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Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

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What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

You get the one wey dey chase you at the moment ?

I wan know

"If you wanna know if he loves you so...
It's in his kisss!
That's where it is!"

Cher


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZM5qIJdBtX0?si=GAmPEjBk9-VTTHWi

He will try to impregnate you before marriage

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

How do you see him ...does his word add up...pay attention to little details abt him..if he's genuine on little things...then he should be sincere about you

Besides, are you also genuine?....a woman's action can also determine whether a man should take her serious or not....

My ex...no be genuine person like that and she dey misbehave every two month... weird enough...she's not seeing anything wrong with that attitude...na for there ..I give myself brain

Can't really say cause I've not been taken serious before......no money

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

Mostly the type of discussion you guys are having exposed if he is serious or not.

He will not demand for noods

libertyfather:
Can't really say cause I've not been taken serious before......no money

Na your fellow man wan take u serious abi?Gaybriel i see u.

One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and s your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

Don't open legs for him until, at least, introduction. Any serious guy would do that if he has genuine intention for you.

Prinss:
One sure sign is that he will introduce you to his family voluntarily and let them know you are the one and/or visit your own family without hesitation.

Wen we were growing up, I have a friend then, ALEX, he effortlessly doing that, yet he fuckss and disappears. In fact, I also another guy not too long, TAIWO, even though he is married, yet, he would introduce gfs to his mother, the mother who is educated would accept and pamper the girl as if Taiwo never married, he would sleep with the girl in his Mama's house, after her body tires of him, he disappears to thin here.

The below is here surest way to know.....

Observe if he consistently makes time for you, communicates openly,
Introduces you to his loved ones,
shows genuine interest in your life,
And demonstrates commitment and future planning in the relationship.

If you are serious about yourself, you would know someone who is serious or unserious about you.

You can't know, because man's heart is so deep.
So, before accepting that man disturbing you, take it to GOD in inquiry.
GOD alone sees the heart. If GOD confirms him to be the one for you, go for him.

If GOD said he's not, stay away from him.

It is better to marry late than wrong.

Only money motivate these women

If you no get enough forget it

almarthins:


You get the one wey dey chase you at the moment ?

I wan know

She said WOMEN are you a woman

You can't give what you dont have.

If you are real yourself, you should be able to know real people

To many ladies in this country you are considered serious based on the amount of money you spent on them as compared to your competitors to get her attention will.
To others how good you are in the other room.

are u SERIOUS urself?
1st Q to ASK yasef
can you be SERIOUS without BILLING or enrolling for POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME on the YOUNG MAN?

You can tell Man Seriousness by how much he has in his , self financial worth, etc.
At least that's the benchmark

Women will only take you seriously if you are serious about your life, hussle and serious about your purpose and then you are making money from them. Gifts, time, Valentine, Christmas, going to the best restaurant won't budge a serious lady. Infact, pushes them away.
Even if you have money and you meet a great lady but she eventually sees that you don't have a purpose for the future or a direction for your life and the two of you, she will leave you. Sorry, but that's the hard truth.

By giving them money

Brandiebird:
"If you wanna know if he loves you so...
It's in his kisss!
That's where it is!"

Naahh!!!

OP, coupled with the examples you mentioned like gifts, calls, observe his reaction when you're with another guy..... Especially when he's calm but feels a little uneasy......

Whoever spend the most money is the most serious Man to Nigerian girls.

Being serious to Naija babes, means spending more on her fake life.

Why are only Men answering all the questions here. Question weh she asked women ??

Rabah

When he starts acting like a simp and gives you everything you request for.

This I have seen.

To Nigeria ladies, once you spend, they’ll think you’re serious with them.

Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?

If a man gives you all these he truly loves you but sometimes he might be taken or isn't emotionally or financially prepared to do life with you. Just know that in an ideal world you would have been his spec as wife material. Men don't give their long term affection and attention just anyhow.