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How Long Should A Woman Wait For A Man To Get His Act Together? (24912 Views)
OnyeEgo1(m): 8:01pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
sukkot: u talk about homeless i av u travelled on road to up north in d recent tyms. I put it to YOU, if u Live only FOR YOURSELF you are still POOR, pple need ur help in dis life weda u like it or not.... Responsibility is maturity, but how can u achieve dat without working it out? |
damselabi(f): 8:01pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
QMark:U got up n achieved ur own dreams, he is nt getting up at all...hw ll he bcome som1 let alone dangote. |
iamDepeju(f): 8:02pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
[quote author=FlirtyKaren post=28820760]Everyone has dreams, goals, aspiration. But what do you do, guys, when the person you are dating has desire but never really does anything about it? Let's say you've been dating a guy, ladies. He's perfect. He looks great, the sex is great, you get along perfectly but there's only one problem, he isn't doing much with his life. He has tons of aspirations and dreams but when it comes to getting up and achieving them dreams, it's a different story. He believes that one day he's going to make it,but it's clear to see that the drive isn't there. How long do you stay before you give up on him? Do you immediately assume that he's never going to amount to anything and cut him off immediately? Or would you stick with him and hope that he gets his act together? Would you help him get his act together? Should you help him get his act together? http://www.lailasblog.com/2014/12/how-long-should-woman-wait-for-man-to.html#sthash....the lady can help d guy get his act together by praying for him, communicate with him and encourage him regularly.....and if the guy doesn't show any sign of seriousness with is life, then she can "walk away". 1 Like |
franksunny(m): 8:08pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
the issue here is that you are not seeing all he is doing to achieving his goal. nigeria is a rugged place where many are struggling and few are getting good result therefore making it look like some are not doing anything. so if you want to go, you can go ahead and leave him. he will definitely arrive unless he is a lazy a$$
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sukkot: 8:10pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
OnyeEgo1:help comes in all forms. you have a one track brain. and responsibility has nothing to do with money. BEING RESPONSIBLE IS not stealing, not cheating, not committing adultery, treating others how you want to be treated. thats what responsibility is. take a look at buhari ? he has no money but he is the epitome of responsibility. take a look at jonathan ? he has all the money in the world but is as irresponsible as they come. OPEN YOUR EYES CUZ YOU ARE BLIND 1 Like 1 Share |
peekeeks(m): 8:11pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
I guess forever is a perfect timing for dat huh..
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Abbey2sam(m): 8:13pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Nobleval: i did...The question is meant for both party |
Hemanwel(m): 8:16pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Babymama1:Why you carry this matter for head like Gala??Only you have dropped about 5 comments or more in the first two pages.You really sound bitter.Perhaps the topic perfectly describes your past relationship?Anyways...it's quite an interesting and vital topic. On the flip side: APC has been accusing the incumbent President,GEJ (in his 50s),of being a clueless and WEAK leader and therefore calls for change.Yet,the not-too-ready-for-change APC is fielding a 71-year old (WEAKER retired General) as its Presidential candidate. Are these people ready for this change they are clamouring for??Time shall tell! |
Tex42(m): 8:37pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Did they not say that google is ur friend?
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OnyeEgo1(m): 8:40pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
sukkot: i wud treat dis post as though it is from a damaged brain which rilly it is, how come u ended up with politics? N insulting a man ur father wouldn't hesitate to bow for when he sees him from afar. Respect is reciprocal boy, it is obvious u don't understand responsibility, u av Google.com to get help on dat. When u wanna quote me next tym, try using some form of sanity while typing, it wud b greatly appreciated #Adios |
sukkot: 8:45pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
OnyeEgo1:SEE you are the typical empty barrel nigerian who worships men. its all starting to come out now. you are slowly revealing who you are. i have seen your type before, when you see a politician a whole bunch of you lie on the floor prostrating for fellow human beings, fellow mortals such as yourself. you are a born man worshipping loser and nigeria needs to get rid of people like you for us to rise as a nation. a-s-s kissers and brown-nosers like you need to be eliminated. you are the problem of nigeria. |
TPIA3: 8:47pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
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ocelot2006(m): 8:52pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
He has the vision but lacks the drive, yet she's still waiting....here's an idea, how abt you equally help motivate him to reach his full potential rather than just wait moping?
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Re: How Long Should A Woman Wait For A Man To Get His Act Together? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Hemanwel: I have noticed you Happy now? Next? |
kayalla(f): 8:59pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
till all the hair on her head is grey!
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misreal(m): 9:05pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Babymama1:u lie bros.. |
sukkot: 9:17pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
OnyeEgo1:this is you right here. you and your kind [img]http://1.bp..com/-7ifjA8G6R18/VIDSAZwy3eI/AAAAAAACTfE/qXYEat_Tc-Q/s1600/Govs.jpg[/img] 1 Like |
Icerex(m): 9:41pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
Babymama1:Hmmm. You sound like an Igala girl. Are You one? |
OnyeEgo1(m): 9:43pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
sukkot: goto sky bank n donate ur aggression it wud yield u profit trust me, why go gaga??. I am a big ed or buhari come 2015, but resorting to abuses to prove ur point goes to show how little ur mindset... Show some courtesy by honoring those who are meant to b honored n stop Being arrogant in misery... Gej failed Nigeria but dat does not mean we shud disrespect him hence he is still a president... U know what, u can choose to learn from dis short post, but unfortunately u may choose not to.. |
sukkot: 10:08pm On Dec 12, 2014 |
OnyeEgo1:nigga take your illiterate a-s-s back to school. learn how to write legible english first before you quote my post ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Woman Wait For A Man To Get His Act Together? by Nobody: 12:10am On Dec 13, 2014 |
There is no such thing as waiting for anybody except u had odd intentions or no valid intentions from the begining. Equally I can tell u that the majority of men want sm1 who can endure the odd times with dem. So ladies it never will be a smooth ride, stick with him and help him become more cordinated. God bless
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Toks2008(m): 12:27am On Dec 13, 2014 |
freecocoa: Wait! i dont seem to get it. When does loving a man or staying with a man based on what he is or his future status? SO its now impossible for a lady to stay in love with a man even if he remains poor for as long as he lives. What a crazy world 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should A Woman Wait For A Man To Get His Act Together? by Nobody: 4:00am On Dec 13, 2014 |
No time for talkers. If it's just him, he can take his sweet arse time. But if he is trying to create something while with another, he better not be wasting time. A good woman is a cheer leader. She will provide the energy of encouragement. It is left to him to take that energy and convert it to one of actual DOING and WINNING. At a certain age, a man shouldn't still be talking, he should be DOING. He may not have achieved yet, but he CANNOT be that guy who comfortably spends his free time doing jack squat and not devoting a good chunk of his waking hours to whatever he claims to be working on. Especially when he now has someone rooting for him. For example, it got to a point early in my life where just going to a party or club felt like such a brutal abuse of my time. Because I would have rather been building my "thing". In fact, if I make arrangements with someone to meet up casually and they cancel, I actually always FELT HAPPY, because now I didn't have to waste my time with activities that don't really lead anywhere definite. Mediocrity is something anyone with a dream must reject in Jesus name. Relationship is not a contract. That shit begins and ends everyday. "Hunny, we aren't compatible and we don't seem to be going the same way in life. Thanks for the journey, it was fun, but we'll need go our separate ways" "We aren't going to work. You have to go out there and find him/her, cuz it's not me" "Good news! I've decided to loose some weight...starting with YOU ![]() Use any of these patented lines to your heart's content, royalty-free. Good luck ![]() |
itstpia8: 4:06am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Toks2008: like i always say, 1 Cor 13 is my own definition of love. but as per topic, she can wait as long as she likes. |
onadana: 5:51am On Dec 13, 2014 |
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Edusouls: See frustration in working form . Abeg na me say make poverty be your friend.Why can't people accept the fact they don't have.There is a big different between having prospect and pursuing your prospect.A man is the head and should act as such.Parasite and leeches like you are the type that look for women who will lift them out of poverty.Be a real man. ![]() |
freecocoa(f): 6:28am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Toks2008:I don't know about you but I don't want to be poor so I can't stay with any man whom is willing to remain poor, it's one thing to be poor when we met and another to want to remain that way. Have you seen what poverty can do? |
OnyeEgo1(m): 8:09am On Dec 13, 2014 |
freecocoa: it can make u drink otapiapia, share beer with like 3 pple, mix alomo bitter with coke so it wud taste like wine, being broke ain't nice at all much more being poor |
Wisegeek01(m): 10:00am On Dec 13, 2014 |
She can wait forever if she likes !
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meniyke: 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
Ladies: The problem here is not on the 'WAITING' but on the 'MAN YOU LOVE.' Just change your mind-set. Men are designed right from the creation to LOVE you (wives). When he does, you are to assess him and when you found him worthy and became his wife, you then SUBMIT. Women are designed in the manna that when they are been loved or cared for, you will get their love back 100 folds except those that are... Ladies hear this: a man that LOVES you will care for you, when it is the other way round, the kind of BLOW you will see one day eeeeeh, it's only mike tyson can explain that. Ladies: change your mind-set.
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Mclick(m): 12:43pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
ronald4lif:Aoch |
Mclick(m): 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
FlirtyKaren:Vision without drive and sacrifices is emptiness upon emptiness equal hoping against hope |
1stola: 1:20pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
ToyozzieTohBad:Your profile's personal text... for real? 1 Like |