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Gandollar:
Akpabio is even carrying her handbag.

Bianca is a slapee o 😬

Eye dey pain you. Where you see akpabio holding her bag.

Choiii
This woman get height ooo
See as she tall the men around her

Hehe, be like say this one gree for am...

Bianca don't slap him please

DeepSight:


Great sire!

You and this Mata sha!

Listen, whether you like it or not, there are desirable older women in this world. I am not speaking of grannies. To claim that there are no desirable women in their forties for example is simply unsustainable.

Ogaawa DeepSight, while I do not doubt that there are women over 23 who might appear younger than their true age, I continue to be baffled by Nigerian mens' taste in women, in that everywhere I look when in Nigeria, I am reminded that physical beauty is rarely a criterion by which Nigerian men choose their sexual partners. To use an automotive analogy, it is perplexing that any man would allow himself to be seen driving a rickety old school bus when he can afford the feminine equivalent of a new Ferrari that is priced the same as that old bus, but ONLY in Nigeria.

My first ever glimpse of a woman wearing no clothes was in the pages of Playboy Magazine, and the standard of beauty upheld by that magazine would, over time, become my personal preference when it came to the physical appearance of a desirable woman. Once that exacting standard of youthful feminine beauty became ingrained in my psyche during my early teen years, a total indifference to all other categories of women became a key element of my essential character that remains undiminished to this day.

This preference to approach physically fit and naturally busty young women in the prime of their nubile beauty comes with a downside in the EU or USA because ALL men desire such women in Western cultures, resulting in those high-demand women becoming unforgivingly selective and extremely challenging to woo. For all Nigeria's myriad security problems, her one blessing I enjoy immensely is her fit young women, the likes of which are a rarity in any black enclave one cares to mention in the Western World, where obesity is the rule.

Paradoxically and ironically, in Nigeria, the most desired and pursued women are generally obese, middle-aged, and sporting heavily bleached skin that smells absolutely awful. This alternate universe means that I am rarely in competition with anyone else for the attention of the types of women that I find irresistible, and who are everywhere in Nigeria.

This response is a minor digression from the topic of this thread, but no harm is done discussing one of my favorite mysteries about the Nigerian mindset.

Zooposki:


The African man is highly, sexually undisciplined, hence why they lack progress. Most of their brain power are dedicated to how when and where to have sex, and whom to .

A bit of a generalisation I feel.

I am an African man and I also know tons of African men, none of whom fit into the category of men you describe.

Without being personal, you might want to be mindful of the kind of African men you hang around with and maybe look inward to see why you seem to attract those kind of people.

I have a question, having intimacy with a widow,is it a crime? Both morally and by tradition...I just want to know.

Wannabenz:
I have a question, having intimacy with a widow,is it a crime? Both morally and by tradition...I just want to know.

Oya, my fellow widows. Diariz God o. Please reply to this man promptly, so that he can end his hunger strike in a timely fashion.

On a more serious note, it has been said that once a man dies, his manhood lives on, and with this eventuality foremost in mind, our man Mr. Wannabenz must now ponder the existential question of how he will mount that elderly post-menopausal widow when she is still enjoying the manhood of her departed husband.

Jakumo:


Ogaawa DeepSight, while I do not doubt that there are women over 23 who might appear younger than their true age, I continue to be baffled by Nigerian mens' taste in women, in that everywhere I look when in Nigeria, I am reminded that physical beauty is rarely a criterium by which Nigerian men choose their sexual partners. To use an automotive analogy, it is perplexing that any man would allow himself to be seen driving a rickety old school bus when he can afford the feminine equivalent of a new Ferrari that is priced the same as that old bus, but ONLY in Nigeria.

My first ever glimpse of a woman wearing no clothes was in the pages of Playboy Magazine, and the standard of beauty upheld by that magazine would, over time, become my personal preference when it came to the physical appearance of a desirable woman. Once that exacting standard of youthful feminine beauty became ingrained in my psyche during my early teen years, a total indifference to all other categories of women became a key element of my essential character that remains undiminished to this day.

This preference to approach physically fit and naturally busty young women in the prime of their nubile beauty comes with a downside in the EU or USA because ALL men desire such women in Western cultures, resulting in those high-demand women becoming unforgivingly selective and extremely challenging to woo. For all Nigeria's myriad security problems, her one blessing I enjoy immensely is her fit young women, the likes of which are a rarity in any black enclave one cares to mention in the Western World, where obesity is the rule.

Paradoxically and ironically, in Nigeria, the most desired and pursued women are generally obese, middle-aged, and sporting heavily bleached skin that smells absolutely awful. This alternate universe means that I am rarely in competition with anyone else for the attention of the types of women that I find irresistible, and who are everywhere in Nigeria.

This response is a minor digression from the topic of this thread, but no harm is done discussing one of my favorite mysteries about the Nigerian mindset.

Criterion

Sirianese:


Criterion

Good catch. I have undiagnosed dyslexia, and recently, my spell checker has begun to ignore blatant errors. Making this correction now.

Gandollar:
Akpabio is even carrying her handbag.

Bianca is a slapee o 😬

Look again. She's carrying her bag by herself

Jakumo:


Ogaawa DeepSight, while I do not doubt that there are women over 23 who might appear younger than their true age, I continue to be baffled by Nigerian mens' taste in women, in that everywhere I look when in Nigeria, I am reminded that physical beauty is rarely a criterion by which Nigerian men choose their sexual partners. To use an automotive analogy, it is perplexing that any man would allow himself to be seen driving a rickety old school bus when he can afford the feminine equivalent of a new Ferrari that is priced the same as that old bus, but ONLY in Nigeria.

My first ever glimpse of a woman wearing no clothes was in the pages of Playboy Magazine, and the standard of beauty upheld by that magazine would, over time, become my personal preference when it came to the physical appearance of a desirable woman. Once that exacting standard of youthful feminine beauty became ingrained in my psyche during my early teen years, a total indifference to all other categories of women became a key element of my essential character that remains undiminished to this day.

This preference to approach physically fit and naturally busty young women in the prime of their nubile beauty comes with a downside in the EU or USA because ALL men desire such women in Western cultures, resulting in those high-demand women becoming unforgivingly selective and extremely challenging to woo. For all Nigeria's myriad security problems, her one blessing I enjoy immensely is her fit young women, the likes of which are a rarity in any black enclave one cares to mention in the Western World, where obesity is the rule.

Paradoxically and ironically, in Nigeria, the most desired and pursued women are generally obese, middle-aged, and sporting heavily bleached skin that smells absolutely awful. This alternate universe means that I am rarely in competition with anyone else for the attention of the types of women that I find irresistible, and who are everywhere in Nigeria.

This response is a minor digression from the topic of this thread, but no harm is done discussing one of my favorite mysteries about the Nigerian mindset.

Champion. Well said.
Now tell me what you would say about a Kate Henshaw or Genevieve Nnaji.

DeepSight:


Champion. Well said.
Now tell me what you would say about a Kate Henshaw or Genevieve Nnaji.

I must confess I had to look up these names of Nollywood's elder stateswomen, Ogaawa DeepSight, because my taste in movies leans toward Hollywood offerings. The conversations in Nollywood movies are generally conducted at a very agitated shouting and screaming volume that tends to give me a headache, hence my avoidance of home-grown movies.

With respect to women in the movie industry and society at large, who are dedicated to staying fit beyond the age of 25, praise is certainly due, even from those of us inclined to regard physically fit younger women in their twenties who have never been pregnant, as the gold standard of feminine attractiveness. I readily it to having been socially awkward as a younger man, which as a consequence made the dating game a major challenge for years.

Without the benefit of a psychology background, my layman's self-diagnosis is that the fixation I have on women aged 20 to 23, is a compensatory desire to make up for lost time by enjoying the company of the women who eluded me when I was their age, due entirely to my own failings as a man who never benefitted from the dating advice of an elder brother or father figure, way back in my formative years when women seemed to be an alien species that I craved yet feared in equal measure.

Jakumo:


I must confess I had to look up these names of Nollywood's elder stateswomen, Ogaawa DeepSight, because my taste in movies leans toward Hollywood offerings. The conversations in Nollywood movies are generally conducted at a very agitated shouting and screaming volume that tends to give me a headache, hence my avoidance of home-grown movies.

With respect to women in the movie industry and society at large, who are dedicated to staying fit beyond the age of 25, praise is certainly due, even from those of us inclined to regard physically fit younger women in their twenties who have never been pregnant, as the gold standard of feminine attractiveness. I readily it to having been socially awkward as a younger man, which as a consequence made the dating game a major challenge for years.

Without the benefit of a psychology background, my layman's self-diagnosis is that the fixation I have on women aged 20 to 23, is a compensatory desire to make up for lost time by enjoying the company of the women who eluded me when I was their age, due entirely to my own failings as a man who never benefitted from the dating advice of an elder brother or father figure, way back in my formative years when women seemed to be an alien species that I craved yet feared in equal measure.

Understood. I don't like Nollywood myself. However Kate for example is not just an actress, she does stage theatre, and is prominent as Brand Ambassador for multinationals.

She is fit, well kept, elegant, doesn't bleach and a beauty to behold in person.

I also mentioned Genevieve because she is very well kept.

My general problem with younger women is I find it hard to talk to them. If they are not busy doing selfies, they will be dancing on Ticktock or Instagram.

They hardly even know that a phone has the primary function of making calls or messages. The only thing that concerns them is social media.

And sorry to say but most of them are frighteningly dumb and ill educated.

More mature women are wiser, seen more of the world, better educated, and many are frankly sexier.

DeepSight:


Understood. I don't like Nollywood myself. However Kate for example is not just an actress, she does stage theatre, and is prominent as Brand Ambassador for multinationals.

She is fit, well kept, elegant, doesn't bleach and a beauty to behold in person.

I also mentioned Genevieve because she is very well kept.

My general problem with younger women is I find it hard to talk to them. If they are not busy doing selfies, they will be dancing on Ticktock or Instagram.

They hardly even know that a phone has the primary function of making calls or messages. The only thing that concerns them is social media.

And sorry to say but most of them are frighteningly dumb and ill educated.

More mature women are wiser, seen more of the world, better educated, and many are frankly sexier.

Given that the primary motivation that I have for seeking out women is for sex rather than for intellectual discourse, it would make no difference at all to me if a smoking hot 22-year old woman wrestling me in my bed cannot speak even a single word of English.

That said, my avoidance of women over 26 goes beyond their complete absence of sexual allure in my eyes. I also steer well clear of older testosterone-hardened women because experience has taught me they tend to be vindictive, vengeful, cunning, unforgiving, jealous, greedy and devious. When in casual or official conversations with that female demographic I am always very polite and careful about what I say, to avoid incurring their wrath over minor perceived slights that could easily trigger them into hysterical rage.

Jakumo:


Given that the primary motivation that I have for seeking out women is for sex rather than for intellectual discourse, it would make no difference at all to me if a smoking hot 22-year old woman wrestling me in my bed cannot speak even a single word of English.

That said, my avoidance of women over 26 goes beyond their complete absence of sexual allure in my eyes. I also steer well clear of older testosterone-hardened women because experience has taught me they tend to be vindictive, vengeful, cunning, unforgiving, jealous, greedy and devious. When in casual or official conversations with that female demographic I am always very polite and careful about what I say, to avoid incurring their wrath over minor perceived slights that could easily trigger them into hysterical rage.

Very well said. Undeniably most of them are totally unforgiving and unspeakably cunning.

The sort of lies and backstabbing they can come up with is demonic.

I have come to see that it's an art many women learn as their own way of fighting a person they don't like.

They are also easily able to poison one if possible or even send a hired assassin after you or do everything possible to destroy your career, marriage and even finances.

You are right that one must be wary of them. The amount of men that have been killed or spent decades in prison for the false accusations made by a woman is bewildering.

Gandollar:
Akpabio is even carrying her handbag.

Bianca is a slapee o 😬

He didn't carry her bag anywhere. Open your eyes

Criminals….a gathering of criminals and secret societies

Akpabio should take good care of FFK's

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Not a fluke, contested in Miss universe back in the day, they will not have selected her if she was one short nkwage

Wetin b 'nkwage' again

deltaF0SS:


Wetin b 'nkwage' again

Not just short but wosky