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THE MOTHER IN LAW CALLED OFF THE WEDDING, NOT THE BRIDE - The bride's side of the story

The wedding of the season was supposed to be the union of love and devotion between the beautiful bride and her dashing groom. The venue was set, the guests were invited, and the atmosphere was electric. But little did anyone know, a storm was brewing behind the scenes.

It all started during the final counseling session with the reverend. The couple was asked about their plans for their future church attendance, and that's when the sparks flew. The bride, a devoted Catholic, said she would continue to attend her church, while the groom, a devout COCIN member, insisted that they would attend his church together.

The reverend, sensing the tension, asked if they had ever discussed this during their courtship. The couple exchanged uneasy glances, and the groom revealed that his mother had been adamant that they attend his church. The groom said his mother made it clear that if the bride would not follow him to his church, the wedding is off. The bride's eyes widened in frustration as she retorted, "If your mother is going to decide everything for you, then maybe we should call off the wedding."

The groom, taken aback by her words, returned home and shared the conversation with his mother. The mother-in-law's face turned crimson with anger, and she declared, "If that's how she feels, then the wedding is off!"

As the wedding day approached, the bride realized that her future mother-in-law wasn't bluffing. She began to plead with the groom, promising to attend his church and compromise on their differences. But the mother-in-law's mind was already made up.

The bride's desperation grew as she thought about her own mother's fragile health. She feared that if her mother found out about the called-off wedding, she might out from the shock. The bride begged the groom to reconsider, but his mother's influence had already sealed their fate.

As the guests arrived at the venue, they were met with an empty aisle and a disappointed crowd. The wedding was officially called off, and the bride was left heartbroken.

But was this really a tragedy, or was it God's deliverance on the life of the bride? Some whispered that the mother-in-law's controlling behavior was a sign of things to come, and that the bride was lucky to have escaped. Others speculated that the bride had dodged a bullet, avoiding a potentially toxic marriage.

As the news spread like wildfire on social media, bloggers and commentators weighed in on the drama. But amidst all the speculation, one thing was clear: the bride had narrowly escaped a potentially disastrous union, and her future was now wide open.

- Paul Kums X @_thetalkingpen..

This is whom Pastor Kingsley calls "mummy has changed the plan" boy.

Original mummy's boy!

And he did point out that marriage is for men and not for boys.

This is a case of: "better late than never"

I think the potential groom just dodged a bullet. I thank God for his life.

For the bride, please find a Catholic man to marry. Simple.

StillDtruth:
This whom Pastor Kingsley calls "mummy has changed the plan" boy.

Original mummy's boy!

And he did point out that marriage is for men and not for boys.

The mother in law did the right thing. A foolish bride who was yet to be taken to the alter opened her gutters to suggest they call off the wedding and you are here blaming an innocent woman who was only trying to protect her son. A bride is supposed to follow her husband to his church and that is final. If she is not willing to submit to a man, she should be on her own and not marry. I the mother in law 💯.

Real or fake story as usual

Nonexisting1:
The mother in law did the right thing. A foolish bride who was yet to be taken to the alter opened her gutters to suggest they call off the wedding and you are here blaming an innocent woman who was only trying to protect her son. A bride is supposed to follow her husband to his church and that is final. If she is not willing to submit to a man, she should be on her own and not marry. I the mother in law 💯.

I know that you are anti women but reason dictates that this cannot be judged right or wrong yet, as you do not know the future of the couple.

Neither is the bride wrong for upholding her values.

But the error is between the marrying parties themselves whose growth is in question for in my view they are behaving like teenagers. Meanwhile, marriage is for adults and therefore these are matters they should have settled.

For a mother to jump in and protect her son in this situation clearly shows that the boy is a boy and not a man.

Anyway, we have seen the kind of beds they lay.

All I see is a stubborn bride and a groom who is not mature to become a husband. If the marriage had taken place, divorce would have been imminent.

A little wisdom would have quelled the situation. She had a rethink at home and figured it was a no-brainer and she could attend her husband's church. If she had asked for some time to think things through, that fight would have been averted... but then again, she didn't lose at all because being married to a man who cannot make decisions without family interference is the most potent elixir for a failed marriage.




Sadly, this is why many marriages fail. If discussions like the church to attend was not brought to the table, I wonder what they were discussing and doing during their courtship.

Make I show una where the guy take messup. The guy shouldn't have gone home to tell the mother before calling off the marriage. Immediately the girl say "If your mother is going to decide everything for you, then maybe we should call off the wedding", na that place he for walkout and cancel the wedding.
Now the guy is making his mother look like a bad person when he should have finished it off at that spot. No woman dares threaten me, don't try it. I hate threatening people, so I don't like it when someone does that same thing to me. Though I won't call off my wedding because of an indifference in religion but don't dare threaten me with relationship or marriage. Marriage wey be say na me go dey spend money na you wan threaten me for? You no threaten your ex when your virginity was still intact, na when you no get virginity na you wan threaten me sef 😆.
Oga you messed up by dragging your mother into this. One more thing, this scenario shows that you're not yet a man who can make decisions for himself.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Religion Bullshit strikes again.
Stopping this dick and pussy from enjoying holy matrimony.


So they couldn't reach a compromise using brains installed by default on them by God.

God will be unimpressed and uninspired by this trash created by trash.

Juliearth:
All I see is a stubborn bride and a groom who is not mature to become a husband. If the marriage had taken place, divorce would have been imminent.

A little wisdom would have quelled the situation. She had a rethink at home and figured it was a no-brainer and she could attend her husband's church. If she had asked for some time to think things through, that fight would have been averted... but then again, she didn't lose at all because being married to a man who cannot make decisions without family interference is the most potent elixir for a failed marriage.




Sadly, this is why many marriages fail. If discussions like the church to attend was not brought to the table, I wonder what they were discussing and doing during their courtship.

What were dey discussing during courtship. No be lie. Dats d real Q.

Witches don't fly they walk and sit at him waiting to advice people to do rubbish

They are not compatible. She's "heavier" than him.

Adebishow:
This is a case is: "better late than never"

I think the potential groom just dodged a bullet. I thank God for his life.

For the bride, please find a Catholic man to marry. Simple.

As simple as ABC

Let her get devout Catholic man to marry. Secondly the bride is too arrogant. Her responses to question being asked was a load that breaks a camel back. Our responses or reply to our partner should be devoid of bitterness and arrogance. Should the bride replied him in such a way that embellish love and respect. This unwarranted call off won't arise.

The bride has no respect to his fiance and his mom. In respective that marriage is between 2 matured people, but why are they inviting their family to their wedding or if their parents do not give their consent most time the marriage won't hold. So it is not only between a man and woman but between 2 families

StillDtruth:


I know that you are anti women but reason dictates that this cannot be judged right or wrong yet, as you do not know the future of the couple.

Neither is the bride wrong for upholding her values.

But the error is between the marrying parties themselves whose growth is in question for in my view they are behaving like teenagers. Meanwhile, marriage is for adults and therefore these are matters they should have settled.

For a mother to jump in and protect her son in this situation clearly shows that the boy is a boy and not a man.

Anyway, we have seen the kind of beds they lay.

What nonsense values was she trying to protect, continuing with her catholic church after marrying a COCIN man? Mtchew. A woman does not have a church until she is married. If she wanted to remain a catholic, she should have waited for a catholic groom or better still, wait to get married to her catholic priest. The mother in law did what a smart mother will do. The moment the bride suggested they should cancel the wedding over church, she crossed the line. The mother sensing her son will be too drunk in love to think right at that critical time stepped in to stop the marriage to avoid her son ending up in a disaster. You know the right thing but your brain has been clogged with your perception of me being a misogynist for which I don't give a fucck about too.

Nonexisting1:
What nonsense values was she trying to protect, continuing with her catholic church after marrying a COCIN man? Mtchew. A woman does not have a church until she is married. If she wanted to remain a catholic, she should have waited for a catholic groom or better still, wait to get married to her catholic priest. The mother in law did what a smart mother will do. The moment the bride suggested they should cancel the wedding over church, she crossed the line. The mother sensing her son will be too drunk in love to think right at that critical time stepped in to stop the marriage to avoid her son ending up in a disaster. You know the right thing but your brain has been clogged with your perception of me being a misogynist for which I don't give a fucck about too.

Isn't it clear that you are misogynistic?

The right thing is that no man has a right to rule and dominate over his fellow man or woman.

A woman is still a human being and even she chooses to exercise her right of marrying a man, it does not mean that she has been reduced to a chattel and is no longer a human being with rights of dignity of person and respect.

So, she has not done anything wrong in having her own opinion and preference as different from the man she wishes to marry.

All this is, is just a contract in which the contracting parties could not come to an agreement, so it failed as many contracts often do. That's all.

And she is lucky not to have married this kind of man.

Juliearth:
All I see is a stubborn bride and a groom who is not mature to become a husband. If the marriage had taken place, divorce would have been imminent.

A little wisdom would have quelled the situation. She had a rethink at home and figured it was a no-brainer and she could attend her husband's church. If she had asked for some time to think things through, that fight would have been averted... but then again, she didn't lose at all because being married to a man who cannot make decisions without family interference is the most potent elixir for a failed marriage.




Sadly, this is why many marriages fail. If discussions like the church to attend was not brought to the table, I wonder what they were discussing and doing during their courtship.

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Holluwhakemmy:
Real or fake story as usual

You are seeing wedding card right there and you are saying it is a fake story?

This story is real, It happened in Jos.
I don't think this is the only issue that make them to stop the wedding. I believe they have been having issue on the matter for the long time.
But I don't know why Catholic ladies does not allow to go to their husband church after wedding