NewStats: 3,263,562 , 8,180,554 topics. Date: Friday, 06 June 2025 at 01:52 PM 35y1f

PLEASE I NEED SINCERE CONTRIBUTIONS TO THIS!

NO ARGUMENTS PLEASE 🙏

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Your girlfriend/wife could:

Cook for you and cook for others

You don't have an issue with that.

Your mechanic works for you and works for others

Your lawyer represents you and others

Your doctor treats you and treats others too

You don't really care!

Your cleaner and cook service others too

Your barber "barbs" others too

Your dry cleaner works for others too

Your girlfriend/wife could be a chef, masseuse, nurse: she cooks and cares for others, she massages them

You aren't bothered.


WHY IS IT A PROBLEM WHEN YOUR GIRLFRIEND/WIFE SLEEPS WITH ANOTHER MAN?

Why do you get angry and offended?


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Someone is likely to come in to post something like, "If I have paid her bride price/taken care of her expenses, then she should sleep with only me and no one else."

Kobojunkie:
Someone is likely to come in to post something like, "If I have paid her bride price/taken care of her expenses, then she should sleep with only me and no one else."

isn't that valid?

opinions please

Why do they go for the ‘Wife’, out of 195 countries in the world, only few parts in 5 countries s polyandry..
Why are you fighting nature? Much reason you die untimely 👌🏾

To cheat is an automatic end of the relationship. No need for drama or trying to understand on what happened

Men pay all the bills. Women are allowed to cheat when they pay their bills.

Look at any well to do women, can a man control or dictate to her? Use your brain!!

Serendipity2023:


isn't that valid?

Let me try and provide an illustration...
Isolate 10ladies and 1man on an island, if all the ladies got pregnant, the only man would take responsibility.
Now reverse the case - 10men with one lady being ed around. If the lady took in... Confusion, accusations, denial, disaster!
Abah! Why you guys like vawulence like these?!

Simple. It is called the mighty male's EGO.

If she cheats and I do not find out,I won't care. I have my own side cheeks and life goes on. It is not a do or die affair.

Do you have a wife

ARISHEM:
Do you have a wife

is that the answer to the question?

SouthSouth1914:
Men pay all the bills. Women are allowed to cheat when they pay their bills.

Look at any well to do women, can a man control or dictate to her? Use your brain!!

wow

Serendipity2023:

Why do you get angry and offended?
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i wonder why oh.
i just wonder.

Serendipity2023:
i[code][isn't that valid?

Of course it isn't a valid reason. The only reason why q couple would expect the other not to cheat would have to be a mutual agreement of loyalty in the relationship. Anything else would amount to what you described in your OP, a senseless expectation of sorts.

ARISHEM:
Do you have a wife

Your wife has your property?

Below is my personal opinion about women and men generally.

The one reason is because sex ties the souls of the two opposite sex that engages in it.

Cheating affects both opposite sex. If you are a human and your partner cheats on you and you don’t find it emotionally draining, it means your soul is not yet connected.

That’s why some ladies would be married to a very handsome man with financial independence, but still occasionally meet that one ugly low life to bleep the hell out of her.


Implication of a human cheating with random people- hookup, they would never be satisfied with one person in marriage.

Their emotional wiring would be so damaged that they won’t enjoy natural beauty of romance with one partner.

Any man that ends up with such lady has successfully made private whats meant to be public.

It is because that ugly low life had been there before the man who married her came her way.

A woman who’s deeply into hookup and gets bleeped flesh to flesh are more in danger of being damaged.

While a chronic womanizer can still bound when he finally wants to settle down.

Reason ladies should be very careful comparing themselves to men in anything sex matter.

Well, all i have to say is, in the present day Nigeria especially if i am the only man alive, if i cheat, my wife is free to leave, if she cheats my wife will still leave the marriage, so jona swallow fish or fish swallow jona, the koko be say swallow was involved, no woman cheats and stay with me, i mean ordinary chat is enough for me to kick her out of my house.

We are Africans and our value remains, forget genZ cursed generation of unclothedness, in my culture, no woman cheats on their husband and go scot free, those that tried it are alive but can even speak what happen to them.

drehdinho:
➜Below is my personal opinion about women and men generally. The one reason is because sex ties the souls of the two opposite sex that engages in it.
Cheating affects both opposite sex. If you are a human and your partner cheats on you and you don’t find it emotionally draining, it means your soul is not yet connected. That’s why some ladies would be married to a very handsome man with financial independence, but still occasionally meet that one ugly low life to bleep the hell out of her. Implication of a human cheating with random people- hookup, they would never be satisfied with one person in marriage. Their emotional wiring would be so damaged that they won’t enjoy natural beauty of romance with one partner. Any man that ends up with such lady has successfully made private whats meant to be public. It is because that ugly low life had been there before the man who married her came her way. A woman who’s deeply into hookup and gets bleeped flesh to flesh are more in danger of being damaged. While a chronic womanizer can still bound when he finally wants to settle down. Reason ladies should be very careful comparing themselves to men in anything sex matter.

The same goes for emotionally twarted/unavailable and insecure men who, even with a beautiful, caring woman at home, cannot keep themselves from cheating on her, even going as far as to claim it is natural for them to do so. Any woman who ends up with such a man is in for a life of suffering and heartache, too.

Kobojunkie:
The same goes for emotionally twarted/unavailable and insecure men who, even with a beautiful, caring woman at home, cannot keep themselves from cheating on her, even going as far as to claim it is natural for them to do so. Any woman who ends up with such a man is in for a life of suffering and heartache, too.

A woman that shares her body with different random men claiming men also do the same will end up regretting it.

Sex affects women more psychologically than men.

That’s the way God designs it. A woman can crave for sex for the rest of her life with her ex.

And this even more so true where such ex bleeps her occasional - say interval of once a year.

Ironically, her husband may even be good in bed than the ex.

But that scarcity will always keep the spark alive and sadly to her enslavement.

At this stage the lady could be manipulated to do the unthinkable under the bidding of the ex , because she is so vulnerable.

But we men are not wired that way.

A word they say is enough for the wise. I don Tok my own.

Kobojunkie:
The same goes for emotionally twarted/unavailable and insecure men who, even with a beautiful, caring woman at home, cannot keep themselves from cheating on her, even going as far as to claim it is natural for them to do so. Any woman who ends up with such a man is in for a life of suffering and heartache, too.

Kobojunkie, see how you carry the matter ontop your head like dead weight.🥱

drehdinho:
➜A woman that shares her body with different random men claiming men also do the same will end up regretting it. Sex affects women more psychologically than men. That’s the way God designs it. A woman can crave for sex for the rest of her life with her ex. And this even more so true where such ex bleeps her occasional - say interval of once a year.
➜Ironically, her husband may even be good in bed than the ex. But that scarcity will always keep the spark alive and sadly to her enslavement. At this stage the lady could be manipulated to do the unthinkable under the bidding of the ex , because she is so vulnerable. But we men are not wired that way. A word they say is enough for the wise. I don Tok my own.

These claims have all been proven as myths that your ancestors used in deceiving and keeping their women subservient and accepting of the many atrocities they carried out against them. Now, Science has more than proven them all false and of no value to any intelligent being out there. I suggest you acquire knowledge in place of ignorance fraught with delusions.

2. This goes the same for men whose wives may be good in bed but still find themselves slaves to their lust for other women. There is no difference!

Kobojunkie:
These claims have all been proven as myths that your ancestors used in deceiving and keeping their women subservient and accepting of the many atrocities they carried out against them. Now, Science has more than proven them all false and of no value to any intelligent being out there. I suggest you acquire knowledge in place of ignorance fraught with delusions.

2. This goes the same for men whose wives may be good in bed but still find themselves slaves to their lust for other women. There is no difference!

99% of the time, men you claim slave to their lust for other women are being begged into the act by these lust driven ravenous women.

I know and can confirm this from personal experience and even from friends.

If a husband is caught cheating on his wife with another woman, the wife won’t attack the husband, but go after the woman he cheated with. Why ? because the wife knows the orchestrator and culprit is always the woman.

Am not defending the men but these are sad realities.

drehdinho:
➜99% of the time, men you claim slave to their lust for other women are being begged into the act by these lust driven ravenous women. I know and can confirm this from personal experience and even from friends.
➜ If a husband is caught cheating on his wife with another woman, the wife won’t attack the husband, but go after the woman he cheated with. Why? because the wife knows the orchestrator and culprit is always the woman.
➜ Am not defending the men but these are sad realities.

So, according to you, men who cheat on their wives are imbe_ciles, incapable of controlling their own bodily urges/lust, right? 🤔

2. Wrong! The reason why Nigerian women typically attack the other woman remains because of their faulty upbringings and low education really. More educated and socially aware individuals among them, however, realize that when it comes to all humans, the lack of self-discipline and self-control is a personal problem and not the fault of others. 🤔

3. Everything you have continued to post seems to defy reality, as you assume different rules apply as far as self-discipline and common self-control when it comes to men and women. Reality says that isn't true at all. 🤔

Kobojunkie:
So, according to you, men who cheat on their wives are imbe_ciles, incapable of controlling their own bodily urges/lust, right? 🤔

2. Wrong! The reason why Nigerian women typically attack the other woman remains because of their faulty upbringings and low education really. More educated and socially aware individuals among them, however, realize that when it comes to all humans, the lack of self-discipline and self-control is a personal problem and not the fault of others. 🤔

3. Everything you have continued to post seems to defy reality, as you assume different rules apply as far as self-discipline and common self-control when it comes to men and women. Reality says that isn't true at all. 🤔

Men who fall into the trap of these selfish women are not slowpoke. They are the victims. The use of the word “begged” in my previous reply goes far beyond the dictionary meaning. Why is Kayamata product becoming so popular ? Are men not the target?

So tell me are women not the one begging men for relationship even when they know the man is committed to his wife.

At the end of the day , a woman leading a wayward lifestyle - sleeping with different random men , is only doing damages to herself.

I rest my case.

drehdinho:
➜Men who fall into the trap of these selfish women are not slowpoke. They are the victims. The use of the word “begged” in my previous reply goes far beyond the dictionary meaning. Why is Kayamata product becoming so popular ? Are men not the target? So tell me are women not the one begging men for relationship even when they know the man is committed to his wife. At the end of the day , a woman leading a wayward lifestyle - sleeping with different random men , is only doing damages to herself. I rest my case.

These men and women, all of them adults, are both driven by lust and maybe even sexual reward, and commit no illegal acts by engaging each other. Yet you conclude that the men are victims while the women are selfish? What a very pathetic and blindsided conclusion to reach. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Toto should be shared freely, I have no issues with it

Kobojunkie:
Someone is likely to come in to post something like, "If I have paid her bride price/taken care of her expenses, then she should sleep with only me and no one else."

Is it not true?

NosyParrot:
✓ Is it not true?

How can it be true?

because men do not like to share at all. to man , a cheating spouse or cheating girl is considered a betrayal. once a woman cheats on a man or have an affair, she should consider an end of marriage to her husband or end of the relationship with her boyfriend/fiance.