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Is She Interested In This Man? - Romance - Nairaland 5j143
Is She Interested In This Man? (1695 Views)
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| NEWBIN: 9:44am On May 09 |
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There is a man my wife has been talking to The last time I checked, he messaged my wife with the heart ❤️ emoji. When my wife raised concerned about the use of the heart emoji the man replied that it was because he loved her. My wife indicated that she didn't want that emoji. Meanwhile she keeps chatting him and calls him regularly. Recently she told him that I had travelled. Can I trust my wife? What's your advice 1 Like 1 Share |
| bigpicture001: 9:49am On May 09 |
NEWBIN: Stop doing detective in ur own home... Call her to order .... Women are like that once a while they get carried away, they are like babies.. u keep keeping them on track... 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Yugoslavia247(m): 9:50am On May 09 |
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You cant trust your wife
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| Ibkay32(m): 9:51am On May 09 |
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I personally don’t subscribe to the idea of married men or women maintaining casual or unnecessary communication with the opposite sex, especially through frequent chats or calls. Marriage, to me, is a sacred bond that demands emotional discipline and clear boundaries. So, when a married woman regularly chats or calls another man with whom she has no essential or professional dealings, it raises serious concerns. Such behavior, in my view, reflects a lack of respect for the marital covenant. It often hints at emotional unfaithfulness and can be a doorway to deeper issues. I see it as a red flag, sign of a woman who may be relapsing into habits or tendencies she once had before the marriage, ones she might have concealed or downplayed. It’s not just about the act itself but what it says about loyalty, transparency, and the kind of values one brings into a relationship. 1 Like |
| Firebox123(m): 9:52am On May 09 |
NEWBIN:cheat on your wife back that's the solution |
| NEWBIN: 9:54am On May 09 |
Firebox123: Does that mean she has cheated? |
| NEWBIN: 9:55am On May 09 |
Firebox123: Is there a sign that she can cheat |
| Firebox123(m): 9:56am On May 09 |
bigpicture001:if the so called man infect hiv to his wife Nigerian no dey ever think Will he be safe |
| Firebox123(m): 9:58am On May 09 |
NEWBIN:she's cheating on you She might be sending her nudes pic and video to him Women can't be trusted |
| Firebox123(m): 9:59am On May 09 |
NEWBIN:why does you get married in the first place sef Person way you suppose use do baby mama |
| bigpicture001: 9:59am On May 09 |
Firebox123: I dnt get the direction of ur comment..? |
| Ibkay32(m): 10:01am On May 09 |
NEWBIN: A woman’s heart is fragile, sensitive and easily swayed, especially when not properly guarded. Even if she hasn’t cheated before, constant chatting and calls with another man can gradually open the door to emotional attachment and, eventually, infidelity. 2 Likes |
| NEWBIN: 10:10am On May 09 |
Firebox123: Why then did she rebuke the man when he sent her the heart emoji |
| Tit4Tat1(m): 10:17am On May 09 |
NEWBIN: The way most men take certain things likely in marriages today is scary.... |
| advanceDNA: 10:20am On May 09 |
bigpicture001: Justifying infidelity/indiscipline with irrational excuses .......... I don't know where y'all get these nonsénse from..... Being faithful to your partner is not a gift or talent It requires personal discipline.....u want to talk discipline into an adult that wants to fvck and enjoy herself.... Good luck with that.... Mr keep them on track 1 Like |
| advanceDNA: 10:21am On May 09 |
NEWBIN: She's just playing hard to get cos she's enjoying the chase..... You are in denial.... Give it time... Ur eyes go soon clear... |
| bigpicture001: 10:24am On May 09 |
advanceDNA: U will learn the hard way.. the wife is not u, ND have her own life... U guyz need to blend.. there will b ups and downs |
| NEWBIN: 10:35am On May 09 |
advanceDNA: Enjoying the chase? Really |
| Firebox123(m): 10:35am On May 09 |
Tit4Tat1:from 18yrs old boy 
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| Firebox123(m): 10:36am On May 09 |
| Ibkay32(m): 10:36am On May 09 |
NEWBIN: She's playing with your head mr man You better wake up and don't be a vegetable |
| advanceDNA: 10:37am On May 09 |
bigpicture001: This is funny......u are just contradicting yourself... So u know she has her own life and therefore needs to take personal responsibility to be disciplined/faith in marriage .......So why do u think it's the man's responsibility to make another adult sexually disciplined/faithful?? ....Mr keep them on track.....U are the one that will learn the hard way.... 1 Like |
| Dzzzz: 10:39am On May 09 |
NEWBIN:Yes..Cheating doesn’t necessarily mean sex but having conversations with another person while in a relationship is cheating.. |
| Tit4Tat1(m): 10:45am On May 09 |
| bigpicture001: 10:45am On May 09 |
advanceDNA: marriage is a process... like me, no grew up where we easily swear to prove a point that we are not lying... When I met my girl, sh finds dat absurd... I told her it's mere words, but sh wouldn't understand and is always scared these swears will come to hurt us a s family... I have to start to adjust my lifestyle to b able to wean me off the swearing stuffs... Sometimes, we need the other patner to nudge us into reality, we are not always on track... No one is always right |
| Ibkay32(m): 10:47am On May 09 |
bigpicture001: Seems you never understand life Sorry to ask, how old are you? |
| Firebox123(m): 11:01am On May 09 |
Ibkay32:ignore that moniker
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| Exceed15: 11:03am On May 09 |
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According to you she had been chatting with him" which means it is cordial and consistence. Bro, I won't tell u what to do o.
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| advanceDNA: 11:56am On May 09 |
bigpicture001: Lol ...u are are comparing swearing and being unfaithful to your partner?? Niggá...u funny... Infidelity isn't something someone nudges you you away from.....because sexual pleasure is an innate desire...infidelity is something u have to consciously build discipline and firmly maintain boundaries to stay away from it... ...... If you don't ....there's no amount of nudging that will prevent you from cheating |
| Omoawoke(m): 12:25pm On May 09 |
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Two people must suffer in this life Feminists and Simps |
| bigpicture001: 12:56pm On May 09 |
advanceDNA: Dat lady is gas not cheated yet... Sh is being worked on by a man... Dt is why I told oo, to stop the Mickey mouse game ND confront your wife... Sh is. Not ur gf, tell her straight what's up ND how it will end for the two of u.. sh will quickly realize ND fall in line.... See, I have seen very very well behaved men who fall for ladies that are very charming ND good .. it will take the intervention of his wife to bring him back to his senses...... In marriage even one help the other, both work on the marriage not one person... I know what u wanted was a Nigerian way action.. Conclude in her Beat her shege Send her packing Drag the children Bar her from ever seeing the children... Etc Omoh, life no b like that.. |
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