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MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN FOR THE EXPERIENCE. WOMEN SLEEP WITH MEN FOR A CONNECTION. That’s Why One Leaves Smiling, The Other Leaves Crying.

Let’s stop pretending — s*x has never meant the same thing to men and women.

1. Men chase s*x for variety. Women give sex for meaning.

Men don’t need a reason. They just need an opportunity.

They’ll sleep with you because you're tall, short, thick, slim, or just available.
No emotions, no intentions, no plans.

But women? They give their bodies with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or belief that “this might lead somewhere.”

That’s why after sex, the man rolls over and forgets your name.
But you lie there, wondering what the two of you are now.

2. For men, the goal is sex. For women, sex is a door to more.

A man can spend money, take you out, buy you gifts — not because he loves you, but because he sees it as “payment for access.”

After he sleeps with you, he walks away feeling like the transaction is complete.

You, on the other hand, start to wonder why he changed.

It’s not wickedness. That’s just how most men operate — sex first, emotion nowhere.

3. Women still believe in love. But most men today are running games.

A man will say anything just to get you:
“You’re special.”
“I’ve never met someone like you.”
“You’re my peace.”
“You’re wife material.”

And once you fall and give him sex, the game ends.
He runs. Not because you're bad — but because his lies are about to expire.

A man who tells the truth and stays? He’s rare.
But if he disappears after sleeping with you, it’s because he came with a plan to escape.

4. Women feel sex. Men just release it.

When a woman sleeps with a man, her brain releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone.
Her heart attaches.
Her soul connects.
Her mind starts planning a future.

Meanwhile, the man is just waiting to put on his boxers and leave.

No emotions. No connection. Just “mission accomplished.”

5. Women are wired to nurture. So they give too much.

Give a woman love, she multiplies it.
Give her a house, she makes it a home.
Give her a man — even a broken one — and she’ll pour her life into fixing him.

But give her heartbreak? She’ll carry that pain for years.

That’s why a woman will cry over a man that didn’t even care.
Because she wasn’t just having s*x — she was giving her all.

6. For a woman, s*x is submission.

She doesn’t just say yes on the bed.
She’s already said yes in her heart, in her thoughts, in her spirit.
She shaved. She dressed nice. She came prepared.

And when it happens, she gives you not just her body — but her trust.

You didn’t seduce her.
She convinced herself.
And that’s why she’s shattered when you ghost her.

7. Women use s*x to bond. Men use sex to sample.

After s*x, a woman assumes something deep just happened.

She assumes you felt it too.

But you? You’re already texting someone else.

She thinks you shared energy. You just wanted variety.

That’s why she’s hurt. Not because the sex was bad, but because she thought it meant more.

8. Women attach life to s*x. Men don’t.

She moans like she’s surrendering her soul because in that moment, she is.

You’re killing her softly — and she’s saying, “Don’t stop,” because she’s fully invested.
She’s not acting.
She’s bonding.

But you? You’re just performing. For you, it’s a workout. For her, it’s worship.

9. Women respect the man who gives them orgasms.

You might think sperm is just liquid, but for many women, the man who makes them climax owns a piece of their memory.

That’s why many marriages collapse — the woman was never emotionally tied to her husband.
But the man who made her cum? She still dreams about him.

And sadly, most men don’t even know how to make their own wives feel anything.

10. Women think of the consequences. Men only think of the moment.

Before you even finish round one, she’s already calculating pregnancy, shame, her reputation, and what her future holds.

You? You’re just looking for water to drink and maybe some jollof rice.

She thought it was baby-making love.
You thought it was chicken-eating fun.

That’s the tragedy.

AND THE SAD TRUTH:

This generation now trades s*x for data, iPhones, shawarma, birthday gifts, and hair.

Girls sleep with men they don’t even like — just to upgrade their lifestyle.
And in the process, they’ve turned their emotions into ashes.

Now love is dead. Trust is rare.
And true relationships are harder to find than a loyal politician.

ADVICE TO THIS GENERATION:

Don’t treat s*x like chewing gum.

Don’t give your body just because he spent small money.

Don’t give your love just because she called you “handsome.”

Sex is not a game. It’s power. It’s trust. It’s energy.

Save it. Value it. Respect it.

May the enjoyment of today not become the regret of tomorrow

All the runs girls who are masquerading as decent chicks on Facebook and LinkedIn just read this post and swallowed their laughter. Like literally, all of Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Ilorin, Warri and Awka are reading this and rolling inwardly with laughter. I'm sure Kano would too but those ones code like mad.

I seriously don't understand how men think they're the logical gender and believe stuff like this. C'mon, fellas...

The Bible is full of manipulative women using sexx and sexx appeal to manipulate men into doing what they want, yet men are still there, 3000 years later, saying and believing: "women can't have casual sexx, it must mean something to them!"

Ogbeni, even your mum cooked a nice pot of egusi soup and nacked your dad because she wanted to pay for aseobi and buy you guys new textbooks one day and her money wasn't complete. She promptly went back to side-eyeing him and hissing in her mind once the deed was done.

Onegai:
All the runs girls who are masquerading as decent chicks on Facebook and LinkedIn just read this post and swallowed their laughter.

I seriously don't understand how men think they're the logical gender and believe stuff like this. C'mon, fellas...

The Bible is full of manipulative women using sexx and sexx appeal to manipulate men into doing what they want, yet men are still there, 3000 years later, saying and believing: "women can't have casual sexx, it must mean something to them!"

Ogbeni, even your mum cooked a nice pot of egusi soup and nacked your dad because she wanted to pay for aseobi and buy you guys new textbooks one day and her money wasn't complete. She promptly went back to side-eyeing him and hissing in her mind once the deed was done.

😂 😂 😂

OP you try, but too many generalizations. Many women can turn off all that feeling stuff..

Also, we say we're not governed by instincts like animals, but we are! The instinct is to maximize chances your genes will survive and get ed on. For a man this is achieved by bedding as many women as possible. Once he cums, he has "impregnated" the woman. Mission accomplished. The end.
For a woman that's only the begining. The instinct is to "trap" whoever has sex with her ("impregnated" her) to stay and help her raise her limited number of offsprings. What she instinctively wants is ONE good man who impregnates her (only her preferably) and stays to help raise and protect her children, assuring survival of her genes.

QuinQ:

What she instinctively wants is ONE good man who impregnates ONLY her and stays to help raise and protect her children, assuring her genes survive.

Do Urhobo women know this?

Do Ondo women know this?

Do Isale Eko women know this?

Maybe someone should tell them it's only one man that should father all their kids. I don't think they got the memo.

Like I said, it's amazing to see men believe they're the logical gender yet spout stuff like this.

Brandiebird:


😂 😂 😂

Intimacy has been turned to rubbish by both genders.

We took something beautiful, generous, joyous and sanctified and turned it into a Biological Need and a Lustful and Manipulative Want and a Way to Fight For Power. We tainted it.

Women are silent while men can't stop projecting in 2025. The power of a woman is powerful. Men are so simple that it's laughable.

I pray that women never open their mouths and say what has never been said! The world is coming to an end because the logical gender can't stop talking about women!

Chochochocho


The tables have turned!! I when women use dicuss men! Now men can't find anything to do but discuss what women think, what they want, where their pvssy has been. It's actually sad ito witness.

Onegai:
All the runs girls who are masquerading as decent chicks on Facebook and LinkedIn just read this post and swallowed their laughter. Like literally, all of Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Ilorin, Warri and Awka are reading this and rolling inwardly with laughter. I'm sure Kano would too but those ones code like mad.

I seriously don't understand how men think they're the logical gender and believe stuff like this. C'mon, fellas...

The Bible is full of manipulative women using sexx and sexx appeal to manipulate men into doing what they want, yet men are still there, 3000 years later, saying and believing: "women can't have casual sexx, it must mean something to them!"

Ogbeni, even your mum cooked a nice pot of egusi soup and nacked your dad because she wanted to pay for aseobi and buy you guys new textbooks one day and her money wasn't complete. She promptly went back to side-eyeing him and hissing in her mind once the deed was done.

Onegai:


Do Urhobo women know this?

Do Ondo women know this?

Do Isale Eko women know this?

Maybe someone should tell them it's only one man that should father all their kids. I don't think they got the memo.

Like I said, it's amazing to see men believe they're the logical gender yet spout stuff like this.

It is the hunt for that ONE good provider and protector that leads to multiple baby daddies (ask African American women). If they had a CHOICE I bet you 99% of women would prefer one good man as father of all their children than multiple baby daddies.

Brandiebird:
Women are silent while men can't stop projecting in 2025. The power of a woman is powerful. Men are so simple that it's laughable.

I pray that women never open their mouths and say what has never been said! The world is coming to an end because the logical gender can't stop talking about women!

Chochochocho


The tables have turned!! I when women use dicuss men! Now men can't find anything to do but discuss what women think, what they want, where their pvssy has been. It's actually sad ito witness.

It's ONLY on platforms like Nairaland. In real life women are the ones who gossip non-stop and talk incessantly about men!

QuinQ:


It's ONLY on platforms like Nairaland. In real life women are the ones who gossip non-stop and talk incessantly about men!

Whatever helps you keep an errection sir! ✋

Brandiebird:


Whatever helps you keep an errection sir! ✋

Women simply talk too much and are all talk. Don't let Nairaland fool you

Onegai:
All the runs girls who are masquerading as decent chicks on Facebook and LinkedIn just read this post and swallowed their laughter. Like literally, all of Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Ilorin, Warri and Awka are reading this and rolling inwardly with laughter. I'm sure Kano would too but those ones code like mad.

I seriously don't understand how men think they're the logical gender and believe stuff like this. C'mon, fellas...

The Bible is full of manipulative women using sexx and sexx appeal to manipulate men into doing what they want, yet men are still there, 3000 years later, saying and believing: "women can't have casual sexx, it must mean something to them!"

Ogbeni, even your mum cooked a nice pot of egusi soup and nacked your dad because she wanted to pay for aseobi and buy you guys new textbooks one day and her money wasn't complete. She promptly went back to side-eyeing him and hissing in her mind once the deed was done.

hmm. You got some valid points here

Brandiebird:


Whatever helps you keep an errection sir! ✋

He's just expressing his opinion the very same way you did. let's not get emotional about it now. 😂

Experience of what EXACTLY! Una go just dey inside your house they cap nonsense. Look at the way he is talking like he has interviewed all the men in the world and has a statistical data to his claim!

mdsne:
MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN FOR THE EXPERIENCE. WOMEN SLEEP WITH MEN FOR A CONNECTION. That’s Why One Leaves Smiling, The Other Leaves Crying.

Let’s stop pretending — s*x has never meant the same thing to men and women.

1. Men chase s*x for variety. Women give sex for meaning.

Men don’t need a reason. They just need an opportunity.

They’ll sleep with you because you're tall, short, thick, slim, or just available.
No emotions, no intentions, no plans.

But women? They give their bodies with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or belief that “this might lead somewhere.”

That’s why after sex, the man rolls over and forgets your name.
But you lie there, wondering what the two of you are now.

2. For men, the goal is sex. For women, sex is a door to more.

A man can spend money, take you out, buy you gifts — not because he loves you, but because he sees it as “payment for access.”

After he sleeps with you, he walks away feeling like the transaction is complete.

You, on the other hand, start to wonder why he changed.

It’s not wickedness. That’s just how most men operate — sex first, emotion nowhere.

3. Women still believe in love. But most men today are running games.

A man will say anything just to get you:
“You’re special.”
“I’ve never met someone like you.”
“You’re my peace.”
“You’re wife material.”

And once you fall and give him sex, the game ends.
He runs. Not because you're bad — but because his lies are about to expire.

A man who tells the truth and stays? He’s rare.
But if he disappears after sleeping with you, it’s because he came with a plan to escape.

4. Women feel sex. Men just release it.

When a woman sleeps with a man, her brain releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone.
Her heart attaches.
Her soul connects.
Her mind starts planning a future.

Meanwhile, the man is just waiting to put on his boxers and leave.

No emotions. No connection. Just “mission accomplished.”

5. Women are wired to nurture. So they give too much.

Give a woman love, she multiplies it.
Give her a house, she makes it a home.
Give her a man — even a broken one — and she’ll pour her life into fixing him.

But give her heartbreak? She’ll carry that pain for years.

That’s why a woman will cry over a man that didn’t even care.
Because she wasn’t just having s*x — she was giving her all.

6. For a woman, s*x is submission.

She doesn’t just say yes on the bed.
She’s already said yes in her heart, in her thoughts, in her spirit.
She shaved. She dressed nice. She came prepared.

And when it happens, she gives you not just her body — but her trust.

You didn’t seduce her.
She convinced herself.
And that’s why she’s shattered when you ghost her.

7. Women use s*x to bond. Men use sex to sample.

After s*x, a woman assumes something deep just happened.

She assumes you felt it too.

But you? You’re already texting someone else.

She thinks you shared energy. You just wanted variety.

That’s why she’s hurt. Not because the sex was bad, but because she thought it meant more.

8. Women attach life to s*x. Men don’t.

She moans like she’s surrendering her soul because in that moment, she is.

You’re killing her softly — and she’s saying, “Don’t stop,” because she’s fully invested.
She’s not acting.
She’s bonding.

But you? You’re just performing. For you, it’s a workout. For her, it’s worship.

9. Women respect the man who gives them orgasms.

You might think sperm is just liquid, but for many women, the man who makes them climax owns a piece of their memory.

That’s why many marriages collapse — the woman was never emotionally tied to her husband.
But the man who made her cum? She still dreams about him.

And sadly, most men don’t even know how to make their own wives feel anything.

10. Women think of the consequences. Men only think of the moment.

Before you even finish round one, she’s already calculating pregnancy, shame, her reputation, and what her future holds.

You? You’re just looking for water to drink and maybe some jollof rice.

She thought it was baby-making love.
You thought it was chicken-eating fun.

That’s the tragedy.

AND THE SAD TRUTH:

This generation now trades s*x for data, iPhones, shawarma, birthday gifts, and hair.

Girls sleep with men they don’t even like — just to upgrade their lifestyle.
And in the process, they’ve turned their emotions into ashes.

Now love is dead. Trust is rare.
And true relationships are harder to find than a loyal politician.

ADVICE TO THIS GENERATION:

Don’t treat s*x like chewing gum.

Don’t give your body just because he spent small money.

Don’t give your love just because she called you “handsome.”

Sex is not a game. It’s power. It’s trust. It’s energy.

Save it. Value it. Respect it.

May the enjoyment of today not become the regret of tomorrow

My brother times have changed ooo
Sex means nothing to most women now. The way a man cums and think of the next woman to bash that's the same way women climax(do they even climax) and think of the next guy they will sleep with to pay their bill

Some men do get attached even after the sex ..

This is very insightful

Only few men get this trophy these days, you must be really good in bed. To activate any woman and possess her like OP has narrated….

You can confirm if a woman is locked after s*x, if she say “you’re the best, I have had”

Hope this is AI, else 😂 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

techgen:
Only few men get this trophy these days, you must be really good in bed. To activate any woman and possess her like OP has narrated….

You can confirm if a woman is locked after s*x, if she say “you’re the best, I have had”

Some will say that just to boost your ego 😂. Unless it's coming from your own wife after some serious together mileage. When your wife tells you retrospectively "after we had s*x, I knew that you will be my last bus stop".

No true at all. Real life experiences doesn't this.

The problem in 9ja today is that, we have more men that are women and more women that are men!

Onegai:
All the runs girls who are masquerading as decent chicks on Facebook and LinkedIn just read this post and swallowed their laughter. Like literally, all of Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Ilorin, Warri and Awka are reading this and rolling inwardly with laughter. I'm sure Kano would too but those ones code like mad.

I seriously don't understand how men think they're the logical gender and believe stuff like this. C'mon, fellas...

The Bible is full of manipulative women using sexx and sexx appeal to manipulate men into doing what they want, yet men are still there, 3000 years later, saying and believing: "women can't have casual sexx, it must mean something to them!"

Ogbeni, even your mum cooked a nice pot of egusi soup and nacked your dad because she wanted to pay for aseobi and buy you guys new textbooks one day and her money wasn't complete. She promptly went back to side-eyeing him and hissing in her mind once the deed was done.

He forgot that for women, it is business !

Onegai:
All the runs girls who are masquerading as decent chicks on Facebook and LinkedIn just read this post and swallowed their laughter. Like literally, all of Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Ilorin, Warri and Awka are reading this and rolling inwardly with laughter. I'm sure Kano would too but those ones code like mad.

I seriously don't understand how men think they're the logical gender and believe stuff like this. C'mon, fellas...

The Bible is full of manipulative women using sexx and sexx appeal to manipulate men into doing what they want, yet men are still there, 3000 years later, saying and believing: "women can't have casual sexx, it must mean something to them!"

Ogbeni, even your mum cooked a nice pot of egusi soup and nacked your dad because she wanted to pay for aseobi and buy you guys new textbooks one day and her money wasn't complete. She promptly went back to side-eyeing him and hissing in her mind once the deed was done.

E be like say u get first class degre in manipulative tendencies.

QuinQ:


It is the hunt for that ONE good provider and protector that leads to multiple baby daddies (ask African American women). If they had a CHOICE I bet you 99% of women would prefer one good man as father of all their children than multiple baby daddies.

To a bad woman, no man will be good enough. Na just thrill for them.

Matthew 24:42 Watch therefore, for you do not know what hour your Lord is coming.

Repent of your sins and live a life that pleases God.

What I hate most na make man Dey fall Inlove with olosho..Na why I Dey carry same olosho knack am again make the man eye clear well..

almarthins:


To a bad woman, no man will be good enough. Na just thrill for them.

But most wome are not like that. Just as some women would sell or even kill their own child. But those are outliers

Brandiebird:
✓ Whatever helps you keep an errection sir! ✋

,,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ouchbabe:
✓ My brother times have changed ooo
Sex means nothing to most women now. The way a man cums and think of the next woman to bash that's the same way women climax(do they even climax) and think of the next guy they will sleep with to pay their bill

It isn't the times that have changed women but that many no longer feed on the old lies they were fed to keep them controlled and in place. Why? Because they now see through to the worthlessness of those lies.

Check am, for inside una churches, women still dey believe the old lie say staying with one man is way for them to reach una church heaven? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
It isn't the times that have changed women but that many no longer feed on the old lies they were fed to keep them controlled and in place. Why? Because they now see through to the worthlessness of those lies.

Check am, for inside una churches, women still dey believe the old lie say staying with one man is way for them to reach una church heaven? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I know you are a trouble maker but you see this Sunday morning, I jump your vawulence and
FYI my church women are epitome of virtuous women.