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Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? - Romance (3) - Nairaland 2b6j59

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bigpicture001: 9:48am On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.

Even if a lady meet a guy that is real, she will still dump him.. for another new crop up reason

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bukatyne(f): 9:56am On May 01
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bukatyne(f): 9:58am On May 01
bukatyne:


@bold:

Your definition of serious is the start of the problem.

Some guys have given you signs to greatly help especially now below:


now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
Trustedpronet: 9:58am On May 01
I know many women will fail this simple question.... continue to read comments to see if I'm right or wrong.
Fiscus105(m): 9:59am On May 01
Sonofgod1990:

Tin air not tin here. Olodo


Olodo is the teenager who has nothing to contribute to the topic, instead, turn himself to nuisance in public forum.


I won't be surprised if you are still struggling to your UTME, at that age, grammar intoxicates dudes.


It happened to us several years ago.

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KennethOkonkwo: 10:20am On May 01
Prinss:
One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.
This is new update to knack ladies


Ladies shouldn't fall for this ooo!


You should know from your conversation with him within 6mths.
In his conversations,you will always feature in his future plans!

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jayAjoku(m): 10:22am On May 01
first and foremost accept that any man coming to you want to fork you first before he will continue to see you, you know he is serious when he is consistent with his actions and attitude towards you
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

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almarthins(m): 10:23am On May 01
victorazyvictor:


If his eyes are open, run o grin

cheesy cheesy grin.

Me, I don kiss wey my eyes are closed but I felt like which kind disgusting oyinbo method be this!

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eepeepook: 10:32am On May 01
It’s the same question men ask regarding women and I will always tell them; somebody serious about you will not require a double-check. You will know and it will amaze you why they find you irresistible. It is pretty boring because they throw all their cards on the table. There is no mystery or pointless struggle involved. It’s why women are quick to disregard them for someone more “alluring.” They then later complain why their new choice disappeared after being together for a short period.

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sophy17(m): 10:36am On May 01
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?


Check @ Got2bglued on YouTube. There you’ll find answers. You will also see signs displayed by a woman truly in love with a man.
Goodluck

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FLYFIRE(m): 10:57am On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
Thank you very much, this is beautiful ......

UNFORTUNATELY, after ALL these, 'SEE FINISH' enters & she begins to mark you as too basic, weak & too clingy.

Be nice to them but ... WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.

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piroskey94(m): 11:01am On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
ChatGPT...BUSTED!!!! grin grin cheesy grin grin

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wallaze(m): 11:03am On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.






Ok after doing all this
what will you do for him pls to show him you are also serious about him?
Zocalite: 11:12am On May 01
Westerhoffe:
You can't know, because man's heart is so deep.
So, before accepting that man disturbing you, take it to GOD in inquiry.
GOD alone sees the heart. If GOD confirms him to be the one for you, go for him.

If GOD said he's not, stay away from him.

It is better to marry late than wrong.

That's if both are running a godly affair
Emeka71(m): 11:41am On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
So right.
Chemlite: 11:49am On May 01
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?
Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
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I think the right question should have been

"What should a lady give in return if a man does all these?"
iykololo(m): 11:57am On May 01
Brandiebird:
"If you wanna know if he loves you so...
It's in his kisss!
That's where it is!"

Cher


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZM5qIJdBtX0?si=GAmPEjBk9-VTTHWi

You never jam, to collect kiss still de trip this one.
Brandiebird: 11:59am On May 01
iykololo:


You never jam, to collect kiss still de trip this one.

It's okay if you don't understand it. Maybe ask questions next time. Stop dick measuring all the time.
alklas(m): 12:23pm On May 01
The head game cheesy
iykololo(m): 12:29pm On May 01
Brandiebird:


It's okay if you don't understand it. Maybe ask questions next time. Stop dick measuring all the time.


"All I'm saying is, you might feel like you're floating in love simply because he makes you feel loved when he kisses you. But the truth is, he can do all that and still not care for you as deeply as you think he does.

And as for your 'dick-measuring' comment — Ẹ kú iṣẹ́ ma!"

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Brandiebird: 12:34pm On May 01
iykololo:



"All I'm saying is, you might feel like you're floating in love simply because he makes you feel loved when he kisses you. But the truth is, he can do all that and still not care for you as deeply as you think he does.

And as for your 'dick-measuring' comment — Ẹ kú iṣẹ́ ma!"

It's a quote from a song! If you're free data won't allow you to watch the YouTube video connected to the comment then ask questions! About the other gibberish you typed! Same to you.
iykololo(m): 12:38pm On May 01
Brandiebird:


It's a quote from a song! If you're free data won't allow you to watch the YouTube video connected to the comment then ask questions! About the other gibberish you typed! Same to you.


let's move on.
Greydebz(f): 1:05pm On May 01
almarthins:


You get the one wey dey chase you at the moment ?

I wan know
lol 😂

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Greydebz(f): 1:07pm On May 01
Prinss:
One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.
yeah that’s true
EBEk101(m): 1:23pm On May 01
Prinss:
One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.

I don’t feel comfortable introducing myself to my girlfriend’s parents as her boyfriend, I see it as a disrespect. Her sibling can know me, but I believe I should only formally introduce myself to her parents if I’m engaged to her. I have no problem introducing her to my own parents.

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ROK123(f): 2:22pm On May 01
Put you in all his plans

s and encourages you regarding your future

Worried when you reject or don't ask him of financial assistance

Uses we" not i"..lols

Seeks your opinion before taking decisions

Restless when you're down/sick

Calls often especially before he goes to bed

Fronts and be proud of you always

Do things together like go out, attend event,

Re your special days and celebrate with you

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wizod(m): 3:31pm On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
[b[He can do all these things and still leave[/b]
NNEVERAGAINN: 4:21pm On May 01
now:

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
AI - kolo😂

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Greydebz(f): 5:18pm On May 01
Jeezuzpick:
A guy here.

We're the ones who can really tell you what's what.

Here's my take:

He's really into you when:

1. He doesn't lie to you.

2. He's really interested in what you do.

3. He scolds you when you do something he doesn't like, especially if it's something you know is wrong.

4. He takes interest in the well-being of your family, but is wary of your friends, especially if you have any with questionable traits.

5. If he's more interested in helping you with meaningful things than vanities, i.e. he pays for your Mom's treatment but refuses to buy you an iPhone. The guy who does the opposite is really after your body. Isn't it an irony?

6. He can mess up, but he does show true remorse and you can see he's really trying to change, just for you. No one is perfect, after all.

7. He encourages you to be a better person. He's doing that because he secretly believes he can be the primary beneficiary if that works out.

There's a lot more to say, but I gotta work.

Others can agree or disagree.

It's a free world.
very true .. nice write up
Chinny024(f): 7:18pm On May 01
Nothing concern multipara with this post...
Kobojunkie: 7:30pm On May 01
Greydebz:
➜Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?
Let’s talk! What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUH8PV4PIr8?si=ZZBMONfwC1JhtJYq

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