility if I'm responsible.. meanwhile, don't sum1 u don't know a hypocrite. Shalom!!

darlenese:
Pastors and their advice sef So u think a man will just forgive like that ,
Was he even led by the holy spirit sef ,
I,m not in of abortion , but the pastor should nt have advised the woman since he didn't hear from God.

This is a Diabolical line of reasoning, inspired by the Devil himself.
Go back and read the story again. She KNEW she COULDN'T bear children before she married him, yet she feigned ignorance while the Husband was running from pillar to post, spending Huge sums of money as well as wasting his precious time, energy and efforts. So you want him to keep paying the price for her own stupid mistake??

freecocoa:
Wtf? He was right to divorce her for hiding that her womb was damaged, not because she couldn't get pregnant.

Like how can procreation be the reason for marriage?

Even though it may not be so for everyone, couldn't that be considered to be at least a valid reason for or an expected outcome of marriage, or are you just writing without thinking?

The hamster in your head is in uber-rationalising mode.

Fearcom:

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This is a Diabolical line of reasoning, inspired by the Devil himself.
Go back and read the story again. She KNEW she COULDN'T bear children before she married him, yet she feigned ignorance while the Husband was running from pillar to post, spending Huge sums of money as well as wasting his precious time, energy and efforts. So you want him to keep paying the price for her own stupid mistake??

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This is why it is very very compulsory for every guy to be street smart.




I can imagine the mumu husband did not notice something is wrong with his wife.

[quote author=Joy1706 post=37090303][/quote]NONE Honie. Ain't a fan of abortion, if I'm ready to have intimacy wit her without condom then I should be equally ready to take d responsibility..

Joy1706:

If every girl you meet refuses to get pregnant before marriage, will you remain single? NO. You will take ur chances. Na girls I blame sef. Me eh? Hahahahahaha! Make I see d guy wey fear no go catch to open him mouth tell me say make I carry belle before him go marry me. Hehehehehehe! Reserving my comments

my sister I am a married man and I am telling u from experience. Na mugu guys go tell u to get pregnant haba pregnancy na visa? See no be only girls get fertility problems. In fact guys have more but for the guy himself to be sure that he is productive my dear it better to do it. Two of my people are in these mess now 17yrs and 10yrs now. My wife side is 9yrs and 10yrs. Do u know the agony they go through every night? My dear my doctor friend use to say if u date a woman for a year and have unprotected sex enough times and she doesn't get pregnant then ask yourself questions to be sure before marriage.

darlenese:
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Typical response of a person whose conscience is seared.

OmoEziokwu:



Even though it may not be so for everyone, couldn't that be considered to be at least a valid reason for or an expected outcome of marriage, or are you just writing without thinking?

The hamster in your head is in uber-rationalising mode.

Please get your head out of your a$$, while that is an expected outcome of marriage, that's not the main reason to get married, there are so many ways to get children, you don't need to be married to have them.

freecocoa:
Wtf? He was right to divorce her for hiding that her womb was damaged, not because she couldn't get pregnant.

Like how can procreation be the reason for marriage?

OmoEziokwu:



Even though it may not be so for everyone, couldn't that be considered to be at least a valid reason for or an expected outcome of marriage, or are you just writing without thinking?

The hamster in your head is in uber-rationalising mode.

freecocoa:
Please get your head out of your a$$, while that is an expected outcome of marriage, that's not the main reason to get married, there are so many ways to get children, you don't need to be married to have them.

Read properly. My response to your "how can procreation be the reason for marriage?" was "even though it may not be so for everyone...".

I know it may not be the main reason to get married, but your original comment was "how can procreation be the reason for marriage?", thereby implying it may not be so important to have kids.

Look, do not be deceived, any full-blooded man that decides to leave his comfort and freedom to get into that thing called marriage would not take it lightly if you can't give him children.

Else why should he not keep having wild sex outside of marriage?

ladyF:
Chai. Say NO to abortion. Use a cd

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

women don't like condoms and they can't abstain either,their pusy needs steady pounding...say no to pre marital sex!

OmoEziokwu:







Read properly. My response to your "how can procreation be the reason for marriage?" was "even though it may not be so for everyone...".

I know it may not be the main reason to get married, but your original comment was "how can procreation be the reason for marriage?", thereby implying it may not be so important to have kids.

Look, do not be deceived, any full-blooded man that decides to leave his comfort and freedom to get into that thing called marriage would not take it lightly if you can't give him children.

Else why should he not keep having wild sex outside of marriage?

I can't be bothered about any other thing you say but the mindset that, having kids is important enough to let your wife go, is so wrong on many levels, anyone with that mindset shouldn't be married.

I definitely want kids with my man when am married, but I can't leave him if he's not able to give me one, I married him because I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, not just so we can make kids.

freecocoa:
I can't be bothered about any other thing you say but the mindset that, having kids is important enough to let your wife go, is so wrong on many levels, anyone with that mindset shouldn't be married.

I definitely want kids with my man when am married, but I can't leave him if he's not able to give me one, I married him because I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, not just so we can make kids.

And then how would you feel if after five years of tears and prayers you found out that your husband knew from the onset that there would never be a child. Meanwhile five years he pretended to you, acting like there was hope?

I don't blame the husband. Why did she hide such a thing from him? I would do same if I were to be in his shoes.

kehyndey:
issokay and isorait. Good advice......Guys, please stop impregnating ladies and denying or coercing and coarsing them to abort it.

ladies should learn to close their legs and keep their virginity to their future husbands,they should say no to guys and stick to it,I don't think its a big deal.

ladyF:

Preaching abstinence to the youth of nowadays is asking for too much...

especially ladies,they take sex as food,that's why they are no longer satisfied with only one dick.

islandprincess:
Husband pls forgive,, tho i dont abortion. But pls forgive,,, dias no miracle God cannot perform

For your mind. What is there to forgive. Rubbish!

mutter:


And then how would you feel if after five years of tears and prayers you found out that your husband knew from the onset that there would never be a child. Meanwhile five years he pretended to you, acting like there was hope?

Good one.

famzynet:


For your mind. What is there to forgive. Rubbish!

u sound lyk someone dat has been hurt

BornnAgainChild:



And men too stop giving false hope and predictions all in the name of "I am a pastor,the lord spoke to me"..blah blah blah

its the ladires that should say no sex till their wedding night.

Joy1706:

If every girl you meet refuses to get pregnant before marriage, will you remain single? NO. You will take ur chances. Na girls I blame sef. Me eh? Hahahahahaha! Make I see d guy wey fear no go catch to open him mouth tell me say make I carry belle before him go marry me. Hehehehehehe! Reserving my comments

its no big deal if the lady is not a virgin,so its neccesary to get pregnant first except the lady is PURE aka V.

I leav in d bush

greatness22:
Guy i knw ur house, i go visit u dis sunday.

mutter:


And then how would you feel if after five years of tears and prayers you found out that your husband knew from the onset that there would never be a child. Meanwhile five years he pretended to you, acting like there was hope?

I have covered that part in my first post, I said he was right to divorce her for hiding that she couldn't have a child due to her own carelessness.

islandprincess:
Husband pls forgive,, tho i dont abortion. But pls forgive,,, dias no miracle God cannot perform

hahaha he forgive her on what , that she was truthful to him or her loyalty.so he should pay for the past curses the girl brought on herself due to reckless living and killing of an innocent blood. Deceiving the man to marry her and spending money from one hospital to the other for 5 solid years, the devilish girl kept quiet,upon that she knows its her fault,watching the man suffer in blindness and confusion, may your brother marry such a woman and forgive her...you girls are really dejected by God,while here on earth men suffer and bear the very heavy burden of our so called helpers,is unfortunate.