NewStats: 3,265,218 , 8,186,046 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 10:20 PM 2w2dg

Sharpsharp00123:
u are a typical example of the saying that "the only thing that controls a poor man is his prick"

After 7 children n in abject poverty u are still thinking of touching your wife?

Don't u think of how u will get a better life n take care of your children?

Don't u think of your future and that of your children?

But sex is part of life and once u don't have it, survival of the fullest may not be sure bcuz sex is 🔑🔑

Since sex is ur only problem In Dis country, God has butter ur bread, just book a hotel n since u work Monday to Sunday, booking a hotel once in a week will solve ur only problem.

Ah ah!
Fascinating!

sacajawea:
Ah ah!
Fascinating!

I looked up to check the moniker and I as even more wowed. Unexpectedly it's Obavohh (you have remarkable entertainment factor)
Again you strike. When unexpected, you come with a new topic.

The English too is quite remarkable, brings some thoughts to the mind ( but that's another topic for another day.)

sacajawea:

I looked up to check the moniker and I as even more wowed. Unexpectedly it's Obavohh (you have remarkable entertainment factor)
Again you strike. When unexpected, you come with a new topic.

The English too is quite remarkable, brings some thoughts to the mind ( but that's another topic for another day.)

I don't know where to start. So many tbings, so so many things I wanna say about the write-up, so so many thing's on the different parts and the central theme as a whole.

(Again, the High Quality Obâvoh touch/taste)

Obavoh:


See our dinner last night. None of my children goes to bed with an empty stomach

What's that Swallow there? That name?

Farrason:


ALL OF YOU ARE QUITE RIGHT IN THE ADVICE FOR A BETTER LIFE. BUT WHAT YOU FAIL TO SEE IS THE HAPPINESS, LOVE AND ROMANCE BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE. BY THE WAY, ARE YOU ALL SUGGESTING HE SHOULD NEVER AGAIN PLAY WITH HIS WIFE OR TALK TO HER IN ROMANTIC WAYS AND MORE SO NEVER AGAIN TOUCH HIS WIFE?

MY SUGGESTION IS THAT GET YOUR WIFE TO DO FAMILY PLANNING TO AVOID ANY MORE CHILD BIRTH. AND LOOK UP NEW WAYS FOR ADDITIONAL INCOME TO MAKE YOUR LIVING CONDITIONS BETTER SINCE YOU ARE NOW IN THE CITY. YOU ARE DOING WELL ALREADY ON WELFARE BUT YOU NEED TO A LARGE APARTMENT. .... my two cents

My dear you see this particular man we have been advising him since number 4 child there's no spacing at all, and the wife is very young oh... I don't know If she's 25 now because the lady is indeed very young for 7 children.

1. He refused the family planning, the wife almost died because then she had a baby and was pregnant.

2. His mentality is shallow, he's the type of person that's never hears.
If you see what he eats sometimes, there was a day he used about #200 to cook or so.
150k can't take care of a woman with 7 kids but to him as long as there's food and sex he's okay.
We know him now before you know he will get her pregnant again she will just be giving birth every year haba.
The landlord is seeing something, Obavoh is really sex starved. He's the first man bathing with his wife No! He dey overdo now, he should calm down and be matured enough to face his situation. That is why a woman needs to be very intellectual in marriage.

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

This is not an issue Oga.... Na u get your family...


Since the room is big enough... Get Carpenter... Buy fisher board... Divide the Room into two...

Since you have seven children for ventilation sake ... U can make there own space take like 60% portion of the room...

While you take 40% floor space ...

Then you can have your privacy,...

You can still knack your wifey under the duvet,.. just hug her from behide...

If you don go 10mins .. it's enough...

Alright later....

[quote author=Obavoh post=135219889]Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.



You birthed seven children on #150k salary.You really need your head examined.I hope you are not looking for a pity party here.You started the music, you must dance to it alone.

Once in a while, go and lodge in a hotel with your wife either short time or overtime and do the do with her.

7 children??. Parents that have way less are going through a lot

alphaNomega:
l of una wicked.

All suspect say you follow for the criminals wey destroy that man village

so because them born 7 children make the romance disappear? god forbid two people enjoy their marriage

NB: do you know today their are men in Dubai and Qatar that have over 9 children and are comfortably taking care of them? Oyibo man come here dey tell you family planning, made your government impoverish you, and you have accepted that way of life. None of you know how wealthy Africa is. YOU DON'T. Oyibo fear they will be outbumbered so they pull out every trick in the book to keep you suppressed.

Almost intelligent. How can someone with family of 9, initially living in two bedroom apartment in his Village, now moved into one room, telling us that He is living a good life?

7 children? with #150, 000.00, how is he going to give them good life?

Later, he will start blaming Government and Village people for is self inflicted problem.

Op, I'm interested in how you manage 150 with your family.

Obavoh what is the name of your state and town precisely? Seems like little money goes a long way over there. Give men update Abeg

Hopss:
please obavoh I beg you in the name of what ever you believe in, give your self a break from child bearing and concentrate on training your seven children.

You people don't know the cordial relationship between the northerns and child bearing.
Our gateman in my office is earning 45k and have 9 children. I have notice since last month that that woman is pregnant again as she sells her roasted corn in the junction.

ChybuzzDD:


Yes, the clueless and incompetent drug.lord is part of his misfortunes by running the country down.

I once came across some Arab men in Qatar with over 9 children each and they had no problems feeding their families and building houses.
Though your brain is okay but your thinking faculty has been overrun by political and tribalistic bias. So it is during Tinubu's time he have all the 7 children?!

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

Instead of you to get an apartment that will give you privacy with your wife and let your children feel free at home while you have your space

You are concern about giving love and sex to your wife

So that you will breed more children

Your poverty level is affecting your brain seriously

You have seven children because you don't have future plans for them

Go and get a room and palour apartment and stop behaving irresponsible

Emeskhalifa:

It won't be a bad idea to help them pay for a room and parlour even if na for 1 year. So that the man will be able to raise some money to pay up for subsequent years

The story no fly....

This guy is ready to create twenty children. The white man says fertility rates have dropped. This man proves him otherwise.

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

Low IQ human beings are known for making poor decisions. It's normal, So i won't blame you because it's just life.

You are acting based on your programming.

Pickup8:

You people don't know the cordial relationship between the northerns and child bearing.
Our gateman in my office is earning 45k and have 9 children. I have notice since last month that that woman is pregnant again as she sells her roasted corn in the junction.

Allow them to breed more.

Factory workers, Gateman and All are needed and will be in abundance.

It's a Win Win Situation for the Elite, Wealthy and The Rich Class.

Firebox123:
more proof and evidence you're the owner of the house

You can't just come online and be lying

u want to know if the project belongs to me, here is my conversation with my engineer yesterday... You think everyone u meet here on nairaland is poor like you ... Don't use Ur hand chase away Ur destiny helper .... Me and u no dey do dick measuring

Smartwave:


Almost intelligent. How can someone with family of 9, initially living in two bedroom apartment in his Village, now moved into one room, telling us that He is living a good life?

7 children? with #150, 000.00, how is he going to give them good life?

Later, he will start blaming Government and Village people for is self inflicted problem.

is he blaming you? did he ask you for money? god forbid somebody enjoys their marriage

MemoriesAndMe:
That's a honest advice. We all should learn to adjust to our situations. He has 7 kids and that makes it a family of 9 living in one room.

This is not Dubai or all the other places you mentioned. Common sense should be to first get a more convenient place for his family and he can have as many more kids as he wants, not all in a single room that his family currently stays.

and I also gave you my honest advice.

if you were in his shoes, I'm sure you would handle it differently. the man has chosen what is best for him and una dey vex. god forbid somebody enjoys his marriage even in hard times.

Jozilinn:
I only asked if the kids are in school because 150k is too small to raise 7 kids.

are you offering to send his kids to school? is he asking you for help? sometimes sef na this over righteous behaviour una take dey deceive una sef be the problem.

because dem burn him village, make two of them no enjoy their marriage abi?

Educationalserv:
Qatar of 3m citizens and. 1 trillion USD in SWF compare with poverty stricken corrupt Nigeria

YES because Nigeria has more money than that and could be better but people like you in our leadership would rather have everyone suffer. It is the same way you are annoyed these two people are trying to enjoy their marriage inspite of all the hardship they face.

meobizy:
This guy is ready to create twenty children. The white man says fertility rates have dropped. This man proves him otherwise.

na white man fertility rate wey drop, no be us

una too dey carry oyibo man matter for head like say u no get choice. their religion o, their tradition o, their food o even the one wey be poison... una go just copy copy

Hopss:
please obavoh I beg you in the name of what ever you believe in, give your self a break from child bearing and concentrate on training your seven children.

we you keep qwayet

The oyibo man will tell him to birth one child which he can raise comfortably with his 150K per month salary. Illiterate Nigerians will convince him that children are blessings and he should aim for 10 which he won’t have the mental or physical energy to cater to. Watch, once he starts making 180 - 100K, he’ll get a second wife to keep up with his libido and baby production rate.

alphaNomega:
na white man fertility rate wey drop, no be us

una too dey carry oyibo man matter for head like say u no get choice. their religion o, their tradition o, their food o even the one wey be poison... una go just copy copy

meobizy:
The oyibo man will tell him to birth one child which he can raise comfortably with his 150K per month salary. Illiterate Nigerians will convince him that children are blessings and he should aim for 10 which he won’t have the mental or physical energy to cater to. Watch, once he starts making 180 - 100K, he’ll get a second wife to keep up with his libido and baby production rate.

why does it bother you? Are you jealous that you can not give birth to that many children? Are his children coming to disturb your peace? Is he asking you for money?

I no understand the bad belle wey una dey carry sef.

If you no wan born. Or you wan born only one. GOOD FOR YOU. No come carry your reggae dey play for another person blues