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Niok2: 11:08pm On May 12
Naso helinues take marry retired gang banged olosho
bentenny(m): 11:17pm On May 12

Final Word:

You’re not crazy for wanting a wife.

You’re just searching in amusement parks, hoping to find a queen.

Marriage is not about vibes. It’s about verification.

She’s not what she posts. She’s what she protects, pursues, and preserves.

Stop getting scammed by packaging.

Date with eyes open.

Marry with blueprint.

Or cry with court papers.
For those asking where the OP wants them to look for a wife,I think the solution can be found on the last points in 'final words' where you need to date with your eyes open and do you due diligence devoid of emotion!

There are potential wife materials in churches but there are also ladies masking or imitating good girl vibes to lure unsuspecting men!

So shine your eyes and do not ignore a red flag or potential red flag!

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Pacesetter123(m): 11:29pm On May 12
So where I go go look for wife then if I no fit search for wife for church, school and professional gathering?
Or make we no kukuma look for wife at all at all?
grin

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psalmsjob: 11:35pm On May 12
uchkochi:


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M2CnrXY9W/

With a good prompt engineering you could have also asked the AI where are the 7 other places that young men don't go looking for a wife or better still where women do find their husband grin

Everywhere this agent listed are good place to find a wife or better still for a wife to had ed through or ing through at any time in her life. It ultimately all works together for good.

In as much as you want a good wife you yourself have to be ready to be a good husband says your wife not you grin

Marriage is a team work if it fails you're both to blame just as if its good but it's really what the spouses say it is that is what it becomes.

Marriage like love is a beautiful thing forget the separations you hear about there was really no union that makes a marriage what it is in those so-called divorce because with God truly there's nothing like divorce grin sounds familiar abi. Divorce is utterly strange to marriage like darkness is to light
fitinwell: 11:36pm On May 12
Blitzking:
Looking for good wife na like playing 2 odds with your future..e fit enter and e fit cut.

Na cut sure die.. wink

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8starmember: 12:08am On May 13
Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again
Event center cheesy grin
TrackerSK: 12:59am On May 13
Blitzking:
Looking for good wife na like playing 2 odds with your future..e fit enter and e fit cut.
This guy nah fvcking gambler

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Agugbadin: 1:07am On May 13
richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

The OPS is absolutely correct church is a number 1 wrong place to find a wife.This days those in the church are retirees from number 2 to number 7.Infact they are retirees from the remaining 6 places he named here..If I tell you bad experiences from finding a wife in the church, I can go on and on.They are dishonest hide their past,lie about their age but reducing their age. Only after married is when you know what you have carried. A friend attended a church convention and met another member from another branch who told him that she is a lawyer they dated and eventually got married, after they had two children was when the man discovered that the wife did not attend any university nor study law.There was job opening and the main has been assured of the job via community slot but when she was asked for her degree certificates they discovered she had none nor went to a law school but just a clerk in the court,it was discovered also that she had a female child as as a young girl who is now grown up,she hide all from the man.When they needed a domestic house help,she went and brought her daughter as house help,it was the husband sisters that found out eventually when the cat was let out of the bag she left the house out of shame for over a yea ,some women of the same feathers came to beg the man and he accepted her back because of their young children. I can go on to tell you more cases.

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Kennyquestt: 1:16am On May 13
OP- Why not try cementry.

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Dancebreaker: 1:19am On May 13
If you are a good hubby material, you have a very high chance ending up with an end time woman (baddie). Because you are more likely to be naïve.
Baddies have been around and easily know good guys.

Bad guys pick the best women too. They easily spot good girls because they've been around.

Growing up, I knew several men who were useless but had 3 or 4 wonderful wives. Educated and pretty too. Not like they were rich or very handsome.

While good men had one agbaya wife.

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Seniormanchi: 2:00am On May 13
Rexymania:
You post problems you no give us solutions. Na where we go see good wife?

When the problem is his work-chop!

Online everywhere marriage, single mother, hookup, Bobbie, nyash. All nah hunger … dem won chop.

Married women showing Bobbie and nyash while husband Dey hold camera … na hunger.

Truth be told no size fits all in marriage. Some married them olosho babe and e worked out “no cap” - others cry. Some marry SU babe till today she never born aje.

Some marry virgin till today after 5 years they never move forward.

Just be cunning na my advice. If u like juju make sure you marry wife, wey go face her front. Make she no Dey carry Holy Ghost fire spoil your juju - like witch but with bible. Make alignment Dey for una paros

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kole22k(m): 2:38am On May 13
I got my wife on the street and we have been in the relationship for 25 years with three children.

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akigbemaru: 3:17am On May 13
Yemon: 4:11am On May 13
Guide777(m): 4:18am On May 13
Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again
Good question
lordwoz: 4:20am On May 13
pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).



The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

cheesy
Love800(m): 5:33am On May 13
Maybe due to partners decision to quit or not happy, due to a critical problem along the line.
And if the foundation did not start well, from the onset when they were ed together, it will still crash!
Kobojunkie:
Bullsheet! 🙄🙄🙄

You forget there are records of many such arranged marriages to men abroad that ended in tragedy. 🙄🙄
Love800(m): 5:35am On May 13
Lol.

You did not differentiate it for me. Abi are both the same?

But if its arranged marriage you are talking about, i feel its the best. Because marriage is a business. Arranged marriage allows both of you to think well and provide amenities, responsibilities and be productive in the union.
But that other one that you use love, feelings and emotions to enter, it will crash in a blink of an eye!
Kobojunkie:
Arranged marriage/Match-making/Referral marriage is how many Nigerians abroad got their brides. This is including the church crowd - Deeper life, RCCG, and co, utilize that arrangement well. 😂😂😂😂😂

I know one particular couple I happened to have gotten close with some years ago, and I can tell you that I would wish such a disconnected union on anyone I love. I would people fall in love and out of love Jejely! grin grin grin
Dumte(m): 5:39am On May 13
Rexymania:
You post problems you no give us solutions. Na where we go see good wife?

You don try better shrine before? Abi make I loud am?

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Stayingalive: 6:06am On May 13
uchkochi:


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M2CnrXY9W/
Very nonsense post. You didn’t then tell men where to go look for. But very confident where they shouldn’t mtchewwww

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Zidac: 6:15am On May 13
This is subjective
Stayingalive: 6:15am On May 13
pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party ability''.The referral has a sense of ability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

If my prick will not stand why would she be referred mtchew. You made good point though
Stayingalive: 6:25am On May 13
icankel:
I totally agree with you even though my cousin married from a night club about 13yrs ago yet no sign of pregnancy
he should better pack his bags
yemmit90: 7:12am On May 13
Love800:
Is match-making the same thing with arranged/referral marriage?

Not the same thing. Match making is modern way of connecting two strange people by a neutral or professional person who may not know anything about them. It is often doing for business purpose.

Arranges/referer on the other hand is a situation whereby a close relative, friend or parent recommend someone to you base on their personal relationship with that person. This is often doing for love, and they are most like not to recommend a bad person because they must have had a good relationship with that person or the family the person came from.

Majority of women going to match makers to find husbands for them are retired prostitutes, divorcees, greedy women, very bad character women, etc, while majority of men you see there are mostly looking for sex or rich ladies to dupe and turn to single mother.

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Hisaalus: 7:39am On May 13
uchkochi:


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M2CnrXY9W/

I sure knew he would avoid mentioning mosques.
The churches are their soft victims
guru03(m): 7:43am On May 13
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richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved

Hmmmmmmm, you fit pick one Olosho for this new generation church be that.
Pickieox(m): 8:04am On May 13
richmond500:
I disagree with ur number one point
Church is one of the best place to find decent ladies.

I also disagree with schools and professional event, these are the places to find a career driven woman that will help u soar. Events are the easiest place to find connections and a lady who attends professional events already has connections.

Also friends suggestions is not bad, my brother's wife was suggested to him by a friend and he married her as a virgin, very beautiful and well behaved


Church is the best place to find decent ladies? Lol😂😂😂You never see anything...in the word of Ygritte to Jon Snow, "you know nothing."🤣🤣🤣

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adeniyi65(m): 8:10am On May 13
Nemesis0147:
So which place remain again
grin grin I tire o. Don't mind the op. I don't know wether na market or bust stop he wants us to go find a wife .
adeniyi65(m): 8:19am On May 13
pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party ability''.The referral has a sense of ability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

I have been following you for a while, you are endowed with wisdom.

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adeniyi65(m): 8:23am On May 13
Kobojunkie:
You actually believe an arranged marriage is the solution you need in this day and age? Una no dey ever learn... that na una major problem. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You better go and ask people in the North, who have been engaging in that kind of marriage without break for at least the last 200 years, how that particular option has been going for them when it comes to finding good wives. undecided
the guy's explanation is clear and valid. Though, it doesn't means it will work 💯% . There's always exemption in things like this.

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ediko5(m): 8:28am On May 13
uchkochi the writer gave a very light description about the rebranded church girls.

To me, the rebranded church ladies are the worst set of ladies a man can marry. I'll prefer to marry a girl I met at the club because she knows I'm aware of her kind of person than to marry someone I'm not aware of who she is and she's also aware of this.

A person (male and female) who uses religions a cover up for her evil acts is a very dangerous green 🐍 in green grass.

Don't forget:

It's very difficult and rare for an olo - sho to retire rather they only take a break or change their modus operandi. How do you expect someone that have been used to 5, 10, 15 to 20 different cassavas per month to suddenly get used to one cassava in her life?

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ojonugba2014(m): 8:44am On May 13
It's time to go find a good wife for police cell then
😂

Or inside prison

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