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There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once due to the distance between us, the lady is physically challenge she's on wheelchair and and she can't walk but I lover her so much, she is is from Kogi state while am in Lagos and we have been talking about getting married and settling down, but when I told my siblings about they kicked against it, that how can I go and marry such a person like that and are there no other woman around, and that really discouraged me, they said how will she cooks, do house chores and stuffs like, although my parents are late so it's my eldest sister that said I shouldn't do it.. and the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents Wich am still considering, and another this is..even if I go ahead with her, I doubt if any of my family will follow me to Kogi state, looking at the distance and all like that.. and she is a very nice person with a good heart. Honestly am confused at this point.

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once due to the distance between us, the lady is physically challenge she's on wheelchair and and she can't walk but I lover her so much, she is is from Kogi state while am in Lagos and we have been talking about getting married and settling down, but when I told my siblings about they kicked against it, that how can I go and marry such a person like that and are there no other woman around, and that really discouraged me, they said how will she cooks, do house chores and stuffs like, although my parents are late so it's my eldest sister that said I shouldn't do it.. and the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents Wich am still considering, and another this is..even if I go ahead with her, I doubt if any of my family will follow me to Kogi state, looking at the distance and all like that.. and she is a very nice person with a good heart. Honestly am confused at this point.

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Keep deceiving yourself

Na everyday you dey post ham

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once due to the distance between us, the lady is physically challenge she's on wheelchair and and she can't walk but I lover her so much, she is is from Kogi state while am in Lagos and we have been talking about getting married and settling down, but when I told my siblings about they kicked against it, that how can I go and marry such a person like that and are there no other woman around, and that really discouraged me, they said how will she cooks, do house chores and stuffs like, although my parents are late so it's my eldest sister that said I shouldn't do it.. and the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents Wich am still considering, and another this is..even if I go ahead with her, I doubt if any of my family will follow me to Kogi state, looking at the distance and all like that.. and she is a very nice person with a good heart. Honestly am confused at this point.

She been on wheelchair is not an issue... I hv no problem with that.
The fact that you're planning to to see her parents for marriage without meeting to know her in person is the craziness hia!!!

Who does that?

dawnomike:
She been on wheelchair is not an issue... I hv no problem with that.
The fact that you're planning to to see her parents for marriage without meeting to know her in person is the craziness hia!!!

Who does that?

ignore him

Being posting this stories since last year

Firebox123:
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Keep deceiving yourself

Na everyday you dey post ham

Are you the one am talking to, what's your own problem.

Who said being wheelchair bound means you can't cook, do house chores, grocery, and other stuff?

It depends on the disability... Back in varsity I saw wheelchair bound female students cooking, and looking after themselves without any assistance... Their rooms and bathrooms were always neat, they were cleaning them by themselves... I was in a prayer group with one of them and she'd sometimes even invite us to her place for dinner... Some had cars, others lived the life of a party like any other, while some also had children.

Sunnyrado:
➜There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once due to the distance between us, the lady is physically challenge she's on wheelchair and and she can't walk but I lover her so much, she is is from Kogi state while am in Lagos and we have been talking about getting married and settling down, but when I told my siblings about they kicked against it, that how can I go and marry such a person like that and are there no other woman around, and that really discouraged me, they said how will she cooks, do house chores and stuffs like, although my parents are late so it's my eldest sister that said I shouldn't do it.. and the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents Wich am still considering, and another this is..even if I go ahead with her, I doubt if any of my family will follow me to Kogi state, looking at the distance and all like that.. and she is a very nice person with a good heart. Honestly am confused at this point.

It seems the expectations of your siblings matter so much to you in this way that you would rather date someone they approve of than someone they don't approve of. Isn't that already an obvious red flag for you? Set the woman free so she can go find herself a man who does not need the approval of your siblings, please.

Samantha125:
Who said being wheelchair bound means you can't cook, do house chores, grocery, and other stuff?

It depends on the disability... Back in varsity I saw wheelchair bound female students cooking, and looking after themselves without any assistance... Their rooms and bathrooms were always neat, they were cleaning them by themselves... I was in a prayer group with one of them and she'd sometimes even invite us to her place for dinner... Some had cars, others lived the life of a party like any other, while some also had children.

And another thing there is that, she works as a secretary as a civil servant level 9 and she's telling me that she can't leave her job, my plan is to bring her down here to Lagos but she insists so she does that mean I have to relocate to Kogi state it's also what have been thinking about.

Sunnyrado:
➜And another thing there is that, she works as a secretary as a civil servant level 9 and she's telling me that she can't leave her job, my plan is to bring her down here to Lagos but she insists so she does that mean I have to relocate to Kogi state it's also what have been thinking about.

Given the current situation in Nigeria, do you wish for her to quit her job for you?

Abeg, leave the woman alone where she dey. Ask your siblings to find you a woman in your area who they approve of and who is probably already jobless. Please, na beg I take beg you. Leave that gal alone, make you no ruin her condition with yours.

I think it's best for you to relocate because it's not easy for people living with disabilities to easily get employment out there, especially here in Africa.

Many are educated, but can't get employed due to workplace environments not being conducive for their condition.

Sunnyrado:



And another thing there is that, she works as a secretary as a civil servant level 9 and she's telling me that she can't leave her job, my plan is to bring her down here to Lagos but she insists so she does that mean I have to relocate to Kogi state it's also what have been thinking about.

Firebox123:
ignore him

Being posting this stories since last year

Are you on wheelchair

Samantha125:
Who said being wheelchair bound means you can't cook, do house chores, grocery, and other stuff?

It depends on the disability... Back in varsity I saw wheelchair bound female students cooking, and looking after themselves without any assistance... Their rooms and bathrooms were always neat, they were cleaning them by themselves... I was in a prayer group with one of them and she'd sometimes even invite us to her place for dinner... Some had cars, others lived the life of a party like any other, while some also had children.

Yes, I am...😏😏😏

Firebox123:
Are you on wheelchair

Firebox123:
Are you on wheelchair

😂

Samantha125:
Yes, I am...😏😏😏

lol 😂

Firebox123:
lol 😂

What she wrote there makes me also wonder if she's in a wheelchair, 😂 she’s just the type who don't read to understand while answering questions in the exam hall.

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady am in relationship with for more than a year now, we meet online and we have not seen for once

we have been talking about getting married and settling down

the lady said I should come over to Kogi state to come and see her parents

she is a very nice person with a good heart

Your brain is just an interior decoration

AllBlack:


Your brain is just an interior decoration

What's always you people's problem, someone says he needs advice and you are saying rubbish..if you know you don't have what to say why don't you just , must you talk..
Ashiere olori ibu