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| LadyJul(f): 8:23am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Hello great nairalanders....there's this guy i started dating...he looks very caring and all dat...but something happened dat made me break my trust in him....there was a time my b.f and i were strolling out, so we met his elder brother and his bros g.f, he didn't even introduce me to his brother as his g.f...all he said was dat i should meet Sarah(i.e is bro g.f) and he didn't say anything like Sarah meet my g.f(lady jul)...and dat night he spent a night in my room, he calld dem and told dem dat he's spending a night with his friends....mind u dis guy is going to 25yrs old o...pls am just kinda confused right now...i don't even know what to think any more,...mature advice needed...pls if u think i should trust dis guy click like,,,buh if u think i shouldn't trust him click share....pls i need only mature opinion
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| Obinovictor(m): 8:27am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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He may be trying to play a good boy at home. Don't condemn him yet. Cheers
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| Re: Am So Confuse Right Now.....i Need Help by Nobody: 8:28am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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*grabs chair and sit* Patiently waiting for mature advice. 
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| Bigcake: 8:36am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Abobaku has the answer, but unfortunately he's nowhere to be found.
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| LadyJul(f): 8:40am On Aug 15, 2015 |
Obinovictor:thanks dear |
| LadyJul(f): 8:41am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Pls mature advice still needed....
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| IamLEGEND1: 8:43am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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women...... why not just dump the guy who shows genuine care and concern because he didnt introduce you as his girlfriend. so now if we tell u not to trust him then what..... will you still stay in the relationship? |
| Obinovictor(m): 8:45am On Aug 15, 2015 |
LadyJul: You're welcome... some homes are so tight. Some parents hardly want to hear this be/gf issue. Not saying you should totally trust the guy though but watch him closely. 1 Like |
| CHM11: 8:49am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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He is just 25,...give him time, soon he will do the needful
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| LadyJul(f): 8:51am On Aug 15, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:thanks for your opinion |
| anigbajumo(m): 1:35pm On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Sharp nigga,he wan chop nd clean mouth... Honestly,he dy gbadun yer *** once he complete his mission,na oyo una dey oooo.. |
| Youngpo413: 4:50pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
LadyJul:for your mind you thinks say the guy go marry you abi?smh.... |
| Youngpo413: 4:51pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
anigbajumo:no mind her. |
| NaomiNew(f): 5:36pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
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'he spent the nite at ur house and he told dem he is wit his frnd' excuse me? he is not d crious type dnt waste ur tym wit him |
| MrCork: 5:39pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
LadyJul: 
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| MrCork: 5:43pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
LadyJul: ..ok..so uwan to sleep wit yor boy friend elder brother & u nid maturre advice fron us.. correcct? 
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| 25omega(m): 5:43pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
 he spent the night with you but told his folks that he is with friends right in front of you my question is what is wrong with your mouth and asking him? if i start telling you all the different reasons why he could have done what he did then i might ruin your relationship. Ask him |
| faith551(m): 5:48pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
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Op introducing you to the world won't stop him from breaking your heart if he is the type, maybe he's not allowed to venture into such path in the house. But a little pay back will show his intentions, introduce him as a friend to a friend or family, and see how he'll feel |
| misspicy(f): 5:59pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
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Ehya,national president of side chicks association
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| ghidefemi(m): 6:16pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
faith551: I think that is better.. U re on point 1 Like |
| lilspiceyy(f): 11:17am On Oct 22, 2015 |
LadyJul:Sori may I ask how old u are? Am nt sure he is ready to be in a serious relationship wit u. At 25, he has a long way to go so, don't trouble yurself with issues like dat else u give yurself HBP  .
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| jabojafa(m): 12:04pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
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he is going to 25 u say, then how d u expect him to tell is elder bros he is sleeping ova at a girls place? D guy stil b small pikin. He cnt even introduce u as his gf. You too introduce him to ur frnds/family as ur frnd.
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| sheyflixy1(m): 2:42pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
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@op why don't you ask him before making some conclusions? What if he doesn't want his family to knw abt you yet,so just calm down and ask him first before u decide on what to do.
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| 400billionman: 6:44pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
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Make i collect money from ATM first, i dey come..
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| gab264(m): 6:54pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
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There migth be something's he is trying to avoid. Or he is just trying to make fool out of you. But for me no matter what we transpire between me and my relatives concerning maa love life,I will not hide the indentity of the girl I found as my happiness. There is no need for him to hide such tin, Op probably he is trying to play games with you, just confront him with this absurd behavior of his,and conclude your judgement from the excuses he will give. The guys is just a "player" don't allow urself to be screwed up. Because u will find out how it hurts big time. |
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