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Men and women are survivalists in nature.

After weighing both relationships, he finds that both women are similar, similar characters of nagging and control, they both have a child for him, want to live life with him, except for language and culture differences, so he chooses the one that brings more stability and value to his life.

A woman under similar circumstances will do the same.

Calm down madam, na unto papers , he will be back in like 6 to 12 months. Na so my married uncle take run him papers that year😂

Childera gbanyuoro m dat gen

Antoeni:
Marrying Asset is Better Than Liability

He met an asset and decided to let go of his liability, wrapped in the name of marriage..

CoronaVirusPro:


Not always the case. In fact, most MARRIED men don’t plan for such, but circumstances drive them into it when the reality and consequences of being illegal hits them

Why go into a country and not plan ahead? Most illegal migrants went abroad via tourist visa. They knew ahead of the consequences hence the reason they go ahead to marry just for papers.

The man knew what he was doing. He's a coward.

Iamicekid:
He met an asset and decided to let go of his liability, wrapped in the name of marriage..

The man is a liability also. Why become illegal in a country to the point you had to marry to get papers? He should have gone back home!

We Are Obsessed About Dating & Marrying Financially Stable Partners Forgetting to Check Mental, Emotional And Spiritual Stability.

Spursy:
People are doing all they can to escape Poverty, no matter the cost.
I believe if the woman was in same position as the Man, she would have done same.



https://x.com/Oludeewon/status/1924781981876862995?t=39PgRLJ2ABwChij62iS41g&s=19

Chief emergency therapist abeg no knack the woman I take God beg you..let her heal

Live is short abeg. Live it wisely. Today doesn't last long at all

Awesome. Anything or anyone that wants to shackle you to poverty must be avoided.

MufasaLion:


Why go into a country and not plan ahead? Most illegal migrants went abroad via tourist visa. They knew ahead of the consequences hence the reason they go ahead to marry just for papers.

The man knew what he was doing. He's a coward.

If he eventually succeeds and comes back to take the wife and child and/or other family memebers, wouldn't the end justify the means? People have been doing this since 1980s, nothing new here, leave Nigeria before Nigeria leaves you in a state of kobalization

MufasaLion:


The man is a liability also. Why become illegal in a country to the point you had to marry to get papers? He should have gone back home!

Gone back home and do what? Even the said wife would start to lament if he could not provide.....Be realistic!

CoronaVirusPro:


Not always the case. In fact, most MARRIED men don’t plan for such, but circumstances drive them into it when the reality and consequences of being illegal hits them

Nah, I'm referring to true love and vetting of character before saying, "I do!"

God Abeg Oo 😂 🤣

PantShifter:
The man is just trying to survive.

The wife too should find someone who will be shifting her pant here in Nigeria

His decision is not right, family is all what a man has .

At the end of the day after the sojourn abroad,where will he now retire,

Will the children accept him back, because no matter what, your white child will never come back with you to Nigeria.

He made a blunder,but it's not too late,he can reconcile with the children asap.

The whole concept of Japa has wider effects on Nigerian Marriages especially in the UK.
So many cases of Nigerian Women calling Police on their Husband.

PantShifter:
The man is just trying to survive.

The wife too should find someone who will be shifting her pant here in Nigeria

The one they have been shifting before he travelled or another one?

Emergency therapist

Table wey we dey manage with three legs, e reach your turn, you commot all the legs. Na so you vawulent reach?

Antoeni:
Marrying Asset is Better Than Liability

unfortunate but not the end of the world... make she japa too

So much installed for the girl child and womanhood

PantShifter:
The man is just trying to survive.

The wife too should find someone who will be shifting her pant here in Nigeria

His heart left the marriage before he boarded the plane...!

Many more couples travelled individually, and are still waxing strong together.


A lot of marriages in Nigeria are just unions of convenience.

This is a common occurrence and both men and women are equally guilty. When you want to Japa better think very well about what you're doing especially if you're married. It could just break your home if you're apart for too long.

abbey621:


Gone back home and do what? Even the said wife would start to lament if he could not provide.....Be realistic!

Stop screaming.

abbey621:


If he eventually succeeds and comes back to take the wife and child and/or other family memebers, wouldn't the end justify the means? People have been doing this since 1980s, nothing new here, leave Nigeria before Nigeria leaves you in a state of kobalization

He's not coming back.

Blitzking:

Chief emergency therapist abeg no knack the woman I take God beg you..let her heal

If this is true, then he made a very big mistake that he will later regret

She has to start life again because husband left her as in how?

The woman would have done worse if she were in his position