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‘ladies, Beware Of This Kind Of Man’ (41570 Views)

crowther15(m): 3:47pm On Jul 18, 2015

Hi, I am Destiny and would want to use this medium to alert the young girls out there. My younger cousin who is 23years of age had a boyfriend whom we all know because she never hid it from the family, and they have been dating for over two years now.
Little did she know that this guy had a very bad plan for her. He invited her to a friend’s party and without her permission, he and his friends put drug in her drink because she does not take any type of drugs nor alcohol and wouldn’t have agreed to take it if given that opportunity.

On that day she was drinking a glass of wine and thought it tasted weird, but drank it anyway but she managed to leave for home immediately she felt awkward (who knows what would have happened?). The next day, she was very concerned because her heart was fluttering non-stop all day. She just thought she was stressed out.

Then two days later, her boyfriend gave her a glass of wine again. But this time he went to the washroom and in the meantime she was about to take a sip of her wine and there was a half broken up green pill inside the bottle. She was in shock.

She confronted him when he came back and he denied it and promptly grabbed the bottle with green pill and threw it outside and said it must have been someone from where he bought it that put it. She did not believe him and pressed him for the truth. He itted to it and said the pill was an extacy drug.

She demanded to see a whole pill and he showed it to her. It was a green capsule. He said he gave it to her so she would give him sex and he also confessed he put it in her drink on that party day, that it was his friends that advised him to do it since he told them she was a virgin.

She left his house and broke up with him. This guy who is 29 years of age, the family thinks my cousin is just wicked and tag her like every other girl searching for greener pastures but they don’t know the truth (she promised not to tell anyone what he did).

Did she do the right thing? Would any of you tolerate your drink being spiked without you knowing it? Especially by someone you love and wish to get married to? I have pleaded to her to open up but she still insists she wouldn’t. Please I need your advise.

Source: http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/07/ladies-beware-of-this-kind-of-man/

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Johnnoah1st: 3:49pm On Jul 18, 2015

ANOTHER TRASH 4RM NAIRALANDERS, do we still need to advice u here? d situation his clear, someone dat can put something in ur drink to have sex because dey advice him to do so can also kill u if dey advice him to kill u, stay clear of him. if she's comfortable to keep as secret she can if not she can do otherwise. BUT STAY CLEAR OF HIM!

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Behira(f): 3:51pm On Jul 18, 2015

She did wat she ought to do

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Cutehector(m): 3:53pm On Jul 18, 2015

Neva go to a club.....

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dulux07(m): 3:54pm On Jul 18, 2015

Open up abt what again

. She did d right thing. N bsids how did u know since she did not open up. undecided

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Re: ‘ladies, Beware Of This Kind Of Man’ by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jul 18, 2015

thank God she arn't disvirgin

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crowther15(m): 4:03pm On Jul 18, 2015

dulux07:
Open up abt what again . She did d right thing. N bsids how did u know since she did not open up.

this is a copy story from the guardian

Chukwuma134(m): 4:05pm On Jul 18, 2015

Lies

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dulux07(m): 4:05pm On Jul 18, 2015

crowther15:
this is a copy story from the guardian

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Re: ‘ladies, Beware Of This Kind Of Man’ by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 18, 2015

Boyfriends be druging gf ...all for kitty nah wah oh this life ...

shammahyaro(f): 4:25pm On Jul 18, 2015

na wah o

Aitee1: 5:05pm On Jul 18, 2015

So this hint land fp page... Mods undecided

Re: ‘ladies, Beware Of This Kind Of Man’ by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2015

Op you cousin did right.
In other news, ladies stay away from this type of guy as well

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Olayemie(m): 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2015

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UnknownT: 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2015

did the guy bleep her the first time he drugged her wine?
*edited* she felt awkward and left. OK thank you, next!!!!

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aminho(m): 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2015

BARCANISTER SHOULD COME AND ANNALISE THIS ONE TOO

Jeromejnr(m): 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2015

What type of silly question is the OP asking for crying out loud.

So you expect her to continue with that kind of relationship.

SMH for some people sef.

At least that girl has got some sense. Some silly girls will still continue with the relationship.

Coldfeet(f): 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2015

A crime was committed.. x is an illegal drug and was istered without her consent.

Thank God It didnt result to rape.
She needs to report this! The s.o.b that gave her that drug deserves a jailing!

A 29 year old that has access to the "beans" can't get his girlfriend to lay with him willingly?

Anyways she's got no prove and Nigeria doesn't have a functional toxicology lab!

Its going to be her words against his.

Case dismissed. tongue

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Brightology2(m): 5:07pm On Jul 18, 2015

Tank God 4 her life

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mascot87(m): 5:07pm On Jul 18, 2015

That guy is wicked & heartless. The girl should just stay away from him forever. How could he say "he was adviced" just because she is a virgin? No be by force to have sex with u na & if u want a girl that will give u sex 24/7, them plenty out their na. You just he want to destroy d life of that girl. Foolish boy

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afuye(m): 5:07pm On Jul 18, 2015

Seriously? Anyway

res ipsa loquitur

The fact has settled itself, cefini!

ultrazone2(m): 5:07pm On Jul 18, 2015

hqhqhq

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gbaskiboy: 5:08pm On Jul 18, 2015

Are never read yet

IamOpemipo(m): 5:08pm On Jul 18, 2015