NewStats: 3,263,649 , 8,180,900 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 03:57 AM 4r654s

Bellotelli:

Maybe he is expressing sarcasm

Or he simply copied from the many pastors and men who used the same nonsense back in the days. During the 70s/80s, many men used this same excuse when looking for an out of a meaningful relationship so they could pursue their wanton desires. I recall a pastor back during those years used this same excuse while supposedly apologizing to the church for his infidelity. After that, the entire family moved away from the church and the area. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

NothingDoMe:
Lol. I understand. Perfect women nor dey do doggy.

I completely understand.

Kobojunkie:
He even seems to have abandoned the children to the wife, saying they are in safe hands. Won't be surprised to read the man is already planning to marry another and expecting a child with that one.

For someone who's expecting healing?

erniok:
✓ For someone who's expecting healing?

Healing from wandering dick syndrome abi wetin? He did it to what seems to be cheating on his confession.

Go back to your wife. What God has ed together, let no man put asunder

ArcSEMPECJ:


He was speaking in parables, only the wife will understand him if she has remorseful heart...

Which mumu parable?

Mtchewww

He is a stupid man and his repentance is in serious doubt. because u are imperfect and boke ur marital vows u breakup ur home, then talk about repenting and going back to God which is fine but which love again are u talking will find u when u have a family somewhere u this useless man?

luminouz:

Which mumu parable?

Mtchewww

You won't understand,....read the lines well , he wasn't saying his wife is perfect, because no one can be perfect except one who claims to be perfect and you know what that means...

See how twisted this guy that call himself a pastor is

tobore4u:
Is this your own way of translation?....

Na wa oo

Read the lines ....

Have you ever seen a perfect human being before?

How can a man stand to say his wife is so perfect that he can't flow with her.......

Are you married....

This guy fit be Gaybriel

What those he mean by his wife was too perfect for him? I really wish someone could help me simplify his statement! But hw do you even please human beings!

Is he still a pastor? ... what kind man will abandon his young wife and three children? juju in full effect.

The guy must have suffered in the hands of this woman who always pretends to be victim. But out of humility this guy accepted the fall and left her to her conscience. I am very sure she will regret if not already regretting. May God help you sir.

This is how you know mongrels on Nairaland have zero life experience. I understand him because I’ve faced the same. Everybody wants a perfect existence. We are quick to forget that perfect becomes boring after a while. Nature did not make mistakes by making war, famine, natural disasters and the likes commonplace. Heaven is a pipe dream. If it exists, humans would’ve long made it a ghetto. Hell seems more plausible than an idea of heaven. The human mind and body will adapt to the suffering, leading to the creation of variable means of torture to keep things interesting.

I have gotten employed in amazing work environments envied by the masses. After six months of work, dissatisfaction sets in. Humans hate routine — the lifeblood of maintaining standards.

ArcSEMPECJ:


You won't understand,....read the lines well , he wasn't saying his wife is perfect, because no one can be perfect except one who claims to be perfect and you know what that means...

Read between your lines and you even sound confused.

That pastor is out of his mind

meobizy:
This is how you know mongrels on Nairaland have zero life experience. I understand him because I’ve faced the same. Everybody wants a perfect existence. We are quick to forget that perfect becomes boring after a while. Nature did not make mistakes by making war, famine, natural disasters and the likes commonplace. Heaven is a pipe dream. If it exists, humans would’ve long made it a ghetto. Hell seems more plausible than an idea of heaven. The human mind and body will adapt to the suffering, leading to the creation of variable means of torture to keep things interesting.

I have gotten employed in amazing work environments envied by the masses. After six months of work, dissatisfaction sets in. Humans hate routine — the lifeblood of maintaining standards.

Not me. You are the one who is dysfunctional to resent peace, tranquility and a perfect life. I don't find that boring. Only people like you used to the hustle and bustle of Lagos traffic and all that shiit desire life to be topsy-turvy.

Now that I know you are fûcking crazy, I'd avoid your moniker henceforth

Drink cold water as e pain you. Use ice block cool the burned area. No wonder your type quiet for real world debates. ROFLMAO.

luminouz:

Not me. You are the one who is dysfunctional to resent peace, tranquility and a perfect life. I don't find that boring. Only people like you used to the hustle and bustle of Lagos traffic and all that shiit desire life to be topsy-turvy.

Now that I know you are fûcking crazy, I'd avoid your moniker henceforth

the man is no longer qualified to be an apostle / christian clergy but an ordinary member inline with the 1 Timothy 3:2.

....He must be a husband of one wife....

TechBaron:
You're an elite member of this community. I don't expect this type of cmemt from you.

Even if my opinion on the matter doesn't agree with yours, there's no harm in ignoring my post rather than going abusive on a matter that both of us don't have first-hand information on.

what first hand information are you looking for? The man has said the reason why he's divorcing his wife. You on the other side a faceless entity is trying to blame the wife. You made a senseless comment and you'll get insults in return.

Nonsense

Beremx:
what first hand information are you looking for? The man has said the reason why he's divorcing his wife. You on the other side a faceless entity is trying to blame the wife. You made a senseless comment and you'll get insults in return.

Nonsense

You have no single right to insult anyone for whatsoever reason.

Takes nothing to respond in like manner, but I'll just let it slide.

Keep up with the attitude.

You'll meet your Waterloo soon.

TechBaron:
You have no single right to insult anyone for whatsoever reason.

Takes nothing to respond in like manner, but I'll just let it slide.

Keep up with the attitude.

You'll meet your Waterloo soon.

shut up you nitwit. I hope you're enjoying the likes you got from your fellow chauvinistic idiots. Oloriburuku always blaming women for everything

Which kind of writeup is this?

meobizy:
Drink cold water as e pain you. Use ice block cool the burned area. No wonder your type quiet for real world debates. ROFLMAO.

Real world debates?

Is this one mád ni? I can see why peace dey bore you because you came to the world to debate.

Mûmû

Beremx:
shut up you nitwit. I hope you're enjoying the likes you got from your fellow chauvinistic idiots. Oloriburuku always blaming women for everything

Will you just shût it?

He hasn't said anything to trigger you this much.

I detest broken homes. It has a way of affecting the mental, emotional and psychological well being of everyone including the children.

ArcSEMPECJ:


Read the lines ....

Have you ever seen a perfect human being before?

How can a man stand to say his wife is so perfect that he can't flow with her.......

Are you married....

You really hate women, I pity the woman that will marry you 😭😭😭

Women can never win in your space.

The man clearly said his wife is too perfect for him so he's ending the marriage and you're still trying to put it on the woman.

I know a few men that has this same feelings as we speak, because of their promiscuous life style out there, their conscience judge them every day, they lie to their wives that they're going for a conference in another state and the wives prays for them and wish them safe journey, where as they're only going to frolick with their whores, do you think it's easy living a lie.

Grow up man.

Kobojunkie:
He even seems to have abandoned the children to the wife, saying they are in safe hands. Won't be surprised to read the man is already planning to marry another and expecting a child with that one.

What were you expecting before?
The drumbeat must have been there long before now. So sorry for the woman who thought she had found her life partner.

We4all:
Another confused man! If someone is too perfect for you, the right thing to do is to become their cheer leader. Don't walk away!

Na yeye dey worri am. Most likely there is Adultery involved, lighting fire to finish him pata pata