NewStats: 3,259,429 , 8,170,068 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 11:10 PM g4j20

My dad found out I’m not his biological daughter after 18 years of raising me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBYOeX1gksE
My dad found out I’m not his bio daughter after 18 years of raising me. After the truth came out, he started treating my sister differently and ignoring me. For a year, he only took her to visit his new house, leaving me feeling abandoned. It’s been painful, especially after I learned from his wife that he no longer considers me his child. Now, I’m struggling to deal with the emotional toll it’s taken on me. How do you cope when the person you’ve always called "dad" no longer sees you as family?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBYOeX1gksE

It's disheartening to all involved except for the mother...

No matter how cunning people get, a Fowl can never sire a Crocs!
If rape is a crime, why is there no law against paternity Fraud?!

The man acts immaturely. I would continue my normal relationship with the girl as if training an adopted child until she proves not to be my child.

I will never love the woman again, will not send her packing but get another wife not because I trust women but to have someone to tilt attention towards while I make the children know why.
Simple.

Blame your mama..

I what the man did

The man is not a good person, acting as if it is her fault. She should find a way to leave the house before he starts making sexual advances towards her.

It's not easy for the Man too, he is feeling better for the betrayal. Sowwy to the little princess

Go ask your momma who's your Papa. Simple! Chaiiii

GPT on the beat.

We4all:
The man is not a good person, acting as if it is her fault. She should find a way to leave the house before he starts making sexual advances towards her.

shat ya mouth there.

Dzzzz:
Blame your mama..

The man is an adult. He could have handled it a lot more maturely than he did. As for the poster, best she seek mental health counseling so she can move on from this egregious betrayal and eventual abandonment by those she once saw as her parents.

You still dey call am your Dad

Kobojunkie:
The man is an adult. He could have handled it a lot more maturely than he did. As for the poster, best she seek mental health counseling so she can move on from this egregious betrayal and eventual abandonment by those she once saw as her parents.

…A whole lot of people would have handled it much worse than the man..18yrs of sweat gone down the drain cause a woman couldn’t put her vagina on hold!..

Dzzzz:
…A whole lot of people would have handled it much worse than the man..18yrs of sweat gone down the drain cause a woman couldn’t put her vagina on hold!..

Handled it much worse? How much worse? By literally murdering her as opposed to the psychological murder of rejection he inflicted on her? How many of those lot of people have you ever met before? 🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Handled it much worse? How much worse? By literally murdering her as opposed to the psychological murder of rejection he inflicted on her? How many of those lot of people have you ever met before? 🙄🙄🙄

At least he didn’t chase her out,some would chase her and the mom immediately..

Dzzzz:
✓ At least he didn’t chase her out,some would chase her and the mom immediately..

First of all, aren't you erroneously assuming here that the house belonged to the man? Second, have you ever loved under the same roof with someone who once regarded you only for that person to, suddenly, begin to avoid you like a plague? It is heart wrenching for many especially when what once existed was a parent-child relationship.

Kobojunkie:
First of all, aren't you erroneously assuming here that the house belonged to the man? Second, have you ever loved under the same roof with someone who once regarded you only for that person to, suddenly, begin to avoid you like a plague? It is heart wrenching for many especially when what once existed was a parent-child relationship.

We re both assuming here cause we not eye witnesses.As to the second questions,yes I have..Who are we to to blame for this tragedy?

Dzzzz:
We re both assuming here cause we not eye witnesses.As to the second questions,yes I have..Who are we to to blame for this tragedy?

I made no assumptions here. The story clearly says the man rejected her after so many years of her being his child. Rejection to individuals particular children can be as devastating as murder.

Kobojunkie:
I made no assumptions here. The story clearly says the man rejected her after so many years of her being his child. Rejection to individuals particular children can be as devastating as murder.

…There are two sides to a coin so why listen to only what she is saying?..So far she’s no talking about the mistake her mom did but talk only about the father,from where I sit you and I are assuming..

Dzzzz:
…There are two sides to a coin so why listen to only what she is saying?..So far she’s no talking about the mistake her mom did but talk only about the father,from where I sit you and I are assuming..

So, because there are these two sides to stories, the emotional impact the rejection had on her should be disregarded? Is that your genius way of reasoning with your own kids too?

Kobojunkie:
So, because there are these two sides to stories, the emotional impact the rejection had on her should be disregarded? Is that your genius way of reasoning with your own kids too?

..You looking for someone to accept the the man’s wrong but bro no one really gives a shit..So you mean to tell me the man who father a child for 18yrs is emotionally ok with everything right ?..Are you even thinking of what that man is going through right now?..The girl is lucky to still type this shit under the same roof..Men have committed suicide for this act of wickedness and you tell my about emotional impact on her lol…

Kobojunkie:
So, because there are these two sides to stories, the emotional impact the rejection had on her should be disregarded? Is that your genius way of reasoning with your own kids too?

P.O.C,they ain’t my kids…Do you know how many man have died because of this and you busy talking about the emotional impact on the daughter!?..A friends friend foound out the 3kids are not his and the first is 15yrs of age..That man is dead now so don’t tell me about emotional impact…Till it happens to you then we see how you deal with the emotional impact.”

Dzzzz:
..✓ You looking for someone to accept the the man’s wrong but bro no one really gives a shit..So you mean to tell me the man who father a child for 18yrs is emotionally ok with everything right ?..Are you even thinking of what that man is going through right now?..The girl is lucky to still type this shit under the same roof..Men have committed suicide for this act of wickedness and you tell my about emotional impact on her lol…

Now you have pretty much abandoned the original narrative and given full control to your personal delusions. Learn to keep your private issues and misgivings out of discussions. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

All I have stated is that the girl's statements describing the devastation of the rejection that followed is valid -- her emotions are valid, and not to be thrown aside before of some other side of the story as you claim. 😩😩😩😩😩

Dzzzz:
P.O.C,they ain’t my kids…Do you know how many man have died because of this and you busy talking about the emotional impact on the daughter!?..A friends friend foound out the 3kids are not his and the first is 15yrs of age..That man is dead now so don’t tell me about emotional impact…Till it happens to you then we see how you deal with the emotional impact.”

Again, learn to keep your personal demons and delusions out of the discussion.

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=135011772] Now you have pretty much abandoned the original narrative and given full control to your personal delusions. Learn to keep your private issues and misgivings out of discussions. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

All I have stated is that the girl's statements describing the devastation of the rejection that followed is valid -- her emotions are valid, and not to be thrown aside before of some other side of the story as you claim. 😩😩😩😩😩[/quote..BTW it’s not my issue but a friends story recap..You only fighting for the emotional trauma the girls going through and forget what the father who stood by her for 18yrs would be going through right now..Like i said,she’s lucky she still in that house..

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to keep your personal demons and delusions out of the discussion.

You don’t want to have a discussion rather you want an argument bro..I’ve been consistently telling you,I don’t care what the girl is going through.My concern right now is with her father and not her cause anytime soon she could run to her father..E.O.D..

Dzzzz:
You don’t want to have a discussion rather you want an argument bro..I’ve been consistently telling you, I don’t care what the girl is going through. My concern right now is with her father and not her cause anytime soon she could run to her father..E.O.D..

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Dzzzz:
BTW it’s not my issue but a friends story recap..You only fighting for the emotional trauma the girls going through and forget what the father who stood by her for 18yrs would be going through right now..Like i said,she’s lucky she still in that house..

Again, your personal issues, whether they pertain to your friends or not, have absolutely nothing to do with this story. Go back and read the OP again if you have doubts. The girl made clear that she was rejected by the man she had known as her father for all of her life after he discovered that she was not biologically his. The rejection she experienced is what she narrated in her post. That is what this conversation remains about.

Kobojunkie:
... Again, your personal issues, whether they pertain to your friends or not, have absolutely nothing to do with this story. Go back and read the OP again if you have doubts. The girl made clear that she was rejected by the man she had known as her father for all of her life after he discovered that she was not biologically his. The rejection she experienced is what she narrated in her post. That is what this conversation remains about.

In all of this, who is to be blamed?
The innocent man?
The innocent girl?
The wife?

Ganjafama:
➜In all of this, who is to be blamed? The innocent man? The innocent girl? The wife?

Nonsense question! 🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense question! 🙄🙄🙄

To you it's nonsense because you don't want to see sense in the truth.

Ganjafama:
To you it's nonsense because you don't want to see sense in the truth.

It's nonsense because even after realizing from my previous posts that I was not concerned about such details, you took it on yourself to still ask after that which I already made clear I was not interested in. Respect is necessary when trying to converse with others.