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“I really loved that lady; I don’t know why. Sometimes, we love our destruction

If only we men listen to that still small voice warning us.

Dogalmighty17:
There is only one rule. Never get involved with any woman not in good with her father or any woman whose father left the mom.
She will be a contentious woman to you and will make your marriage hell. They are naturally rebellious and will take out that anger of not having a father around on you.

^^^
He who has ears, let him hear.

Caaz:

If she were to be your sister,i m guessing you will not spill this trash.

Did you read the story..

She was confirmed to be a drug addict, that alone settles every dust

I think I need to say something at this point.

I am saying this to all genuinely born again Christians.

Don't hide your past from your intending spouse. Yes, we know God had forgiven you, that should not stop you from sharing your pastor.

Hiding your past is like keeping a bump that is about to explode in your pocket.

Forget the shame that comes with sharing your past.

OlawaleBammie:
Did you read the story.. She was confirmed to be a drug addict, that alone settles every dust

She is a drug addict for taking drugs in her situation? You folks are really unbelievable! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

This is really messy!

dapadawee:
➜ Well that is the answer to a successful marriage. If no marriage in your family succeed that doesn't mean it is not successful in others.
➜ Woman is to submit and man is to love. However, if one party fulfil this condition even if the other does otherwise the marriage will stand. The girl mother also left her father, if she had wisdom she ought to know that she must do everything to break that circle. Well I pray the twin breaks it.
➜ It is spirit thing your canal mind will never understand. All the same good luck

. It is the answer to a successful marriage, yet this answer clearly failed in this instance. Doesn't that there invalidate your claim of it being the answer to a successful marriage? If 1+1 IS NOT 5, why continue to assert 5 as the answer to 1+1? 🤣

2. Without evidence, your particular conclusion seems to be that the woman never submitted at all in the relationship. Why do you do this to yourself? 🤣

3. Get the f-ck away with this religious gobbledegook of yours! Nonsense! 😂

Kobojunkieee:
The kain nonsense people, particularly women, dey endure in the name of marriage, dey always give me the shivers.

Is it true, though, that the woman only has 4 months left to live? Why pursue divorce when she can simply abandon the marriage altogether and go find peace elsewhere before her end? Or is securing a divorce from the man part of her bucket list?

pyelonephritis and lumbar spondylitis won't give you 9 months to live.

Both of them are most likely embellishing the truth with falsehoods. I don't trust either testimony and neither will I take sides. Both husband and wife are fishy.

Time will expose all.

This nigeria movie go make sense.will love to watch it.

Talismann:
when we tell men to avoid marrying a girl raised by a single mum, it seems we are wicked.

They may tell you their father was a demon, trust me even if he is a demon, that is not a girl you should marry. Why? Because her mom will have filled her with hate towards men and trust me, you don't wanna settle with a woman who has daddy issues.

It never ends well for the man.

You may chose to pity her and marry her out of pity, but your life will be a wreck. You cannot escape it Mr man.

Edit: it even goes deeper than avoiding a girl who was raised by a single mum. Even if both parents are together and the mother calls the shots in the house and you notice the father doesn't have a voice, better run for your life Mr man. It will end in tears for you if you marry a girl from such setup.

Doubt this at your own d00m

^^^
A lot of truth in this.

This is a sad story. Marriage is a great thing ordained by God, but devil the greatest enemy of human beings out of its wickedness, jealousy and knowing it has lost it already and always makes some marriages looks like hell.

Guestmale:
➜This is a sad story. Marriage is a great thing ordained by God, but devil the greatest enemy of human beings out of its wickedness and knowing it has lost it already and always makes some marriages looks like hell.

Stop ranting bullsheet... why is the devil to blame for the problems created by humans in their own marriages?

Kobojunkie:
Stop ranting bullsheet... why is the devil to blame for the problems created by humans in their own marriages?

You can't understand, the devil was there at the very beginning that was why Jesus said that men ought always to pray, and not to faint;

Caaz:
One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

Dey play. If any man that claim to know christ is not deep in christ this is how they will begin to disgrace themselves.

I can names churches(I don waka waka go churches) where some couples had messier divorce battle. All of them had unreconcillable differences, even some of their pastor ask the parties to go and pray - nothing worked out. So don't just pick one church and decide to demonize them just because you hate or you had issues with some of their . If you read your bible very well, you will see that Samuel was a prophet that served God perfectly, but his children didn't follow the foot steps of their father. Eli's children, the same thing.


Both the woman and the man have unsettled issues. Self deceit is what any man should fear most. You know but you keep telling yourself "it is well."

Guestmale:


You can't understand, the devil was there at the very beginning that was why Jesus said that men ought always to pray, and not to faint;

You see that guy na junks him go dey spew. He too believe in his intelligence but e go shock am say that there are things wey logic no fit explain. No waste ur time with am. Him no even know where him dey go, talk less of giving you direction. No waste ur time with am.

LordIsaac:

How about when a woman is your sunshine?

And Vice versa Sir!

Kobojunkie:
. It is the answer to a successful marriage, yet this answer clearly failed in this instance. Doesn't that there invalidate your claim of it being the answer to a successful marriage? If 1+1 IS NOT 5, why continue to assert 5 as the answer to 1+1? 🤣

2. Without evidence, your particular conclusion seems to be that the woman never submitted at all in the relationship. Why do you do this to yourself? 🤣

3. Get the f-ck away with this religious gobbledegook of yours! Nonsense! 😂

Junks as usual.

Kobojunkieee:
She is a drug addict for taking drugs in her situation? You folks are really unbelievable! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

She's a manipulator and a drug addict.

Nurse(fellow female) confirmed it.
Her classmates(female inclusive) confirmed it.

So go away with ur damaggedd mind

Caaz:
One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

Some are extremely bad, while some are extremely good. I have them aplenty.

yewit37486:
Thank God say I don block Kobojunkie, I no longer have to scroll and scroll past redundant comments.

What if someone quoted him? You will still have to see his comment. Just same way I see Helinues comments after blocking him

The Ezekiel is foolish like most young men. Any young man that wants to get married should do some background checks on your wife-to-be and same goes for the ladies too, so that you know what you are getting into.
It is mostly a serious issue where you marry first and later start to discover a lot horrible things about your partner. Also if you have a spouse from a broken home, do some findings and about the parents and more about your partner. It doesn't turn out nice most times.

Berankis:
➜The Ezekiel is foolish like most young men. Any young man that wants to get married should do some background checks on your wife-to-be and same goes for the ladies too, so that you know what you are getting into. It is mostly a serious issue where you marry first and later start to discover a lot horrible things about your partner.

What you are having us believe here is that the pastor man, against his church doctrines, refused to do background checks on his wife-to-be, and that is the reason why he, with all of his faults, ended up crashing heads with his wife? Una no dey ever talk real things! It is always inane after inane exercises with you, religious folks.🙄🙄🙄

geoworldedu:
What if someone quoted him? You will still have to see his comment. Just same way I see Helinues comments after blocking him

That has changed now. I don block helinues too and I don't see his quotes anywhere.
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8422193/quotes-blocked-s-now-blocked

Dogalmighty17:
There is only one rule. Never get involved with any woman not in good with her father or any woman whose father left the mom.
She will be a contentious woman to you and will make your marriage hell. They are naturally rebellious and will take out that anger of not having a father around on you.

You may become Sir Pete who was always available in contributing to burning issues on social media space but now he has boil on his lips that has made keep him away from making such contributions. Note life has a way of teaching people that are not objective a lesson.
Note my parents are not separated & I know a lot of things can happen to make couples separate instead of remaining together & raising damaged children.

So what really happened??

Who even give mother in law right to beat wife? Especially one that had cs?

Is marriage by fire by force?

Well the red flag was noticed long time ago, during your wedding but you still decide to go full in.

Though woman are very hard to manage, and will pretend to be innocent at all time yet the real trouble maker. This I know.

But if by God grace, you are stable financially kindly take good care of your wife, tolerate them and correct in love please

LordIsaac:

Seconded; but at the risk of ing a stereotype!

well anyone is free to term it what they may,but I won't be there to console anyone who marries a lady with daddy induced injuries and pains when the problem starts.

It definitely brings problems.

Personally, I don't plan on using my lifetime to help anyone cure issues they couldn't solve for themselves.

Fishes so so abundant in the river.

Talismann:


well anyone is free to term it what they may,but I won't be there to console anyone who marries a lady with daddy induced injuries and pains when the problem starts.

It definitely brings problems.

Personally, I don't plan on using my lifetime to help anyone cure issues they couldn't solve for themselves.

Fishes so so abundant in the river.

Thirded!

Landlord they give him tenant wife money to do what? Baba they bleep crazy comot for omolara mad body