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Dpsychologist: 11:19am On Apr 20

Let’s talk about something every man (and even many women) can relate to—but few truly understand.

There’s a reason why, after orgasm, especially during casual or risky sex, you suddenly feel a wave of clarity, guilt, or even regret. That feeling isn't just emotional—it's biological.

What just happened?

When you're turned on, your body floods with dopamine—the same pleasure chemical you get from cocaine, gambling, or winning a jackpot. Your brain becomes singularly focused on one goal: release. Rational thinking takes a back seat. You ignore red flags. You override morals. You chase pleasure like it’s your last mission on Earth.

But as soon as you cum, your dopamine levels crash, and a hormone called prolactin spikes. Prolactin is associated with sexual satisfaction—but also kills sexual desire. Suddenly, the fog lifts. And now…

📌That person doesn’t look as attractive as they did 10 minutes ago.

📌You start thinking about consequences—pregnancy, STDs, emotional attachment.

📌You begin to feel shame, disgust, regret or confusion.

You ask yourself: “What was I thinking?”

Congratulations. You’ve come to your senses. Literally.

This isn’t spiritual hype—it’s backed by neuroscience. The post-nut clarity is real. And it can be powerful.

But here’s the deeper question:

Why do we need to “nut” to see clearly? Why not pause and think before the act?

That’s where emotional intelligence, discipline, and long-term thinking come in.

Many lives, relationships, and reputations have been destroyed by a few minutes of unfiltered pleasure. People cheat, betray, and even ruin their futures over something they don’t even want once they “come.”

Next time you’re in that heat-of-the-moment tension… pause.

Ask yourself: Is it worth it?
If you’re unsure, wait. Because if you wouldn’t feel good about it after, you probably shouldn’t do it before.

As can be seen from the image. The guy was regretting after wasting his money on what he thought was worth it but as soon as he cum, he came to his senses.

Moral of the story: Don’t let your dick decide what your brain will regret.

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T0BY(m): 11:33am On Apr 20
No be lie sha. When you cum, that moment.. you will realize that there's more to life.

that white fluid wey dey in our testes when accumulated, dey very powerful. If you're not careful.. e go control you and toss you to and fro.

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floss(m): 11:50am On Apr 20
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin

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Xannadu: 12:19pm On Apr 20
That's why every major decision concerning that babe should be postponed until after you come.

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RealityKings1: 12:22pm On Apr 20
Let me cum first 😋

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Letmecum: 6:22pm On Apr 20
Try masturbate before you ask her to come. Check the difference if she worth am. The day you leave sex for like 3 years no women just your grind and masturbate you go see reasons why you're broke all this years women are big distraction for broke men. undecided

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Ringstonermasks: 7:10pm On Apr 20
Lil Wayne rap, "as soon as i cum, i come to my sentences..."

give credit to the original owner of the saying



Dpsychologist:

Let’s talk about something every man (and even many women) can relate to—but few truly understand.

There’s a reason why, after orgasm, especially during casual or risky sex, you suddenly feel a wave of clarity, guilt, or even regret. That feeling isn't just emotional—it's biological.

What just happened?

When you're turned on, your body floods with dopamine—the same pleasure chemical you get from cocaine, gambling, or winning a jackpot. Your brain becomes singularly focused on one goal: release. Rational thinking takes a back seat. You ignore red flags. You override morals. You chase pleasure like it’s your last mission on Earth.

But as soon as you cum, your dopamine levels crash, and a hormone called prolactin spikes. Prolactin is associated with sexual satisfaction—but also kills sexual desire. Suddenly, the fog lifts. And now…

📌That person doesn’t look as attractive as they did 10 minutes ago.

📌You start thinking about consequences—pregnancy, STDs, emotional attachment.

📌You begin to feel shame, disgust, regret or confusion.

You ask yourself: “What was I thinking?”

Congratulations. You’ve come to your senses. Literally.

This isn’t spiritual hype—it’s backed by neuroscience. The post-nut clarity is real. And it can be powerful.

But here’s the deeper question:

Why do we need to “nut” to see clearly? Why not pause and think before the act?

That’s where emotional intelligence, discipline, and long-term thinking come in.

Many lives, relationships, and reputations have been destroyed by a few minutes of unfiltered pleasure. People cheat, betray, and even ruin their futures over something they don’t even want once they “come.”

Next time you’re in that heat-of-the-moment tension… pause.

Ask yourself: Is it worth it?
If you’re unsure, wait. Because if you wouldn’t feel good about it after, you probably shouldn’t do it before.

As can be seen from the image. The guy was regretting after wasting his money on what he thought was worth it but as soon as he cum, he came to his senses.

Moral of the story: Don’t let your dick decide what your brain will regret.



Cc
Nlfpmod seun

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Jman06(m): 7:40pm On Apr 20
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
You missed the point!

The point is about how intense sexual fantasies or desire (aka konji) can drive a guy into taking irrational decisions with regards to sex and then the regret that follows post-nut clarity.

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UncleKoboko: 10:02pm On Apr 20
There's absolutely nothing special in sex with a particular kind of girl...

THE ONLY SPECIAL KIND OF SEX IS THE SEX WITH A VIRGIN.
AND YOU BEING THE ONLY PERSON IF IT CONTINUES...
THE FEELING OF BEING THE FIRST...
EVERY OTHER ONE NA SAME AND RUBBISH.

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lordm(m): 10:04pm On Apr 20
Sex is overrated

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space9880: 10:04pm On Apr 20
Sex is not a big deal even animals have sex.

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TimFisher2: 10:05pm On Apr 20
grin





Op, that was then, when I was in my teenage days,

These days I go with my full eyes wide open...no regret because that's what I want.


Why go for someone you are not attracted to? That's your first mistake.

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Talkisneeded(m): 10:05pm On Apr 20
Jman06:
You missed the point!

The point is about how intense sexual fantasies or desire (aka konji) can drive a guy into taking irrational decisions with regards to sex and then the regret that follows post-nut clarity.

Not every sex you regret, not even

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hopedey: 10:06pm On Apr 20
Yes boss
DuBLINGreenb(m): 10:07pm On Apr 20
In 2025 people still earn 30k

How will such a person get married, pay medical bills, send his kids to school, buy food for himself and the kids and buy a car and a house?
How?

So who are the people those $2,000,000,000 houses and lands in Lagos, Abuja and everywhere else in Nigeria are for?

Who are the target audience of those car sales men, the designer losree estates and clothes who are they for?

Soon reality will set in when nobody even prices thise houses, lands, cars etc for 12 years straight not even on potential customer asks of price you either close shop or reduce price.

Ordinarily cost of land per plot in Nigeria should not be more than 300,000 naira to 850,000 naira depending on the location going by the salaries and incomes of the average Nigerian


This 30,000 brother should be able to save half his salary 15,000 for 20 months to afford one plot of land in a rural area of his choice so at least he can engage in small scale farming to feed himself and maybe put up one small structure for himself.

But instead we are pricing houses and lands in multi millions, billions and even trillions, I blame the land speculators and “agents” who are also poor hungry people calculating 10% of billions and trillions praying and hoping they will get that from the sale of a property or land that isn’t even worth that amount.

Meanwhile O.P come, stand here, kneel down, raise up your hands and close your eyes. Seun get me belt from my wardrobe.

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MaziObinnaokija: 10:07pm On Apr 20
sad
jojothaiv(m): 10:10pm On Apr 20
T0BY:
No be lie sha. When you cum, that moment.. you will realize that there's more to life.

that white fluid wey dey in our testes when accumulated, dey very powerful. If you're not careful.. e go control you and toss you to and fro.

jojothaiv(m): 10:11pm On Apr 20
DuBLINGreenb:
In 2025 people still earn 30k
People earn below 30k.

Realities differs.

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geoworldedu: 10:13pm On Apr 20
Masturbate if you will regret sex with a partner. Simple.

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Jman06(m): 10:13pm On Apr 20
Talkisneeded:


Not every sex you regret, not even
Imagine diving in raw because you got a chance to knack your crush when you don't have any condoms with you, and afte that you realize the risk you just took. The risk of contracting an infection or getting the girl pregnant.

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ledaman: 10:13pm On Apr 20
floss:
When you pay 25k for food at an eatery, do you regret your actions after eating the food ?

If yes then you need to work hard…

In life money is the master of all things…

Poverty brings regret and not being able to assume responsibility for one’s actions. If you have millions of dollars to spare, in fact you’ll be proud of your actions…

About STD and other diseases, the more money you have the more sophisticated your sex life becomes. You can make any lady undergo medical lab tests in your personal space before meeting you especially if you knack raw.


So there’s nothing like regret if you have money…. Poverty breeds regrets.

Leave English and work Hard and Smart grin
Chairman it's not about poverty, it is about the results at the end .
Some people spends millions on a ladies yet they still regretted their actions because she doesn't worth it.
It is about conscience not the financial aspects.

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jimmyolasun: 10:15pm On Apr 20
Naa before o oga
akwesenana: 10:16pm On Apr 20
Why is everyone being banned unnecessarily?

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ledaman: 10:17pm On Apr 20
The best sexual intercourse you will enjoy and get rewarded is with your spouse .
Even Almighty would be pleased with both of you.

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inoki247: 10:17pm On Apr 20
Lol make Una rest even when an ordinary animal cum he will come to his senses...


What's the essence of cummin if not to cum to ur senses....


Sometimes things might look rosy and like gold in ur face buh u AV to check it out to know if all that glitter is not gold if Dem still dey tell u.. u won't believe...

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atiku4President(m): 10:18pm On Apr 20
Then we should blame dopamine, not anybody.

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TribalChair: 10:18pm On Apr 20
Leave me oooooooo, later I go realize, for now make I first release

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