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tasceige(m): 8:54am On Apr 16
helinues:


What exactly is some of you problem?

Why are you not allowing others to express themselves even if you don't have opinion of yours?

Make una stop this uninspiring attitude jare. Una go dey troll others senselessly inside this beautiful life. Stop being an opinion killer

Radarada

You're tenured on Nairaland, means you value integrity. Please I'm sending you a DM. Only want to share a proposal with you. Cheers
rickleye: 12:49pm On Apr 16
Bloodwritter:

You want to give her phone and sperm at the same time? You be bad guy
lol 😂
rickleye: 12:54pm On Apr 16
Acidosis:


Does it matter?

How can someone pay your rent, and you’re only sending them “thanks”, "tnx", "fenx" or "lol" ? Omo, I would report that transaction as a false transaction to my bank, get my money back, and share it with normal human beings.

Someone gave Tony Elumelu a “common” tie, and he posted it on his Instagram for the world to see. That’s genuine gratitude.

Stop normalising ingratitude psychiatric problems.

I agree . You can’t even write the complete phrase. “ Thank you very much …. “ just thanks or T comes across as ungrateful.

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rickleye: 1:04pm On Apr 16
Treasure17:

That's Nigerians for you. Very terrible at paying back what they borrow.

100k
I have a “ fried” who owes me N6.5million when the dollar was N300 to 1$ .
The sad thing was that we have been friends since before teenage years, the thought that he would stab me in the back till today is painful.
Destroyed a long lasting relationship.

It’s always the men. I’ve lent female friends money and they have returned faithfully with no ifs and butts.
What plans do you have to repay something … nothing just Abeg !!
Is that what I’d take to pay back loans 🤦
Samantha125(f): 3:38pm On Apr 16
I don't get it, what does he wants?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
Baldwretch:


O common! What you said isn't even necessary - just walk out on him or spit in his pitiful face. grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
papiilo(m): 3:52pm On Apr 16
placeofallure:


God bless you more. Keep assisting people if you can, you don't need anybody's endorsement to do so.
lol grin look at how this girl begging in style
papiilo(m): 3:54pm On Apr 16
rickleye:


100k
I have a “ fried” who owes me N6.5million when the dollar was N300 to 1$ .
The sad thing was that we have been friends since before teenage years, the thought that he would stab me in the back till today is painful.
Destroyed a long lasting relationship.

It’s always the men. I’ve lent female friends money and they have returned faithfully with no ifs and butts.
What plans do you have to repay something … nothing just Abeg !!
Is that what I’d take to pay back loans 🤦
serious matter
placeofallure(f): 4:38pm On Apr 16
papiilo:
lol grin look at how this girl begging in style

Iwọ àti àwọn generation ẹ lo ma beg online. I reject it in Jesus' name. It will never be my portion.
Baldwretch: 5:41pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
I don't get it, what does he wants?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Funny. grin grin grin grin

Humans struggle from dawn to dusk to get money. All our lives, from cradle to adulthood, we have to struggle and wrestle with vigour to earn enough to get by, to be independent, to afford the basic things of life and here you are talking as if anyone owes anyone anything let alone the ultimate measure of value - which is money.

If you don't respect their persona, at least respect their sacrifices. It cost and takes a lot from them and from anyone else to get money legitimately. Anyone who gives you money without your sweating it out or you breaking your brows deserves more than a thanks or a T or a common compliment.

That is characteristics of...
papiilo(m): 6:10pm On Apr 16
placeofallure:


Iwọ àti àwọn generation ẹ lo ma beg online. I reject it in Jesus' name. It will never be my portion.
amen
Samantha125(f): 6:12pm On Apr 16
I don't get it, what does he deserve then?🤔🤔🤔
Baldwretch:


Funny. grin grin grin grin

Humans struggle from dawn to dusk to get money. All our lives, from cradle to adulthood, we have to struggle and wrestle with vigour to earn enough to get by, to be independent, to afford the basic things of life and here you are talking as if anyone owes anyone anything let alone the ultimate measure of value - which is money.

If you don't respect their persona, at least respect their sacrifices. It cost and takes a lot from them and from anyone else to get money legitimately. Anyone who gives you money without your sweating it out or you breaking your brows deserves more than a thanks or a T or a common compliment.

That is characteristics of...
caesymore(m): 7:07pm On Apr 16
DMCY:
Lent someone 100k since last year February. People around kept telling me not to lend the money to the person but the crying and gnashing of the person’s teeth made me feel they really needed it. Omo! Till now shishi I never see, instead na fight dem deh follow me fight for adugbo.
I don leave and forget even tho I dey pained.


My own na 200k since October something I vowed not to do,Bro said he will pay next weeks it almost six months now I never see Shishi< Seriously I feel so stupid for helping him out, even after I grudgingly told him my plans for the money before giving it to him , I am trying to be mean so as not to lend anyone money again.
Baldwretch: 8:10pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
I don't get it, what does he deserve then?🤔🤔🤔

Oh, okay I see! I see!

You're probably among those who say: "Okay. Mtcheeww, did I ask him to help me? That's his business. What does he deserve? What does he deserve besides a "thank you"?

But let me ask you: Is "thank you" a reward for labour? grin grin grin grin grin grin If I work in your farm from dawn to dusk, would I accept "thank you" as a payment for my efforts? Like, do people get paid with a "thank you"? You can withdraw the money he gives, but can you withdraw "thank you" in the bank and use it to get by? But what has been handed to you with little or no efforts is commensurate with wages earned for actual efforts. grin grin grin grin Just saying thank you and shoving everything under the carpet is a very, very cold, detached, compliment that is very unappreciative of genuine human sacrifices. We have absolutely lost it in this day and age.

Talk, as they say, is cheap.

People need to understand that you genuinely appreciate their efforts beyond the two words (thank you) that come from your lips. That is what they deserve.
Samantha125(f): 8:14pm On Apr 16
So what do you expect her to have done? Prayed for him?
Baldwretch:


Oh, okay I see! I see!

You're probably among those who say: "Okay. Mtcheeww, did I ask him to help me? That's his business. What does he deserve? What does he deserve besides a "thank you."

But let me ask you: Is "thank you" a reward for labour? grin grin grin grin grin grin If i work in your farm from dawn to dusk, would I accept "thank you" as a payment for my efforts? Like, do people get paid with a "thank you"? Can you withdraw "thank you " in the bank and use it to get by? But what has been handed to you with little or no efforts is commensurate with wages earned for actual efforts. grin grin grin grin Just saying thank you and shoving everything under the carpet is a very, very cold, detached, compliment that is very unappreciative of genuine human sacrifices. We have absolutely lost it in this day and age.

Talk, as they say, is cheap.

People need to understand that you genuinely appreciate their efforts beyond the two words (thank you) that come from your lips. That is what they deserve.


Baldwretch: 8:35pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
So what do you expect her to have done? Prayed for him?

I am damn broke.

Please can you assist me with 10k? No jokes.
Samantha125(f): 8:42pm On Apr 16
Okay...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
Baldwretch:


I am damn broke.

Please can you assist me with 10k? No jokes.
Baldwretch: 8:45pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Okay...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Let me send my aza? grin grin grin grin grin grin
Samantha125(f): 8:47pm On Apr 16
Why should I be sending money to a stranger I've never met before on a faceless forum?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
Baldwretch:


Let me send my aza? grin grin grin grin grin grin
Baldwretch: 8:48pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Why should I be sending money to a stranger I've never met before on a faceless forum?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Charity does not need a "why." cheesy cheesy cheesy

Help me, please. I am serious. grin grin grin
Baldwretch: 8:54pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Why should I be sending money to a stranger I've never met before on a faceless forum?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

People kill others for no reason. Why would you need a reason to help someone?

Help me.
Samantha125(f): 9:02pm On Apr 16
Nope, that's not how I operate... I have to know you first.

And you still haven't answered my question, what do you expect the lady to have done?
Baldwretch:


Charity does not need a "why." cheesy cheesy cheesy

Help me, please. I am serious. grin grin grin
placeofallure(f): 9:06pm On Apr 16
papiilo:
send me 5k

As who, as what? You put otomokpo for mouth? Rubbish!
DMCY: 9:08pm On Apr 16
caesymore:



My own na 200k since October something I vowed not to do,Bro said he will pay next weeks it almost six months now I never see Shishi< Seriously I feel so stupid for helping him out, even after I grudgingly told him my plans for the money before giving it to him , I am trying to be mean so as not to lend anyone money again.

To err is human, to forgive, divine. But I no dey forget sha😂😂
Baldwretch: 9:13pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
Nope, that's not how I operate... I have to know you first.

And you still haven't answered my question, what do you expect the lady to have done?

When you had to sacrifice or part away with something of value, then, O then, you having a mode of operation. Isn't that funny? grin grin grin grin

If I had told you that my dog is critically ill and needs your prayers, would you parrot this opinion even though you don't know me from Adam and we've never met? No, you wouldn't. Wouldn't you pray for a total stranger? grin grin grin Isn't that a request too? You would probably be like "No P bro! I would pray for your dog." cheesy cheesy cheesy

But because I am asking for a measure of value, something that would cost you much, plenty, then you have a manner you do your stuff.

If you want to know what the lady should have done, send me 10k. I am broke. I would use myself as a prime example to teach you what the lady should have done.

Unfortunately, I would soon go offline. Reply quick.
Samantha125(f): 9:17pm On Apr 16
I don't pray for strangers.

Let's just drop the topic since you're not ready to answer my question... Good night.
Baldwretch:


When you had to sacrifice or part away with something of value, then, O then, you having a mode of operation. Isn't that funny? grin grin grin grin

If I had told you that my dog is critically ill and needs your prayers, would you parrot this opinion even though you don't know me from Adam and we've never met? No, you wouldn't. Wouldn't you pray for a total stranger? grin grin grin Isn't that a request too? You would probably be like "No P bro! I would pray for your dog." cheesy cheesy cheesy

But because I am asking for a measure of value, something that would cost you much, plenty, then you have a manner you do your stuff.

If you want to know what the lady should have done, send me 10k. I am broke. I would use myself as a prime example to teach you what the lady should have done.

Unfortunately, I would soon go offline. Reply quick.

Baldwretch: 9:19pm On Apr 16
Samantha125:
I don't pray for strangers.

Let's just drop the topic since you're not ready to answer my question... Good night.

Bye. Good night. grin grin grin grin
papiilo(m): 10:34pm On Apr 16
placeofallure:


As who, as what? You put otomokpo for mouth? Rubbish!
grin grin
caesymore(m): 10:56pm On Apr 16
DMCY:


To err is human, to forgive, divine. But I no dey forget sha😂😂

It's painful bro. Me sef no dey loan money from person, those days I never dey financially stable na app I dey borrow from and I always pay in time.

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ssmotionconcern: 4:05pm On May 11
A fellow explains his experience after gifting the friend 100grand and then someone else became too concerned with the statement and directly referring to the person as a liar. That's practically too much of a low head. Must you absorb the comment, I believe others saw the post too. And sincerely speaking people spend in a week what others hardly spend in a month.
(All fingers are not equal) would you equally call God a liar?
WhiteIverson: 4:45pm On May 21
femi4:
Is thanks not good enough, what else do they want. I don't even like to be thanked. Just acknowledged that you have received it. The thanks won't bring the money back or multiply what I have left
Boss please assist me with 5,000.
I dey on my knees

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