Brandiebird:
Damn! People deal with their pain in different ways but this is so immature! She has put her whole family online. If the police were called now she'd be cooling-off in jail. She really traumatised those poor children! The husband is a sick coward too! Imagine telling his child to lie and pretend to be his niece while his other children call him dad! I'm so shocked by what I just watched! I have anxiety after watching that madness.
Very Sad,I just pity the poor children.
But what will make teh Man go to that extra mile to lie though
Breadwinner or not in abroad men are useless (powerless) even if the man is the breadwinner he can’t do anything. Just one police call ☎️ he will be homeless.
EmmyMaestro:
Some years ago, a similar story came up, a man and woman got married and after some time when belle was delaying the woman told the husband let them go and adopt and the child the ended up adopting belonged to the woman before she got married
It happened in my family and I know another in my area right now 😕
Se how brotherhood has been reduced
to nothing, simply because economic and
social empowerment of women in ogbodo
oyibo.
If the man react, na prison and street him go
land, even if na him buy their house.
Na to trick the woman come Nigeria, give am
better flogging...
Tufiakwa 😠 😡
Rule number one, don't let woman take any responsibility over you no matter what. That guy is a good father, he never wants to abandon his daughter and also want to keep his family together but woman no dey always get Sense, no matter what she did to him, they will still survive.
Seems you are part of the Igbo Ladies giving us bad names abroad.
Good You acknowledged that I married Oyibo since most of you aren't marriageable.
But I won't insult you like you did.
You just made my points valid.
If na white woman she wouldn't be yelling, screaming, disturbing the neighborhood and causing emotional torture to the kids and the worst she would do na to call police especially when necessary. It's not a criminal offense. The man can only be asked to leave the house to avert disaster (for safety).
Most are trained psychologically at conflict resolutions unlike a Lady that just JaPa from Nigeria. The best is for the man to leave the house with that girl else both will be poisoned straightaway. Hope I'm clearer now.
Na to carry my daughter Waka oOoOO, she won't kill her kids 👌💯
Omoawoke: Did I just hear leave my house. Any man that live in a woman’s house has no shame
. According to recent reports, almost 50% of women in marriages in Nigeria are the breadwinners. That shamelessness you describe has been a part of the culture for a long time now.
Kobojunkie:
. According to recent reports, almost 50% of women in marriages in Nigeria are the breadwinners. That shamelessness you describe has been a part of the culture for a long time now.
😂
I will rather live on a tree than pack to a woman’s house
It is not a case of deception. There is no time they tell the woman, she will always overreact. The way she reacted she can poison that girl. I think she's probably the bread winner of the house or may be the husband is a dependant. She really maltreated the husband. It may come back to hunt her because you don't know what God will do especially the poor innocent girl. I wish I can talk to the husband.
The husband should have told the woman before marriage. Ìt is even good now, many women discover rival wives after the death of the husband. Many never discover.
What if it is the man making this discovery.
What if the husband is you making a discovery twenty years into the marriage?
Bittersweetnig: Rule number one, don't let woman take any responsibility over you no matter what
But reports from Nigeria reveal that women are breadwinners in almost 50% of households in Nigeria. So, wetin be this one wey you dey yarn when men having women take responsibility over them has been a norm and probably a part of the culture for a while now.
Sigh... Why will a man be ashamed to own up and claim his own child?!!
That's just selfishness.
...And the fact that your husband felt a strong need to lie so elaborately also says a lot about your character and the relationship dynamics of that marriage.
Malignantguest aka Apoptosis is married to a Nigerian woman who most likely moved abroad before him. His wife cooks everything including abacha for him in America, but he comes online to paint Nigerian women abroad bad. Very sly double-faced human. You can never see him say one good thing about marriage. Never.
What a snake! I guess he gets to say everything he feels about his wife online! It must be his therapy.
It is not in all cases. Pray that God make you a real husband. I own my house mortgage free but I gave my wife only 40% which is in our record. My wife cannot misbehave. I brought my daughter and her family abroad last year and I paid all expenses. She was accepted by everyone. When you don't depend on women for anything, you can run your home anyhow you want.
Kobojunkie:
But reports from Nigeria reveal that women are breadwinners in almost 50% of households in Nigeria. So, wetin be this one wey you dey yarn when men having women take responsibility over them has been a norm and probably a part of the culture for a while now.
then the remaining 50% are the real men, so if you belong to 50% bn fed by women then shame
GistMedia0:
A dramatic confrontation has gone viral after a Nigerian woman living abroad discovered that the girl her husband brought into their home—claiming she was his niece—is actually his biological daughter.
According to reports, the woman had accepted the girl into their home under the belief that she was just a relative in need of help. But everything changed when the truth came out. In the shocking footage, the wife is seen bitterly confronting her husband, shouting repeatedly, “Did you tell me she was your daughter?” as the visibly shamed man tries to calm her down.
The situation grew even more emotional when the teary woman ordered the young girl to leave the house. The girl, clearly frightened, is seen kneeling and begging the woman to let her stay, while the desperate husband pleads with his wife to calm down. But the woman stands her ground, replying firmly, “No!”
To make matters worse, the woman threatened to post the footage online—and she eventually did. The viral clip has since ignited massive online reactions, with many weighing in on issues of trust, deception, and hidden family secrets.
While some sympathize with the wife’s pain, others have raised concerns about the girl’s emotional trauma and questioned the husband’s motives for keeping such a huge secret from his spouse.
Rootprof:
Men abroad are ing through a lot in hand of their wives. Watched a video on fb where a wife was slapping the husband left and right. Back to the topic here, the union was built on desist from the man side and the marriage was for interest seek not love, why did the man hid the truth from his wife. He deliberately kept it from her for selfish reasons which looks like money or traveling benefit for the guy. If this happened here in Nigeria it might be settled but for Yankee Omo the marriage is gone. Peace to the home.
na you be the woman? As of yesterday the police don tell the man to get another place for the moment
Bittersweetnig: then the remaining 50% are the real men, so if you belong to 50% bn fed by women then shame
Wrong! The report did not include information on households where the man and woman equally contributed to household finances, households bankrolled by in-laws or relatives, etc. Let's stick to the facts here. I think the ship has sailed a long time ago on the image of the real Nigerian man image you are desperately trying to paint here.
Why would a man lie and hide his child from the woman he wanted to marry? A whole child! What a coward!
Is that how desperate you wanted to marry her?
How did you feel calling your Ada a niece?
Now, a whole Ada feels out of place in her father's house. Ashi gba!
Even if she's the one paying the bills, it doesn't warrant the public disgrace she brought to her family. Let's assume there was no social media to vent on, what would she had done? There are logical ways to settle this without putting her family through the torture, why show the entire family to the world? The girl here is the victim yet she's begging, that act alone should have calmed her down and shift the anger entirely to her husband after all, the girl didn't beg to be born. If you are a single parent, please own it with your full chest and whoever that wants to be a part of your life would know what they are getting themselves involved in.
Having money or being the breadwinner( man/woman) doesn't give one the to be a nuisance, the husband is a confirmed coward and if there's another name higher than that, that's who he is for denying his child( he has no reason whatsoever to deny his daughter or introduce her as his niece) has anyone considered how heartbroken that girl would be calling her father "uncle" while the other kids freely calls him "Dad". He's full of shiit for burdening that little angel with the truth instead of owning his deceit with full chest.
He's a confirmed ewu Gambia!!
Trust me, you're not the typical Nigerian woman from the look of things.
A Nigerian lady/woman will never reason the way you do.
Nigerian women make una come see woman na. So reasonable. An angel with an empathy heart.
These are the the wife materials we are talking about. Your type are very rare.
If we have lots of women like you in Nigeria, Nigeria will be great with lots of amazing families.
Angelfrost:
Sigh... Why will a man be ashamed to own up and claim his own child?!!
That's just selfishness.
...And the fact that your husband felt a strong need to lie so elaborately also says a lot about your character and the relationship dynamics of that marriage.
It doesn't say anything about her character. Leave the woman out of it. Women lie too about this and it says nothing about the man. Full disclosure is on you and you alone.
Kobojunkie:
So, because she was born before the marriage, it becomes right for him to scam the woman into having the child in the house without needing to tell her the truth? Some of you ehn....🙄🙄🙄🙄
Kobojunkie sháme on you. Heàrtless hómo sàpien.
Somebody will still marry this one tomorrow. I feel for the man that will end up with this one.
Women like these don't have heart or humans sympathy.
Very evil human beings. Life wey una no go carry enter grave to be kind na wahala for una.
This is issue of deception not money. Why didn't the husband tell her the truth from the onset? If the woman wasn't comfortable with such union, she would have another man and the man would have another woman.
How many more children has the man in secrecy? This is a woman, what if the woman has problem of child bearing and the husband feels indifferent? What is her fate?
I think your position is callous.
Bc he's scared of her actions.
The man fall hand. I wud ve walk away with my daughter. Make she chop the house.
Chase my daughter to where?
Getat
