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Better than killing an innocent man before his time or being killed all in the name of marriage.

It is as simple as that OR look for a simp OR just make up your mind that it's going to be a short-term marriage

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

Ndi feminist are coming for Man of God,

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press9jatv:
“Once you discover that you cannot submit to a man, don’t marry. You can be fulfilled without a man”

-Pastor Abel Damina tells women


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dckLMGK5Syk

It takes a lot of patience to deal with an independent woman. And I believe this is part of the hullabaloos in most homes 'cause a man will always want to Stand as a Man.

THE TRUTH IS YOU CANNOT RUN AWAY FROM YOUR WEAKNESS...THE ONLY OPTION TO OVERCOMING WEAKNESS IS TO BE INTENTIONAL IN DEALING WITH IT. STAYING UNMARRIED MAY EVER GIVE RISE TO ANOTHER WEAKNESS

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

error.

Doesn't matter, if she's from the Sade.ast she'll still commit paternity fraud.

press9jatv:
Fact here. Single women due for marriage will be much in our generation

the street of singlehood is filled with single beautiful ladies in their 30s, early 40s......it is almost over for the marriage institution actually. YOung men have realized the truth- you will toil, you will labour for the family, you will sacrifice just for someone or some people to label u absent father. Not hands-on. YOu will suppress your ego yet u will be labelled misogynist because u are doing the sensible thing-stamping ur authority and not letting a girl manipulate you emotionally. AT the end of it all, u use ur sweat ur money to build the family, the children, the children starts flourishing .......u do not have their companionship, the affection belongs to the manipulative gender. WHY MARRY THEN, why not use your money to enjoy your life, build better network, do better health insurance for yourself, and raise your kids with a girlfriend that is ready to play by your rules. Some will say, she will leave when she gets the person that will marry her- How is that your own problem as a man? Are you looking for a loyal partner OR someone that wants to use you to fulfill her dreams of being a Mrs.
Let your kids judge you by the fact you are their father and you are pampering them and taking care of them as your children appropriately, NOT by a distorted story that a woman will feed them about how you are "terrible" husband just because you are not simping.
Then there is another group that have used their productive and fertile years to wait and look for Tall Dark and Handsome and yahoo boys and rich men. Now Body dun wrinkle, everything dun scatter, dem come dey find any decent boy that will come and clean up the mess

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

God can't give you a man that is submissive rather a loving one. you might now count his kind hearted love to be submissiveness, which is virtually not.

just people miss interpreting the submission thing. you can't submit to someone you love neither would love someone you can't submit to. in essence the concept of love and submission means respect each other. can love someone you don't respect likewise submit to someone you respect?

Totally agree!
If your intention as a woman is not to submit to the man you want to marry,just stay single!
Nah be by force to marry!

Hisroyalbeat:
Ndi feminist are coming for Man of God,

Feminists no get energy to comment again, husband scarcity dun overwhelm them, na d few young ones wey never see life still dey talk. The older ones are busy swiping on dating sites, no time to comment on nairaland

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

Most if not all women will never value or rate a guy that is submissive....same way a guy will never desire a woman that is not submissive!

Absolutely true

Once you discover that you can't love a woman, as Christ loved the church, and gave his life for her, don't marry.
Inukwa.

He just made common sense

obaidan:

the street of singlehood is filled with single beautiful ladies in their 30s, early 40s......it is almost over for the marriage institution actually. YOung men have realized the truth- you will toil, you will labour for the family, you will sacrifice just for someone or some people to label u absent father. Not hands-on. YOu will suppress your ego yet u will be labelled misogynist because u are doing the sensible thing-stamping ur authority and not letting a girl manipulate you emotionally. AT the end of it all, u use ur sweat ur money to build the family, the children, the children starts flourishing .......u do not have their companionship, the affection belongs to the manipulative gender. WHY MARRY THEN, why not use your money to enjoy your life, build better network, do better health insurance for yourself, and raise your kids with a girlfriend that is ready to play by your rules. Some will say, she will leave when she gets the person that will marry her- How is that your own problem as a man? Are you looking for a loyal partner OR someone that wants to use you to fulfill her dreams of being a Mrs.
Let your kids judge you by the fact you are their father and you are pampering them and taking care of them as your children appropriately, NOT by a distorted story that a woman will feed them about how you are "terrible" husband just because you are not simping.
Then there is another group that have used their productive and fertile years to wait and look for Tall Dark and Handsome and yahoo boys and rich men. Now Body dun wrinkle, everything dun scatter, dem come dey find any decent boy that will come and clean up the mess

na waoooo, baby mamas are now much in our generation today

movid:
It takes a lot of patience to deal with an independent woman. And I believe this is part of the hullabaloos in most homes 'cause a man will always want to Stand as a Man.

it's not only patience bro. It takes wisdom in dealing with them. So fear God in developing relationship with man, the proud ones are the one that flock our society.

Broke people always crying about submission, lol
People who are busy don't have time for this sort of useless discussion.
Find your level and make your home what you want it to be.

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

What do you mean?

Correct 💯

Chienex24:



What if gorilla becomes a snake?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

SmartPolician:
That's very true. A woman who thinks she has arrived will hardly be loyal...In fact, it takes a man who is by far richer than her to get her to obey him.

Then, she should leave men alone and marry her riches. Very simple!

inoki247:
Lol mk everybody getat abg....

Relationship advice come full everywhere like water...

nA this generation u wan dey advice people wey dey carry another person child give husband...

Money Relationship advice na water!

Marry the submissive ones first and make it worth their while. This thing is really simple if you ask me.

Mahone05:
What if God gives you a man who is submissive?

If a man becomes submissive to her wife then the woman can decide dating different men then threaten the husband since he is a useless submissive man

But we have been saying exactly the same on Nairaland for several years now.
Because we are not Pastorpreneurs they take it with a pinch of salt.
You can create the world you desire 4urself

pocohantas:
Marry the submissive ones first and make it worth their while. This thing is really simple if you ask me.

Must you marry...
Since you detest men, why not stay single. 🤷🏾‍♂️
We have said it countless times and he has summarized it again.
Marriage is not for everyone and that includes you.

press9jatv:
“Once you discover that you cannot submit to a man, don’t marry. You can be fulfilled without a man” -Pastor Abel Damina tells women

Bullsheet!

Kobojunkie:
Bullsheet!

hmm 🧐. What Abel Damina said is 100% truths. If you are not submissive, stay in your father's house till menopause starts knocking.