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Time and time over it keeps happening, Men cannot handle a cheating woman despite the knowledge that a large percentage of women cheat.

The average man is more concerned about ego instead of how he's been treated.

Do I think cheating is bad? Definitely

Do I encourage cheating women? No



This article is focused on paying attention and receiving the best of affection from women, rather than finding solace in exclusive loyalty which is very rare.



In the context of this conversation( a good girlfriend) is someone who puts you first, cooks and cares for you, motivates and assists you in a way that the average girl doesn't.

Now the question beckons, why should I throw all of these attributes and genuine affection away because of who a woman bleeps or makes out with?



Reality is that the average woman cheats and somehow most Men think theirs is a Saint.

So whose babe are other men fucking?!!

Isn't it laughable and quite delusional.

Men need to realize that only in marriage should cheating be a major deal breaker in my opinion.

I'd rather stick to someone that treats me well than choosing a supposed loyal woman who most times is just hiding her shenanigans.



The truth is women love freedom and most of them get swarmed with horniness induced compliments and gifts by so many men every time which makes it difficult to stick to one Man. I think the average Man still finds it difficult to believe women are actually polygamous in nature and it's not gender based.



By all means a cheating woman who doesn't treat you well should be thrown out and shown the exit door, but I still think Men need to leverage on the fact that getting good treatment from a woman should be placed above cheating in a relationship ( marriage apart).



A woman that cooks, cleans, is feminine, grateful, kind , submissive and caring is a rare gem and I could careless if she bleeps another Man as long as she treats me well according to my standards.

This is not gender bias, I'm concerned about Man's inability to leverage on what is beneficial instead of satisfying his ego.

Lastly you don't have to marry a cheating girlfriend ( I have my personal opinion on this), but don't throw away all the good attributes on the ground of her cheating especially if she's very caring and loving.

Mekuseh11:
➜Time and time over it keeps happening, Men cannot handle a cheating woman despite the knowledge that a large percentage of women cheat.The average man is more concerned about ego instead of how he's been treated. Do I think cheating is bad? Definitely. Do I encourage cheating women? No
This article is focused on paying attention and receiving the best of affection from women, rather than finding solace in exclusive loyalty which is very rare. In the context of this conversation( a good girlfriend) is someone who puts you first, cooks and cares for you, motivates and assists you in a way that the average girl doesn't. Now the question beckons, why should I throw all of these attributes and genuine affection away because of who a woman bleeps or makes out with? Reality is that the average woman cheats and somehow most Men think theirs is a Saint. So whose babe are other men fucking?!! Isn't it laughable and quite delusional. Men need to realize that only in marriage should cheating be a major deal breaker in my opinion. I'd rather stick to someone that treats me well than choosing a supposed loyal woman who most times is just hiding her shenanigans.
➜ The truth is women love freedom and most of them get swarmed with horniness induced compliments and gifts by so many men every time which makes it difficult to stick to one Man. I think the average Man still finds it difficult to believe women are actually polygamous in nature and it's not gender based. By all means a cheating woman who doesn't treat you well should be thrown out and shown the exit door, but I still think Men need to leverage on the fact that getting good treatment from a woman should be placed above cheating in a relationship ( marriage apart).
➜ A woman that cooks, cleans, is feminine, grateful, kind , submissive and caring is a rare gem and I could careless if she bleeps another Man as long as she treats me well according to my standards. This is not gender bias, I'm concerned about Man's inability to leverage on what is beneficial instead of satisfying his ego. Lastly you don't have to marry a cheating girlfriend ( I have my personal opinion on this), but don't throw away all the good attributes on the ground of her cheating especially if she's very caring and loving.

This reminds me of the many bullsheet arguments— traditional beliefs— held supposedly sane individuals during the time of our ancestors(even to this day) to normalize male cheating relationships and marriage. Today, we see many men going as far as the debauchery has come... men cheating with the wives and girlfriends of their own best friends and women pushing the consequences of all of that cheating— on that cheating on other men. It is amazing!

2. Can't cheating be considered a nullification of the contract between two people in a relationship? If not, then fine. However, if it does, isn't a new relationship contract needed for the two to continue on?

3. So, the men you direct your case to are ruled by their egos, not that they have healthy self-esteem, to begin with? Ok now!

Look at the time and energy a weak man took to defend foolishness.

Boy, go ahead and accept a cheating woman, buy her a gift and maybe kiss her foot.
At the end, we accept the love we think we deserve


Simpleton

after4:
➜Look at the time and energy a weak man took to defend foolishness. Boy, go ahead and accept a cheating woman, buy her a gift and maybe kiss her foot. At the end, we accept the love we think we deserve Simpleton

Our ancestors did exactly the same thing he is doing now. That is why most Nigerian men believe to this day, to their very own detriment, mind you, that women are to endure male cheating in a relationship.

Simp..

Our ancestors married and valued virgins. They were harsher to promiscuity and married many wives too, in exchange they protected and provided for their women. You saying they accepted a cheating wife is completely wrong and cannot be substantiated. I will like to know your source

Kobojunkie:
Our ancestors did exactly the same thing he is doing now. That is why most Nigerian men believe to this day, to their very own detriment, mind you, that women are to endure male cheating in a relationship.

after4:
Our ancestors married and valued virgins. They were harsher to promiscuity and married many wives too, in exchange they protected and provided for their women. You saying they accepted a cheating wife is completely wrong and cannot be substantiated. I will like to know your source

Where do you have me saying what you claim there? Go back and re-read the text you pretend your response is to, abeg!

Your ancestors accepted cheating men and husbands, saying the women should endure them. What is the result of all that acceptance of cheating men today? Their daughters and wives were not spared by the cheating men. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I don't give a damn about your feminist rant. I all your life don't try this again. My block button dey work very well

Kobojunkie:
Where do you have me saying what you claim there? Go back and re-read the text you pretend your response is to, abeg!

Your ancestors accepted cheating men and husbands, saying the women should endure them. What is the result of all that acceptance of cheating men today? Their daughters and wives were not spared by the cheating men. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

after4:
I don't give a damn about your feminist rant. I all your life don't try this again. My block button dey work very well