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Toymax88:
Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family , even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

Reasons why i don't rushing to have too many children....

If u just marry.... 1 child is enough space between them like 4yrs at least before shooting next shot.. Not 3 - 4 children Every year in the name of whatever...!

Now if u had a Child with your so called destructive woman.... This would be very easy for you to crack....

But u knew she was destructive and yet you impregnated her 3 times....

Now you have successfully destroyed the future of this children....

Your problem is similar to mine. But me I be weyrey

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

Having children sell ogogoro is not a good idea at all. All sorts of crazy people and never-do-wells will visit such a place. It's not a good influence at all. That's probably why the wife turned out to be destructive.

Create time , go and see her people for paying of bride prize then you go and meet the ministery. You should have take care of the children at initial stage... that's the

deltateam:


Yet he had a car that he sold which the ogogoro raised wife squandered.

#Just assuming the writeup is true.

That man doesn't have money. Simple!

illicit:
Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

The problem here is the kids are not in school

Stop whining! Go and take the children if indeed they are yours!

Bahamas95:
Jobless/destructive and you still allowed her have 3children for you.......Are you ok at all?

This one I might understand. Please don't judge harshly. In my case, some women are very very hard to resist. You need to experience it to understand. 10/10 in that department
.

EbereGod:


Wrong use of punctuation marks. Didn't know where the sentence actually ended and where there's a pause.Lol.

Managed to read through.

It's difficult to win cases like these.
5kg rice for 3 kids
God Abeg o

Three kids no bride price? Irresponsible lifestyle.

Is 50kg bag of rice not enough for 3 kids?
Edited-- 5 kg r of rice ain't enough for 3 kids .

Toymax88:
Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family , even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

You didnt pay her bride price and you are calling her your wife?

Bahamas95:
Jobless/destructive and you still allowed her have 3children for you.......Are you ok at all?

Seems you don't understand how marriages work, the man would have tried effortlessly, all possible means to bring the woman to the right path which eventually did not work. During these periods, the man would not have need to abandon his conjugal responsibilities.

You sef no be like better person

How do you know they're your kids?

Toymax88:



U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

Business relation manager. Rather

Firebox123:

You too self no try, look at what you mention. You sent 5kg of rice for 3 kids to do what? #30k for 3 Kids in public schools with 50pcs of exercise book. When you know she's not working. What are the other methods have you carried out on her before everything becomes clumsy?

Yoruba ogogoro


Lazy men

Cmanforall:
Ok
Marriage these days is different from what it was in ge past.

Who/ what takes the blame?

Nigerians collect 10k during elections and voting in exchange for thier marriage and peace. SMH!!!!!!
You people haven't seen anything yet just wait for second tenure!

Do you know how many marriages have gone to the pits as a result of the new realities of naira crash and the government policies. Do you know how many people have sold thier cars to feed? Nothing kills marriage faster than Poverty. He said his wife is not even working, and everyone is surprised what crashed the union?

If I wasn't a victim I wouldn't understand

Toymax88:



U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

You didn't think of that before sending the children packing with your wife.

Mumu man, you waited till she dropped 3 kids and you came here to tell us you wanted to be sending money for public school education. Why can't you take them to the public school yourself and them? You can not at least rent a separate apartment for your childrens sake instead of staying with an ogogoro seller Dey watch as your children become touts and ogogoro guzzlers

uvie66:

You should have checked your pocket before bringing three children into this world, because as it is you married a useless wife.
I don't understand, bringing children to come and in the suffering you and your useless wife is going through. I want to marry I want to marry look at the result now. This why I ire women like Ini Edo, Tiwa, et al, these well to do and enlightened women are not too fixated on marriage and are happily living their lives.

I wish I can give your post a million likes and share, you are so on point!

TechBaron:
That man doesn't have money. Simple!

It's easy to say that until you find yourself in similar condition.

It all boils down to marrying a resourceful, loyal and understanding wife.

Honeydenz:


I wish I can give your post a million likes and share, you are so on point!

The people he mentioned are living their lives but did they tell you they're really happy?

At one time Tiwa regretted quitting her marriage.

As for Ini Edo if she was happy being single, she wouldn't have entertained marriage.

So just focus on the topic at hand.

You will only be receiving a backlash on here for this your post cause no one will understand you at all..never, but I do here is where the problem comes from I don't know what happening between you and your wife but you loves your kids so much and she knows it, let me tell you the bitter truth she will keep suffering them to get back at you and she won't release those kids you

Toymax88:
Good evening, ma


Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?


I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family , even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

Ganjafama:
Is 50kg bag of rice not enough for 3 kids?

He wrote 5kg not 50kg.

Honeydenz:


Nigerians collect 10k during elections and voting in exchange for thier marriage and peace. SMH!!!!!!
You people haven't seen anything yet just wait for second tenure!

Do you know how many marriages have gone to the pits as a result of the new realities of naira crash and the government policies. Do you know how many people have sold thier cars to feed? Nothing kills marriage faster than Poverty. He said his wife is not even working, and everyone is surprised what crashed the union?

If I wasn't a victim I wouldn't understand

This is a realistic contribution. Many people make contributions based on emotions and a full stomach.

If all the people here were denied food for one day, you'll see reality and sensible inputs.

Have we noticed how the police do everything but solve any issues these days? When last has anyone taken a case to the police and actually got a solution. Even my sister that is one whatever issue i tell her she be giving civilian advice. Smh

edunaragold:
this man why are u worried relax joor find another wife it's never too late , another wife will bring blessings,if them grow and understand better they will find u

grow up to become touts and street urchin because of no good education and care.

Their education should be his priority and not marrying another wife

Sharpsharp00123:
I don't know where u from ooo but in yoruba land, someone selling ogogoro or from that family is a red flag.

They always lack discipline, manners n they are lose coupled with that area

I know d op fears cos in no time those children will start misbehaving

His mother-in-law did not just start selling ogogoro, OP knew all this before he married the woman

CivilEngineer90:
Have we noticed how the police do everything but solve any issues these days? When last has anyone taken a case to the police and actually got a solution. Even my sister that is one whatever issue i tell her she be giving civilian advice. Smh

It is not the mandate of the police to resolve domestic family issues

I noticed from most marriage break up stories that children are often the complicated factor. How people get married to, make many babies with and stay with people who they don't love and can't tolerate is beyond believe.....like just how? Kai

Toymax88:



U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

sales rep...
Very sorry for your plight and the challenge you encountered to ensure your Children got enrolled in school..
I will want you to personally take up the enrollment of your children to a school close to where they live that you can afford.
And checkup on their feeding and ensure you get value for any upkeep funds you send if you don't want ur children to suffer from what they know nothing about