NewStats: 3,261,151 , 8,173,198 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 11:20 AM r6gx

Its well....

Abstain frm gals if yu cnt afford d cost of keeping those bitches

head_to_to: OP. shame on you. A guy should be able to spend anything on her woman without making a public show out of it.

Spend anything? U must be a Mugu.

You guys are just talking your own. It is because you have not seen a really virtuous woman that can do things for you. Ive found mine sha..

53cur3m0d3: Cost of having a girlfriend in Nigeria?
I really don't kno cos even tho we've broken up since January 2012, I'm stil paying...

Mayb u still getting punny from her

nadia_SA: cheiiii where u trying to buy her love with that phone?? Sinc u mr sponsor by her airtime ...mayb ONE day she'll want u more then a friend o

No bro, she actualy begged me 4 de phone, after I gave her de fone she wanted to kis me which I turndown as a gentlman,

Guys just dis moring I was wake up by her call me sms, I called her we talk 4 a very long time, we do talk nasty tins, she even calls me her husband, bt would nt date me, I realy did una advise me, mature advise ok tanx.

ebukav: Guys just dis moring I was wake up by her call me sms, I called her we talk 4 a very long time, we do talk nasty tins, she even calls me her husband, bt would nt date me, I realy did una advise me, mature advise ok tanx.

Have you trying talking love way into she? She was wanting you to being romantically.
Honestly guy, sell that phone and buy a dictionary.

No bottom fashioned against me shall prosper,i will never become an ATM.

Cine: I've spent on my GF.
So far: a blackberry, an iphone, Clothes, shoes, brazilian hair, airtime, food shopping, restaurants, toiletries, cinema outings, beach outings.......

I go to the cinema and eat out regularly so don't mind bringing her along.

The other stuff I brought her because I wanted to do it and I was happy to make her happy. I assure you she's asked me for more things and I've flat out said no..... or I'll tell her she'll have to wait till I'm ready to get it.

Is it good for our relationship... I dunno, probably not... but she doesn't have money, and I do.... I once asked her would she still be with me if i didn't have money she said of course she would.... I believed her, and I'm sure she believed it was true.... but in reality, I would probably eventually lose her to someone else.

Lol... I guess this is a dream then... Lwtmb

ebukav: Guys just dis moring I was wake up by her call me sms, I called her we talk 4 a very long time, we do talk nasty tins, she even calls me her husband, bt would nt date me, I realy did una advise me, mature advise ok tanx.

Guy just lock up abeg... Stop this fantasy thing you are doing. You are the one getting hurt while she enjoys the show... Be wise and pull yourself outta her way. I bet you, with time she would come knocking on your door and this time it would be for real...

christokuty: No bottom fashioned against me shall prosper,i will never become an ATM.

Amen!!! Lolzzz wahala dey ooo

egift: I had wished that friendship between two people will just be about loving and motivating one another, hopefully lead to a permanent relationship (in marriage). But as I have observed over the years, having a girl friend is getting costlier by the day.

The guy is just a boy-friend, not even a husband.

This thread is aimed for us to build a comprehensive list of what we have come to observed as responsibilities, demands, expenses, pressures, roles, positions, and expectations that our men have been going through today just because they got a girl-friend.

its like having ronaldo, beckham and messi on ur pay roll.

dmcdad:
Guy just lock up abeg... Stop this fantasy thing you are doing. You are the one getting hurt while she enjoys the show... Be wise and pull yourself outta her way. I bet you, with time she would come knocking on your door and this time it would be for real...

Tanx bro.

some girls r too money demanding, but some r also moderate, some dont ask, but through there action you will know. also in my own view, if u don't hv money or anything reasonable, dont stress ur self on ur girl expecially in of finance, if she really like u, she will understand.

Number 8 is the only ''most'' critical point to me .......

Lose of useful hours that could have been used to pursue Life's Goals !!! .....

Time must never be joked it ..............When a woman opens mouth like Crocodile....... RUN !!!

lorretta u: Pls poor guyz shouldn't come out here and try to talk down on Nigerian ladies.I know I've dated a broke ass nigger for some years I loved him for real.and I also know a lot of girls who date broke boys loving them with all their hearts.
Don't no body get me upset now before seun will say I broke some of his rules.cos I'll put any confused broke boy in his place right now.
# themtalkingnonsensecostheyarebroke#

you said you are dating a broke ass guy as if you are dating him out of pity. I can see you are dating him cos you hav a corner marking (another guy) dat is paying you as ur mugu without his awareness. Be honest. See how you are insulting who you said u loved, calling him broke ass. Can you tell him broke ass to his face?

Question: The cost of having a girlfriend in Nigeria?

Answer: Zilch. Nada

coefoe: May be I need to say this! Women are the most comionate, considerate, and understanding beings God created. When our man is plain and open to us, we don't expect beyond his means. For example if your gf/wife knows your monthly take home/income, I bet you, she will never demand for outrageous things that are beyond your ability.
The key is being truthful. Stop bragging! Let your partner know your capability, and you will be fine...

madam dey r not all like dat

headtoto: OP. shame on you. A guy should be able to spend anything on her woman without making a public show out of it.

And she will be the first to run when it is exhausted.

NET OR GROSS COST?

Lanre90:
NET OR GROSS COST?

Start somewhere

When I start dating a girl I calculate every amount I spend. After three months if the money spent on her is way too much,I will tell her she has to start spending too or that's the end; coz there is no return in investment and when you go broke she will run. Some girls think dating a guy is a full time job.

egift:
The List

1. She will request to take you out, you will fund the entire outing.
2. You buy a better phone for her, BIS, recharge cards and still be the one to be calling.
3. During festive seasons, you don't take a gift to her - you actually funded the expenditures before the event.
4. The guy becomes responsible for her academic expenditures.
5. Depending on her family financial ability the guy becomes responsible for every one else.
6. If the guy has a car - welcome the new "taxi".
7. The guy is converted to Automated Teller Machine for all her expenditures.
8. Lose of useful hours that could have been used in pursuing life's goals.
9. Impulsive expenses that may likely not have been factored in the guy's budget.
10. Poor saving habits - especially for those who do not take cognizance of what the spend on their girlfriends.
11. Unnecessary heartbreaks when the lady finally leave you.
12. Possibility of ing terminal diseases.
13. Coming under undue and avoidable pressures.
14. Lack of concentration at work and other engagements
15. Subjection to premature nagging and emotional traumas.
16. Having emergency marriage due to unwanted pregnancy.
17. Struggling to someone else when the guy can barely stand on his own.
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NOTE:
- Items on this list may not apply in a single instance but is widespread.
- I will be updating this list as you post your comments.
- For the cost of having a boy friend, that is a case for another thread.