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Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) (28247 Views)

Toymax88: 7:58pm On Apr 24

Good evening, ma

Is it possible to file for divorce through Ministry of Women affairs and social inclusions?

I have been manipulated by my "wife", in quote because I didn't pay her bride price, I did an introduction and they collected an EMPIRE BASKET full of fruits

We had 3 children together but my wife is JOBLESS and DESTRUCTIVE at the same time (double tragedy) I had set up a business for her on 3 different occasions but failed, I even sold my car and gave her the money without taking a dime.

We had a misunderstanding on 26/11/2024 and she went to bring civil defense officers to my place of work, on 27th/11/2024 I sent her packing.

They are currently at BARIKA, UI second gate, Ibadan, living with the grandmother. I told her to enrol the children in public schools in IBADAN, I gave her #30,200 in addition to 50 exercise books, school bag, 5kg rice, SALLAH clothe, school sandals. The items were sent through a commercial driver but she lied. I went to IBADAN on 18/4/2025 only to discovered that the children are not in school, they are helping the grandmother to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

I knelt down and begged the grandmother several times, I left IBADAN around 7:20pm and arrived ILORIN around 11:37pm due to heavy downpour. The grandmother is not responding to calls from my family , even as I speak

I went to SANGO police station but I was told to go to the ministry of women affairs and social inclusions.

A date has been fixed 5/5/2025. I want the children to be enrolled in public schools and I will be sending the necessary writing materials and school fees through the School principal and class teachers

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Firebox123(m): 8:08pm On Apr 24

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illicit(m): 8:19pm On Apr 24

Do you have a problem with people who sell ogogoro, that's what the woman who raised your wife sells, and now she is raising your kids...

Why are you worried?

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adecz: 8:33pm On Apr 24

Your children don become 'area'.....

The background of a spouse is very key in
any relationship... 🤔

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Toymax88: 8:42pm On Apr 24

My children are not in school, they are helping her to sell OGOGORO in her shop.

They are not enrolled in schools

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Toymax88: 8:43pm On Apr 24

U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

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Bahamas95(m): 7:16am On Apr 25

Jobless/destructive and you still allowed her have 3children for you.......Are you ok at all?

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Bruno3000(m): 8:44am On Apr 25

You ignored the Red flags. That's why you are in this mess. I just pity the innocent kids, may God be with them.

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Adextomzy1: 8:47am On Apr 25

They're not In school. Didn't you read that part?

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SeeWahala: 8:58am On Apr 25

So the kids shouldn't go to school again because their grandmother sells agbo-jeddi abi? cry

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OboOlora(f): 10:23am On Apr 25

Werey say sales rep on top agbo, sales rep kor Marketing Executive ni lol

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Cmanforall: 10:38am On Apr 25

Ok
Marriage these days is different from what it was in ge past.

Who/ what takes the blame?

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AllBlack: 10:39am On Apr 25

Divorce

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Fiscus105(m): 10:39am On Apr 25

But it would have better if you go to family court straight. Many people don't know family court is existing. In family court, they would compel her to do the needful and if she fails, she might go to jail.

NB. Ministry of women affairs doesn't have power to compel her, they can only advice and if she fails, they will now ask you to charge her to family court.

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KillahPriest: 10:40am On Apr 25

what about the school he paid for ? Make una dey try reason sometimes na

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TechBaron: 10:41am On Apr 25

Empire basket full of fruits... You haven't seen the typical Akwa Ibom marriage list yet..

Anyway, Chairman, You need to work on your finances.

If you had a solid means of catering for yourself and those kids, you would have ordered for them to be brought over to stay with you.

You can't send your children to Afghanistan to live with Talibans, and expect them not to learn how to make bombs.

You weren't married to the lady in the first place, so why seek divorce?

And meanwhile.. Stop this habit of calling women names after years of bliss. She wasn't DESTRUCTIVE when she was birthing children for you.

Learn to accept your mistakes and take responsibility!

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Menclothing1: 10:41am On Apr 25

Alch sales red flag

Go and bring your children to ur house

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EbereGod: 10:41am On Apr 25

Wrong use of punctuation marks. Didn't know where the sentence actually ended and where there's a pause.Lol.

Managed to read through.

It's difficult to win cases like these.
5kg rice for 3 kids

God Abeg o

Three kids no bride price? Irresponsible lifestyle.

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Cmanforall: 10:42am On Apr 25

Kids selling ogogoro will soon start taking it

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PLATO1U(m): 10:42am On Apr 25

Go to Agidigbo FM and narrate your ordeal with Oriyomi Hamzat, that man is good at things like this.

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edunaragold(f): 10:42am On Apr 25

this man why are u worried relax joor find another wife it's never too late , another wife will bring blessings,if them grow and understand better they will find u

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GanagiBitrus: 10:43am On Apr 25

It's a very unpleasant situation.
You may have to concede on certain things especially for the sake of the kids.

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luvme0702: 10:43am On Apr 25

Where you beating her, cheating on her? What did you do to her that made her bring civil defense corps to you? Sending 30k to her to use for 3 kids in this present economy would be difficult for her to manage. She has 3 kids for you and you're yet to marry her, that shows you are irresponsible. No matter how small the wedding would be, you should have just formalized it. Go and beg her for forgiveness and do the right thing.

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Sharpsharp00123: 10:43am On Apr 25

I don't know where u from ooo but in yoruba land, someone selling ogogoro or from that family is a red flag.

They always lack discipline, manners n they are lose coupled with that area

I know d op fears cos in no time those children will start misbehaving

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osuofia2(m): 10:43am On Apr 25

It's not too late for you, don't be blackmailed by those who will come here and blame you. You have tried your best. If she is not comfortable, let her stay in her mama house. The only challenge now is she refusing to send your kids to school. Go to the social welfare of the ministry of women affairs as advised by th police

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Toosure70: 10:43am On Apr 25

Get your children back before you raise another terrorists for us again biko

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tuhits(m): 10:43am On Apr 25

sorry pls. Are you normal??

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iampeterben(m): 10:43am On Apr 25

Your signature says it all. I guess you are a drunkard.

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