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Managing A One Room Apartment With My Wife And 7 Children (23621 Views)
atobs4real(m): 9:22pm On May 03 |
Sharpsharp00123:But sex is part of life and once u don't have it, survival of the fullest may not be sure bcuz sex is 🔑🔑 |
Uche559(m): 9:45pm On May 03 |
Since sex is ur only problem In Dis country, God has butter ur bread, just book a hotel n since u work Monday to Sunday, booking a hotel once in a week will solve ur only problem.
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sacajawea(m): 9:58pm On May 03 |
Ah ah! Fascinating! |
sacajawea(m): 9:58pm On May 03 |
sacajawea:I looked up to check the moniker and I as even more wowed. Unexpectedly it's Obavohh (you have remarkable entertainment factor) Again you strike. When unexpected, you come with a new topic. The English too is quite remarkable, brings some thoughts to the mind ( but that's another topic for another day.) |
sacajawea(m): 10:00pm On May 03 |
sacajawea:I don't know where to start. So many tbings, so so many things I wanna say about the write-up, so so many thing's on the different parts and the central theme as a whole. (Again, the High Quality Obâvoh touch/taste) |
sacajawea(m): 10:06pm On May 03 |
Obavoh:What's that Swallow there? That name? |
Jozilinn: 11:06pm On May 03 |
Farrason:My dear you see this particular man we have been advising him since number 4 child there's no spacing at all, and the wife is very young oh... I don't know If she's 25 now because the lady is indeed very young for 7 children. 1. He refused the family planning, the wife almost died because then she had a baby and was pregnant. 2. His mentality is shallow, he's the type of person that's never hears. If you see what he eats sometimes, there was a day he used about #200 to cook or so. 150k can't take care of a woman with 7 kids but to him as long as there's food and sex he's okay. We know him now before you know he will get her pregnant again she will just be giving birth every year haba. The landlord is seeing something, Obavoh is really sex starved. He's the first man bathing with his wife No! He dey overdo now, he should calm down and be matured enough to face his situation. That is why a woman needs to be very intellectual in marriage. 1 Like |
fitinwell: 11:19pm On May 03 |
Obavoh: This is not an issue Oga.... Na u get your family... Since the room is big enough... Get Carpenter... Buy fisher board... Divide the Room into two... Since you have seven children for ventilation sake ... U can make there own space take like 60% portion of the room... While you take 40% floor space ... Then you can have your privacy,... You can still knack your wifey under the duvet,.. just hug her from behide... If you don go 10mins .. it's enough... Alright later.... |
mac04: 1:38am On May 04 |
[quote author=Obavoh post=135219889]Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built. We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family. The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I. The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy. I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife. Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped. I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness. You birthed seven children on #150k salary.You really need your head examined.I hope you are not looking for a pity party here.You started the music, you must dance to it alone. |
dhml(m): 7:12am On May 04 |
Once in a while, go and lodge in a hotel with your wife either short time or overtime and do the do with her.
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Adextomzy1: 8:41am On May 04 |
7 children??. Parents that have way less are going through a lot
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Smartwave: 8:45am On May 04 |
alphaNomega: Almost intelligent. How can someone with family of 9, initially living in two bedroom apartment in his Village, now moved into one room, telling us that He is living a good life? 7 children? with #150, 000.00, how is he going to give them good life? Later, he will start blaming Government and Village people for is self inflicted problem. |
MrJames007: 10:44am On May 04 |
Op, I'm interested in how you manage 150 with your family.
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Otitipupa: 2:12pm On May 04 |
Obavoh what is the name of your state and town precisely? Seems like little money goes a long way over there. Give men update Abeg
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Pickup8: 6:36pm On May 04 |
Hopss:You people don't know the cordial relationship between the northerns and child bearing. Our gateman in my office is earning 45k and have 9 children. I have notice since last month that that woman is pregnant again as she sells her roasted corn in the junction. |
Pickup8: 6:38pm On May 04 |
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frozen70(f): 7:27pm On May 04 |
Obavoh: Instead of you to get an apartment that will give you privacy with your wife and let your children feel free at home while you have your space You are concern about giving love and sex to your wife So that you will breed more children Your poverty level is affecting your brain seriously You have seven children because you don't have future plans for them Go and get a room and palour apartment and stop behaving irresponsible 1 Like |
7arrows: 8:34pm On May 04 |
Emeskhalifa: The story no fly.... |
meobizy(f): 8:56pm On May 04 |
This guy is ready to create twenty children. The white man says fertility rates have dropped. This man proves him otherwise.
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Evolutionism: 9:06pm On May 04 |
Obavoh: Low IQ human beings are known for making poor decisions. It's normal, So i won't blame you because it's just life. You are acting based on your programming. |
Evolutionism: 9:12pm On May 04 |
Pickup8: Allow them to breed more. Factory workers, Gateman and All are needed and will be in abundance. It's a Win Win Situation for the Elite, Wealthy and The Rich Class. |
EndBuhariNow(m): 2:30am On May 05 |
Firebox123:u want to know if the project belongs to me, here is my conversation with my engineer yesterday... You think everyone u meet here on nairaland is poor like you ... Don't use Ur hand chase away Ur destiny helper .... Me and u no dey do dick measuring
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alphaNomega: 1:44am On May 06 |
Smartwave:is he blaming you? did he ask you for money? god forbid somebody enjoys their marriage |
alphaNomega: 1:47am On May 06 |
MemoriesAndMe: and I also gave you my honest advice. if you were in his shoes, I'm sure you would handle it differently. the man has chosen what is best for him and una dey vex. god forbid somebody enjoys his marriage even in hard times. |
alphaNomega: 1:49am On May 06 |
Jozilinn: are you offering to send his kids to school? is he asking you for help? sometimes sef na this over righteous behaviour una take dey deceive una sef be the problem. because dem burn him village, make two of them no enjoy their marriage abi? |
alphaNomega: 1:51am On May 06 |
Educationalserv: YES because Nigeria has more money than that and could be better but people like you in our leadership would rather have everyone suffer. It is the same way you are annoyed these two people are trying to enjoy their marriage inspite of all the hardship they face. |
alphaNomega: 1:53am On May 06 |
meobizy:na white man fertility rate wey drop, no be us una too dey carry oyibo man matter for head like say u no get choice. their religion o, their tradition o, their food o even the one wey be poison... una go just copy copy |
alphaNomega: 1:54am On May 06 |
Hopss:we you keep qwayet ![]() |
meobizy(f): 10:45am On May 06 |
The oyibo man will tell him to birth one child which he can raise comfortably with his 150K per month salary. Illiterate Nigerians will convince him that children are blessings and he should aim for 10 which he won’t have the mental or physical energy to cater to. Watch, once he starts making 180 - 100K, he’ll get a second wife to keep up with his libido and baby production rate. alphaNomega: |
alphaNomega: 3:21pm On May 06 |
meobizy:why does it bother you? Are you jealous that you can not give birth to that many children? Are his children coming to disturb your peace? Is he asking you for money? I no understand the bad belle wey una dey carry sef. If you no wan born. Or you wan born only one. GOOD FOR YOU. No come carry your reggae dey play for another person blues |
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