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Dr. Akintunde Bowden Shot Dead By Neighbor During Dispute Over Loud Music (51136 Views)

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frankson1(m): 3:56pm On Apr 28
Sapasenator:


You might be right self as I don't see any reason why the dude had to kick at her door. All in all, she could have called the cops instead of ending his life. Life is very cheap in the US.



Ndi "saner clime" won't agree with you on this.

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koning: 4:02pm On Apr 28
Guns are everywhere. Imagine a 27 years old woman. She simply picked up a gun and shot the guy.

It's almost like Americans have forgotten that guns kill. It's not a toy.

USA is in the top 3 of the most dangerous countries in the world. Nothing " Saner Climes" A.

Naija is much more "Saner Clime". Na only hunger be our problem. The average Nigerian has no inclination to kill. Most crimes in Nigeria are economic in nature. Boko boys are excluded.

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steeltrust: 4:03pm On Apr 28
You see these black Americans
They do things without thinking

When you tell them
They say I don’t care what ever happens and when done they cry and beg for forgiveness

Even if you slap me as a black American or white
Na me de tell you sorry cause these people no de think before them do something

Na when them do you finish dem de think
VEHINTOLAR: 4:05pm On Apr 28
chris51:
It is very sad in this our country, US. People use gun anyhow. It's unfortunate the dentist died.
These akata girls are usually frustrated, having 4 children for 4 different 4 men and living on child .
Run away from them.

This is so true!
Beyufind: 4:07pm On Apr 28
I came across a study guys.

People with schizophrenia in Europe/ America hear Angry voices while the onces in Africa hear slow voices..

#health #mental gig #rip Dr bowden
Phabulous4(m): 4:12pm On Apr 28
Please let me write this down! incase I forget.
Phabulous4(m): 4:14pm On Apr 28
Wait to you heard from the guy's side of the story!
sorry, he's been killed.

So, let's just agree with whatever the killer says to justify her killing him.
Exceed15: 4:21pm On Apr 28
MiamiNite:
Chai this fine girl will be in jail because of her anger and impatience

Fine what? She's as ugly as her behavior
Jyne777: 4:30pm On Apr 28
Where you there? She has already killed a man she is probably lying.quote author=franchasng post=135152833]But why attempt breaking her door with a leg kick knowing that most people in America own a gun and are always eager to use it at any slightest provocation? This is really sad, sometimes it pays to be patient. Just like that a great and promising man got wasted in a foreign land, God abeg oh cry[/quote]
fitinwell: 4:35pm On Apr 28
thecommunist(m): 4:44pm On Apr 28
He could have called the police or the residential managers or even bylaw to lay a complain, but he chose to confront in "mad " America!
Starz825(m): 5:14pm On Apr 28
franchasng:
But why attempt breaking her door with a leg kick knowing that most people in America own a gun and are always eager to use it at any slightest provocation? This is really sad, sometimes it pays to be patient. Just like that a great and promising man got wasted in a foreign land, God abeg oh cry

You dey believe the girl... grin
Tommydare(m): 5:14pm On Apr 28
In their so called "saner clime"
nurudeen181(m): 5:15pm On Apr 28
If unknown gun men had killed him, the comments will be Nigeria happened to DR.... Then they'll say if it was in a sane country, the perpetrators would have been caught. In a sane country now, they're saying why did he use his leg to kick her door.. why didn't he call the police. Useless people everywhere
yahoodetector: 5:16pm On Apr 28
I no trust that doctor. He probably kicked the door to gain entry into her house to rape her.
Check his name again. undecided
ZaddyJ: 5:42pm On Apr 28
otipoju:
The land where you really must "mind your own business". Plenty touch people every corner.

Just say " Hi "and keep it moving.
Exactly or don’t even say so . Crazy people everywhere . I was shocked to see a lot of crazy people here
sonnie10: 5:54pm On Apr 28
psalmsjob:


He should have called the police on her instead of confronting her himself to avoid this touching stories. Take life very simple. Someone playing loud music will not play it so forever and you could actually take a walk if you're disturbed by it or do something else rather than tell them to lower it for you by force it could or it does cost people their life as we can see now.

I think he had an over bloated sense of importance and paid with his life... These charges are weightless and she could be out on parole after a few years.

Blaming the victim rather than the perpetuator is not a very kind way to look at the issue. It is against city ordinance to play loud music in most places. Actually, he did what any reasonable good neighbor would do. First ,attempt to address the situation among yourselves before involving a peace officer , if it is not resolved. In a place you live, it would not be nice to create that feeling of animosity by calling the cops on your neighbor on every slightest issue.

The truth of the matter is that most times, just the accent when you talk as an immigrate, irritates some of them, let alone challenging their bad actions. Add also the fact that he is a doctor and most likely lives in a better house and drives a better car which she probably sees as intimidating everyday. These alone is enough to build long resentment, which the doctor would not have been aware of.

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DrFunmisticGlow: 6:26pm On Apr 28
voltron14:


You believe her story?
I don't.

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7lives: 6:29pm On Apr 28
kingthreat:
If it were in Nigeria, they will say "Nigeria happened to him". Now it happened in America, what do we say now?

P/s: May his soul rest in peace.

America happened to him.
damiloladuke: 6:31pm On Apr 28
franchasng:
But why attempt breaking her door with a leg kick knowing that most people in America own a gun and are always eager to use it at any slightest provocation? This is really sad, sometimes it pays to be patient. Just like that a great and promising man got wasted in a foreign land, God abeg oh cry

Na woman you dey believe?
soullove1881(m): 6:38pm On Apr 28
franchasng:
But why attempt breaking her door with a leg kick knowing that most people in America own a gun and are always eager to use it at any slightest provocation? This is really sad, sometimes it pays to be patient. Just like that a great and promising man got wasted in a foreign land, God abeg oh cry

A dentist kicking door with his legs? I don't believe bro
sonnie10: 7:04pm On Apr 28
soullove1881:


A dentist kicking door with his legs? I don't believe bro

With the benefit of doubt, even if he did kick the door, something must have prompted it. Kicking the door could be caught on camera (which favors her defense) if there was any, but what could have led to that is less likely to be caught on camera. One thing is that these people can curse, She might have let out one demeaning curse and abusive slur and slammed the door in his face. It would trigger some response, no matter how much well behaved the doctor was. The verbal exchange wont be captured in the video if it is not voice enabled.
naturefellow(m): 7:08pm On Apr 28
MiamiNite:
Chai this fine girl will be in jail because of her anger and impatience
craze no dey show for face. She would not end up as a wife or mother soon, looking at the bright side.

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meemee(m): 7:17pm On Apr 28
I wan japa go America, where you can't knock at your neighbour's door in peace and come out alive.
I die here.

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ghettochild(m): 7:54pm On Apr 28
franchasng:
But why attempt breaking her door with a leg kick knowing that most people in America own a gun and are always eager to use it at any slightest provocation? This is really sad, sometimes it pays to be patient. Just like that a great and promising man got wasted in a foreign land, God abeg oh cry
That's obviously a lie by the defendant.
AbdulCLO: 7:57pm On Apr 28
franchasng:
But why attempt breaking her door with a leg kick knowing that most people in America own a gun and are always eager to use it at any slightest provocation? This is really sad, sometimes it pays to be patient. Just like that a great and promising man got wasted in a foreign land, God abeg oh cry
That was what she said maybe she was lying. Maybe she refused to reduced the sound for him to hit her door again. You might be surprised what her lawyers told her to say in the court
kayswag100(m): 8:02pm On Apr 28
Nnamdipapa:
This is horrible, these black American women are crazy in the head. I can never near any of them.

In my line of work, I attend to them on a daily basis. I can say that over half of them are crazy and have 0% sense of judgement.
femi4: 8:58pm On Apr 28
psalmsjob: 9:05pm On Apr 28
sonnie10:


Blaming the victim rather than the perpetuator is not a very kind way to look at the issue. It is against city ordinance to play loud music in most places. Actually, he did what any reasonable good neighbor would do. First ,attempt to address the situation among yourselves before involving a peace officer , if it is not resolved. In a place you live, it would not be nice to create that feeling of animosity by calling the cops on your neighbor on every slightest issue.

The truth of the matter is that most times, just the accent when you talk as an immigrate, irritates some of them, let alone challenging their bad actions. Add also the fact that he is a doctor and most likely lives in a better house and drives a better car which she probably sees as intimidating everyday. These alone is enough to build long resentment, which the doctor would not have been aware of.

I'm actually learning from the victim and telling others to learn too.

Furthermore, calling the police on your neighbor over loud music in an apartment building that's already against the law is not a bad thing because it can save your life as we have seen in this case it's better for neighbor to see me as a bad person than for me to put myself in the line of being killed by them especially when the police are most likely not going to tell her who called them among all the co-tenants since my intention is to make the loud music stop.

Yet again if not that he feels he's superior to her despite him being just an immigrant he wouldn't think he should take up the role of enforcing a law of the land upon her whether by advice or kicking her door. Would he a successful dentist tolerate such behavior from her, a nobody that you assumed she is if the roles were reversed?

I just know that minding your business jejely is one sure way to avoid trouble. If he had called the police just like every Karen that he is trying to be does to report something they don't like in another person to the police he would have still been alive.

Mind you this same person who shot him can also shoot him to make him stop playing loud music if the roles were reversed again. But when you are an immigrant do small small iwá pèlè will preserve your life.

I'm somewhat angry at the 'victim' because he made himself a victim ... He died wrongfully.

Truth often seems like it lacks empathy but I think empathy is part of being honest and truthful.

They are both victims of the circumstances and I feel for them both if you think I don't but the lesson must be learnt if it shouldn't repeat itself again.
psalmsjob: 9:22pm On Apr 28
frankson1:




Ndi "saner clime" won't agree with you on this.

I see se dem don almost crucify you finish in the comments grin sane clime indeed do anyhow see anyhow.... If police sef no take time dem go collect nuts for their yansh for banging on her door grin patapata na 18 months with probation so she could be out in 6 months after all her life na like prison for most of them rent and bills are making her life like being in prison already it's either be in prison or be homeless on the streets or sleeping in her car to survive the period and if shooting this motherfucker in self defense is what it will take to get her into prison then Bleep it that's she's done it already be that grin

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