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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for what feels like an eternity. We eloped against our parents' wishes, and I thought our love would conquer all. But the truth is, he's been treating me poorly for far too long.

When he has money, he does not comes home, but it's not to spend quality time with me or our child. No, he just sleeps, leaving me to deal with the weight of our responsibilities alone. I'm exhausted, both physically and emotionally. His gambling, womanizing & fraud addiction lead us to the state we currently are. We hardly feed, meeting up bills is a problem and most of all, the child schooling is none of bjos business

I loved him with all my heart, which is why I had a child for him. But now, I'm at my breaking point. I feel like I'm shouldering all the burdens of our relationship, and he's not even trying to meet me halfway.

Our parents were right; they warned me about him, but I didn't listen. Now, I'm paying the price. I have no one to turn to, no one to confide in. I'm trapped in this toxic relationship, and I don't know how much longer I can hold on.

I'm thinking 🤔 of suicide 09038668785

[quote author=IyaTola post=134873004][/quote]

Just remove shame and go back to your parents and apologise to them to accept you back

Later you leave the child with them and find your bearing

The earlier you do that the best for you

A time will come you may take your life and what will be the fate of your child.

We all make mistakes but the ability to stand up and start again is the main thing not the mistakes we made in our life

You can still meet up so far you are willing to change

Tales by moonlight.

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for what feels like an eternity. We eloped against our parents' wishes, and I thought our love would conquer all. But the truth is, he's been treating me poorly for far too long.

When he has money, he does not comes home, but it's not to spend quality time with me or our child. No, he just sleeps, leaving me to deal with the weight of our responsibilities alone. I'm exhausted, both physically and emotionally. His gambling, womanizing & fraud addiction lead us to the state we currently are. We hardly feed, meeting up bills is a problem and most of all, the child schooling is none of bjos business

I loved him with all my heart, which is why I had a child for him. But now, I'm at my breaking point. I feel like I'm shouldering all the burdens of our relationship, and he's not even trying to meet me halfway.

Our parents were right; they warned me about him, but I didn't listen. Now, I'm paying the price. I have no one to turn to, no one to confide in. I'm trapped in this toxic relationship, and I don't know how much longer I can hold on.

I'm thinking 🤔 of suicide 09038668785

Is this really true? Because the 'IyaTola' we all know here is quite popular and she’s always been a strong voice against men who mistreat their wives or do wrong. It’s hard to believe… it just doesn’t feel right. This isn’t the kind of thing we ever imagined hearing about her.

Thebreastsucker must hear this...

If you commit suicide We go carry ur body go police station you die wrongfully

Ibkay32:
Is this really true? Because the 'IyaTola' we all know here is quite popular and she’s always been a strong voice against men who mistreat their wives or do wrong. It’s hard to believe… it just doesn’t feel right. This isn’t the kind of thing we ever imagined hearing about her.

The person behind that Iya Tola moniker only just posted another person's story

illicit:
Thebreastsucker must hear this...

The stupid lady just wants to waste a pair of boobies

I'm really sorry you're feeling like this, It's really important to talk to someone who can offer help, like a close friend, a family member, or a professional. You don't have to go through this alone, and there are people who care and want to help you through tough times. Please reach out to someone you trust.

When you decide to eventually kill yourself, send me your bank credentials, ok?

Nothing to say.

Goodadvice01 spotted reading the post. Let's wait his comment.

Antwan99:
Nothing to say.

Goodadvice01 spotted reading the post. Let's wait his comment.

I don't have much to say.

Op, we're all going through a lot but don't kell yourself. Everything will be fine in the end — it will only take some time.

I hope you find peace.

frozen70:


Just remove shame and go back to your parents and apologise to them to accept you back

Later you leave the child with them and find your bearing

The earlier you do that the best for you

At time will come you may take your life, what will be thr fate of your child.

We all make mistakes but thr ability to stand up and start again is the main thing not the mistakes we made in our life

You can still meat up so far you are will to change

@ IyaTola with due respect to you, if only you're not making this post to chase clout and seek for public sympathy probably to get funds from men (I said this because you choose to drop your phone number in a public domain).

Take the advice of this person. Firstly, you have to understand that it's due to your stubbornness that led you to this. You're not alone, many ladies are facing this because most girls in their prime will always prefer a wayward man i.e a man who puts flexing and woman first in his life before himself, a man who prioritise spending lavishly to impress a woman and invest little or nothing in his life.

From your post, he's a Yahoo boy so I understand his kind of lifestyle. Young ladies make the mistake of think they can use pregnancy to pin down wayward men like Yahoo boys, NO, you can't pin a baller down. Once he's tired of you, he shift to another girl and continue his wayward and irresponsible lifestyle.

The fastest way to heal is to accept that you made a mistake to settle with him, go back to your parent and you'll be happy

This yahoo boy has started again! Why is your number attached to this made up story?

Brandiebird:
This yahoo boy has started again! Why is your number attached to this made up story?

Oh, this is not his/her first similar post? Nigerians will always amaze people

ediko5:


Oh, this is not his/her first similar post? Nigerians will always amaze people

And he has so many monikers. This one is usually for copying other people's stories but what is surprising is the phone number when we know that this is another fake story for engagement purposes. What's he doing when people call? It's has to be to scam simps.

Format ooo.

Brandiebird:


And he has so many monikers. This one is usually for copying other people's stories but what is surprising is the phone number when we know that this is another fake story for engagement purposes. What's he doing when people call? It's has to be to scam simps.

I sense this immediately I read the post that's why I told her if only she/he is telling the truth because I know some simps are definitely is he/she DM and phone donating funds for supposed kpekos or relationship

Something tells me it's just a write up

Exceed15:
Something tells me it's just a write up

it's not.

tivhador:
When you decide to eventually kill yourself, send me your bank credentials, ok?

It's a noble thing to acknowledge our mistakes. Hence I won't Jugde because I have done so many mistake in taking life decisions. The funny part is that I ignored your advice of not quitting a job until one have another job at hand.
Yea, humans are strongheaded and make silly moves without thoughtfulness
Let me tell you now, You will live and see that that innocent child doesn't regret coming into this world.
Anything fraud irritates me. So I don't have anything to say about your bf

IyaTola:
it's not.

topic was created 6th April, this is the the 11th. are you still going to do it or you just playing with us?
Can you do it on live streaming?

AllBlack:


topic was created 6th April, this is the the 11th. are you still going to do it or you just playing with us?
Can you do it on live streaming?

NosyParrot:


The person behind that Iya Tola moniker only just posted another person's story

Okay

Brandiebird:


And he has so many monikers. This one is usually for copying other people's stories but what is surprising is the phone number when we know that this is another fake story for engagement purposes. What's he doing when people call? It's has to be to scam simps.

Ehn

Brandiebird:


And he has so many monikers. This one is usually for copying other people's stories but what is surprising is the phone number when we know that this is another fake story for engagement purposes. What's he doing when people call? It's has to be to scam simps.

🤣🤣🤣

[quote author=IyaTola post=134873004][/quote]are u still thinking about suicide, or you’re done thinking about it? Everything now is money and how the man didn’t fulfil his obligations as a man.. u fit elope back to your parents house jare make Una let us rest.

[quote author=IyaTola post=134873004][/quote]


Start by repenting and seeking for salvation through CHRIST JESUS first. You have no business with pre-marital sex, let alone having a child and leaving with a man who is not your husband. You have no business with anything and everything married couples do when you are never legally married.

elmagnifico411:
are u still thinking about suicide, or you’re done thinking about it? Everything now is money and how the man didn’t fulfil his obligations as a man.. u fit elope back to your parents house jare make Una let us rest.

Elusive001:



Start by repenting and seeking for salvation through CHRIST JESUS first. You have no business with pre-marital sex, let alone having a child and leaving with a man who is not your husband. You have no business with anything and everything married couples do when you are never legally married.