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Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.

As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.

Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last.

You’re a man.

You this Person, You Sha wan trigger comment from men sha .. i know your Scope no worry. A WOMAN THAT TALKS DOWN ON HER MAN IS NOT A WOMAN. don't talk down on people because of life situations. A WOMAN SHOULD ENCOURAGE nd MOTIVATE HER MAN POLITELY when things are going rough.

Gentleman009:
Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.

As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.

Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last.

You’re a man.

"Accommodate abuse" just hear yourself out.. seems it's you who needs therapy.

Men has emotions too. Emotional abuse can make men loose their sanity. If your wife is frustrating you please show her the exit door.

K

Apus:


"Accommodate abuse" just hear yourself out.. seems it's you who needs therapy.

You no know women again? Very very evil things. The snake won bite you and na she go still say make you no hola wen she bite you.

Exceed15:
Men has emotions too. Emotional abuse can make men loose their sanity. If your wife is frustrating you please show her the exit door.

See this one still no understand say woman na your enemy.

Apus:


"Accommodate abuse" just hear yourself out.. seems it's you who needs therapy.

That one sounds depressed ..


😕😕😕

SHIVA001:
You this Person, You Sha wan trigger comment from men sha .. i know your Scope no worry. A WOMAN THAT TALKS DOWN ON HER MAN IS NOT A WOMAN. don't talk down on people because of life situations. A WOMAN SHOULD ENCOURAGE nd MOTIVATE HER MAN POLITELY when things are going rough.

Person wey nor normal na him u dey try reason with

Them for use rubber the day the day you were conceived this op.

Gentleman009:
➜Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.
➜ As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.
➜Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last. You’re a man.

The man is no longer a provider in the marriage, but a mooch, and rightly, the dynamics in the marriage should change too.

That is the setback that is the traditional marriage system. The man is promised submission by the system if and only if he retains his role as provider in the marriage. The moment he ceases to be a provider, the woman is no longer under any obligations to submit to him. The best the man can and should do then is renegotiate the marriage agreement he had with his wife, choosing an ultimate contract that best suits his situation.

2. Are men not human beings?

3. That arrangement may have worked for your forefathers, but you shouldn't go around pretending it should work for everyone in this day and age. Let individuals decide what to do in their own marriage, abeg!

SHIVA001:
➜You this Person, You Sha wan trigger comment from men sha .. i know your Scope no worry. A WOMAN THAT TALKS DOWN ON HER MAN IS NOT A WOMAN.
➜ don't talk down on people because of life situations.
➜ A WOMAN SHOULD ENCOURAGE nd MOTIVATE HER MAN POLITELY when things are going rough.

Nonsense! So a man can talk down on a woman, but a woman cannot talk down to a man? Keep living your existence inside your head, while reality es you by. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Open your mind! When life situations happen, the most foolish thing to do is to remain rigid. The best approach is to learn to change and adapt the best you can to the new circumstances. When a man is no longer able to operate as the provider in his traditional marriage, he is no longer, by tradition, guaranteed submission from his woman. The common-sense thing for such a man to do, at least until he can raise himself back up to provider status again, is to renegotiate his place and role in his marriage until then. Continuing to live as though entitled to being treated as a god when you can no longer provide for your family is a loser's approach to hardship in marriage.

3. It isn't a woman's job to be a mental health counselor to a man who does not even know his right from his left. If the man needs counseling, he should seek professional help as OP suggested, many already do.

rage bait thread by an agent of lucifer

Don't fall for it.

Gentleman009:
Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.

As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.

Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last.

You’re a man.

Especially the once will beard. They are all kids.

Gentleman009:
Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.

As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.

Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last.

You’re a man.

Is this an insult or an apology?

What kind of nonsense is this?

Our father didnt do any of those things you mentioned.

Apus:


"Accommodate abuse" just hear yourself out.. seems it's you who needs therapy.

Him no need therapist, na koboko fit am.

Men should respect other people's wives and stop chasing after them. Single ladies full everywhere

Exceed15:
➜Men has emotions too. Emotional abuse can make men loose their sanity. If your wife is frustrating you please show her the exit door.

Something tells me that OP is not talking about emotional abuse at all. Seems he is referring to women calling out mooching husbands who still believe themselves entitled to the benefits that should belong only to provider husbands— submission and respect from the woman in the relationship. Such men see these callouts by their women as abuse and disrespect, which it isn't.

Gentleman009:
Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.

As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.

Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last.

You’re a man.

When I first saw ur title,I thought you get s .. e... Ns. .. e

Until I read the ru. BB. ish you wrote up there. So he should accommodate nonsense cux he is a man? Infact he is not supposed to take the nonsense as a man. That makes him a man,and that's what the woman will respect him for. When you act weak,women will treat your like a fellow woman..

😦

He should divorce the wife and move on

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! So a man can talk down on a woman, but a woman cannot talk down to a man? Keep living your existence inside your head, while reality es you by. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Open your mind! When life situations happen, the most foolish thing to do is to remain rigid. The best approach is to learn to change and adapt the best you can to the new circumstances. When a man is no longer able to operate as the provider in his traditional marriage, he is no longer, by tradition, guaranteed submission from his woman. The common-sense thing for such a man to do, at least until he can raise himself back up to provider status again, is to renegotiate his place and role in his marriage until then. Continuing to live as though entitled to being treated as a god when you can no longer provide for your family is a loser's approach to hardship in marriage.

3. It isn't a woman's job to be a mental health counselor to a man who does not even know his right from his left. If the man needs counseling, he should seek professional help as OP suggested, many already do.

U believe a woman should also talk down on a man that paid her bride price and also most likely years older than her.. are u sure u are mentally ok.... so u will talk down on ur dad if he talks down on u... do u know a woman's husband is also now her father according to tradition.... the respect and honour u give ur father should also be given to ur husband.....that's why the father is the one that hands over the daughter to her husband ....

Will u start to disrespect ur dad just because he has is failing to provide for u... or are u encouraging women to be disrespectful and seize to submit to their husbands cos he can't provide ?? So in other words , men have the right to drive away their wife if she can't give birth or cook ... is that what u are saying ?? ... do u even know what bride price represents?? Do u understand why theirs a list for marriage that the man must fulfil b4 she becomes the wife ...

The devil is just using women to destroy God's plan of a united family to ser the world straight

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! So a man can talk down on a woman, but a woman cannot talk down to a man? Keep living your existence inside your head, while reality es you by. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Open your mind! When life situations happen, the most foolish thing to do is to remain rigid. The best approach is to learn to change and adapt the best you can to the new circumstances. When a man is no longer able to operate as the provider in his traditional marriage, he is no longer, by tradition, guaranteed submission from his woman. The common-sense thing for such a man to do, at least until he can raise himself back up to provider status again, is to renegotiate his place and role in his marriage until then. Continuing to live as though entitled to being treated as a god when you can no longer provide for your family is a loser's approach to hardship in marriage.

3. It isn't a woman's job to be a mental health counselor to a man who does not even know his right from his left. If the man needs counseling, he should seek professional help as OP suggested, many already do.

U women can't even talk back at ur elder brothers that's even younger than ur husband ...u can't talk back at ur bosses ...but u think u have the right to talk down on a man that paid ur bride price and put u in his house ... una de mad ... na y dem de beat una

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! So a man can talk down on a woman, but a woman cannot talk down to a man? Keep living your existence inside your head, while reality es you by. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Open your mind! When life situations happen, the most foolish thing to do is to remain rigid. The best approach is to learn to change and adapt the best you can to the new circumstances. When a man is no longer able to operate as the provider in his traditional marriage, he is no longer, by tradition, guaranteed submission from his woman. The common-sense thing for such a man to do, at least until he can raise himself back up to provider status again, is to renegotiate his place and role in his marriage until then. Continuing to live as though entitled to being treated as a god when you can no longer provide for your family is a loser's approach to hardship in marriage.

3. It isn't a woman's job to be a mental health counselor to a man who does not even know his right from his left. If the man needs counseling, he should seek professional help as OP suggested, many already do.

True. You’re spot on to be honest and I agree with you.

As a man, that’s why I advise women to frustrate their husbands, treat them with disrespect, emotionally gaslight them, bring home other men’s kid for their husband to train, be@t their husband to stupor, cheat on them and do all sort until the man regain his financial status back.

If you don't talk about it one day it would kill you, and you go dey wonder why we have too many young widows. We need to encourage a society where men speak up.

Gentleman009:
Recently, a video interview surfaced where a man was narrating the emotional, financial, and all type of abuse he experienced with his wife. He said he was a provider when things were okay and his wife loved him. But things change when he lost his means of livelihood. He went on to narrate how he’s always scared to go home but rather chose to be staying with his friends now.

As a man, I feel you’re not supposed to complain about abuse from women. That’s why you’re a man. A man’s supposed to accommodate abuse from women and respect women decision. Today’s men seek therapy for little abuse from their women instead of being accommodating, respectful and ive for their women.

Today men are more likely to leave a woman and stop providing for her just because she cheats or bring home another child. That’s not okay. Our forefathers didn’t act like this and that’s why their marriage last.

You’re a man.

I rebuk.e this post in all African totality

cr7lomo:
➜U women can't even talk back at ur elder brothers that's even younger than ur husband ...u can't talk back at ur bosses ...
➜ but u think u have the right to talk down on a man that paid ur bride price and put u in his house ... una de mad ... na y dem de beat una

1. That is actually not true. Go to other homes right there in Nigeria where the womenfolk have never been brainwashed into believing themselves inferior to any of the men around them including those older than then and you will find women talking back to their elder brothers, husbands, fathers, older men, bosses, etc. This idea you express regarding women is not of the whole, but of the select part you have chosen to expose yourself to. Reality does not work that way, so stop making these stewpid generalizations about an entire gender.

Even if you are stuck in a wheelchair and unable to move outside of your room, at least watch movies to see that these delusions you hold in your brain are not universal in any way or form for the entire gender or race of women.

2. Every woman has the right to talk back or down to whomever she wants to talk back to or down to. Doing so is not a crime or criminal offense, never has been, and never will be. If you don't know this at this point in your human development, I suggest you begin the process of curbing this inane ignorance at this point. It is 2025 already!

Gentleman009:
➜True. You’re spot on to be honest and I agree with you.
As a man, that’s why I advise women to frustrate their husbands, treat them with disrespect, emotionally gaslight them, bring home other men’s kid for their husband to train, be@t their husband to stupor, cheat on them and do all sort until the man regain his financial status back.

Well, if emotional abuse is indeed what you have been advocating all this while then I can only pity women who would think to take any of your supposed advice, since clearly you are not worth taking seriously.