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erumena:


It's either he marries the first lady or get someone else that is real, he's a Pastor and he needs a woman that will run with his vision. The second lady is definitely not an ideal choice, she'll complicate his life! My two cents.

Nice comment so far.

Its soo sad to realize a lot of people on this platform just type and give suggestions without thinking, what's bad in asking for an advice, are you the best around that knows how best to handle any situation? how many of you @ one time or the other was not confused, and even when you know what's seems right, you stil seek for advice. A pastor is human for Christ sake, what's bad in him meeting someone online, do you guys have an idea how they met, or what transpired? Stop displaying your foolishness here..as if you are in anyway better, Like someone rightly said, the Pastor should invite the 2nd lady, arrange a proper meeting if he's serious, and he's ready to accept the baby, check her out, talk face 2 face, get to know her than the online impression you have, after all he did for the 1st, I don't think she loves him as much he does, and I don't think she'l make the pastor happy in the marriage.

Marry and care for both of them!

Start two business sorry I meant churches and put dem each to oversee!

My humble advice to the pastor is to look inward to what he wanted in a woman, is the first lady coming back cos no one has propose to her or the family has agreed her to marry the pastor, the second lady should make up her mind to what she want why is she putting her son in the picture, the pas tor can still take care of the son after they got married, just cool down let pastor marry you first before pushing him to what you want, pastor decide on what you want go back to the first lady or marry the second with her son, as for me I will marry the second were my heart not marring because we have known for a long time, the family of the first lady did not want the pastor even thou they marry they wont value him.

ronald4lif:
What advice does the pastor actually need. He needs public opinion on who to marry among the first and second lady?.

I'm always awe in awe or awed when people sort for others opinion on who to marry. How is that even possible.

oyin17:



See as e dey pain you, my unshave ?

yes! Re u confuse? Meet ur pastor

oyin17:



See as e dey pain you, my unshave ?

yes! Re u confuse? Meet ur pastor

chaloner:
yes! Re u confuse? Meet ur pastor

Surrender to Jesus and save yourself this stress. why are you after me? I didn't insult d guy, did I?

I just want to sincerely say A VERY BIG THANK YOU to the following commentators for their outstanding contributions so far.
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@TOPSYBBN
@HOLYSAINT1(Abi HOLYCLOWN)
@ERUMENA (very kind and thoughtful)
@ELZILAZ
@NYCEGUY92
@LORDPRESH (try to be polite)
@SOCIALMEDIAMAN (winked back. Wrong guess though.)
@NAIRALANDBUZZ
@NAZGUL45
@TEEMY (thoughtful)
@Kpolli (Super thoughtful)
@Omotolu (but so impolite)
@MUUTZ
@OJINUOCHIBI
@BID4RICH
@ANATHEMIAMIA (freaking unbiased)
@RAKASBABE
@ANDROMIDA
@BESIYKE
@HOMGUY (super thoughtful and actionable)
@ASKONDO09
@EMEGED01
@SKILLZBAE
@PANSOPHIST
@MISSYETTY
@ABBEY621
@PUREVIEW2008
@CLINTON207
@GRANDSTAR
@LOLALAZ
@BOLUYONGP
@IFE01
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Thank you all!!!

oyin17:




Surrender to Jesus and save yourself this stress. why are you after me? I didn't insult d guy, did I?

I would hav b. Hapy if dat was d case. Here u sounded as if d pastor is stupi.d

a pastor should never get involved with a woman who should be in her husbands house.

chaloner:
I would hav b. Hapy if dat was d case. Here u sounded as if d pastor is stupi.d

I didn't sound like he's stupid, he is actually stupid for wanting to marry someone he has not met before at 36, he is very stupid for doing that. I doubt if he's a pastor. we understand ourselves now right? Fake pastors everywhere you don't know which one to trust.

How come a pasToR cAnnot seek thE. FacE of God regarding who To marry?
From thE story,the Pastor has already severed ties witH the first girl because of her parent refusal,so why does he still beHave like a sturbon grAsshopper?

oyin17:




I didn't sound like he's stupid, he is actually stupid for wanting to marry someone he has not met before at 36, he is very stupid for doing that. I doubt if he's a pastor. we understand ourselves now right? Fake pastors everywhere you don't know which one to trust.

u sounded lik a child " a very small one " , u dnt knw waat life is all abt talk of marriage. Even pple at 40 nd above wil mary on recommended by dere friend of relatives nd dat for d first time also. Go bak to ur older post , u were askin me to accept jesus nd nw u re calin someone stupi.d . I cry for u nd praay God wil forgive u

chaloner:
u sounded lik a child " a very small one " , u dnt knw waat life is all abt talk of marriage. Even pple at 40 nd above wil mary on recommended by dere friend of relatives nd dat for d first time also. Go bak to ur older post , u were askin me to accept jesus nd nw u re calin someone stupi.d . I cry for u nd praay God wil forgive u

Cry me a river if you like, I don't give a fvck!

I will advice the pastor to go for the first girl but he must ask her what she has been doing for this past year of their break up and above all l have not heard you mention anything like prayer.lf this man is really a pastor,l think first thing first is to pray and ask God to reveal if any of the two is even considered to be his wife.May God help this your Pastor

oyin17:




Cry me a river if you like, I don't give a fvck!

hahahahaahaha nd finally u re jus showin wat u re , nd if u do giv me I wil fvck u real hard from behind

chaloner:
hahahahaahaha nd finally u re jus showin wat u re , nd if u do giv me I wil fvck u real hard from behind

what's the meaning of this? take your sex starved life out of her!

[quote author=paschu post=33662044]I just want to sincerely say A VERY BIG THANK YOU to the following commentators for their outstanding contributions so far.
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My advice to your pastor friend is to choose NEITHER!!!!!!!!
Let him move on with his life, there are other women out there, shikena

oyin17:



what's the meaning of this? take your sex starved life out of her!

hehehehehehe na so e pain u reach ?

chaloner:
hehehehehehe na so e pain u reach ?

Free me abeg

oyin17:




Free me abeg

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New member wan challenge old member like me on nairaland . Na ur body for tel u. no mind me dear. All are for fun.

Hahaha abi

UncleDeeee:
After all these warnings why should I comment?

dagentility:
Hahaha abi

Sweetheart

Headlamp1:
Sweetheart

ar u on watsapp

dagentility:

ar u on watsapp

Yew dear but I'm always skeptical about dropping my number on public forums. Have you resolved the issue with your email?

UncleDeeee:
After all these warnings why should I comment?

I wonder ooooo.
too much warning.
I suspect op is the pastor