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Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

I know a non virgin like you will respond harshly to this thread and you did not disappoint

Good character is not in between the legs o
Some could end up emotionally blackmailing you throughout the marriage because of that

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

shebi u self follow suit dey disVirgin them nd down u wan find d good one bah

;DMarried man wan marry Virgin,when you no be king for you village. Na herdsmen you go marry

TOPCRUISE:

I know a non virgin like you will respond harshly to this thread and you did not disappoint

He’s not a v because he was raped by the house maid at 14
Not his fault

umarfantami:
➜May be you didn't understand the concept. For a man is to take the family responsibilities
For the woman is to keep her virginity for the man.

Rubbish lies!🙄🙄🙄

In Nigeria, women sit as breadwinners in almost 50% of relationships, and many of these women were virgins when they got married. Women literally carry the bulk of the responsibilities of keeping and maintaining the home on their heads, including providing for and feeding their husbands. These women offered up their virginity, believing that in return, what awaited them was a better life, but found themselves living in serious suffering after it all. So, where are these men for those women?

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

you are very matured.i like the way u replied him.

With the comment am seeing, am glad they’re still sane men in Nigeria, who by all means most preserved our culture and also preserve the behavior of the unborn the children. I can not commit to any woman, I didn’t met with virtue.

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

educated people Dey nairaland.God bless u for ur analysis bro.

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

okpo spotted.Red alert! Guys

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

Typical female response.. Their is a reason why it's always a bad idea getting relationship advise from females especially those below 50

ChizzyBuna:
A Woman's Character is more important than her Virginity.


You can marry a Virgin that end up being a jezebel that torment your life.

a virgin jezebel is better than a prostitute Esther.

VicM6:
shebi u self follow suit dey disVirgin them nd down u wan find d good one bah

How u take know say he follow ....?

Make I shock you... 80 % men never slept with virgins.......if u doubt, just try do survey of a sample size like 5000...

Werey questions

Kobojunkie:
Have I said, "Don't marry a virgin."? You are free to marry yourself a virgin. Of course not! I jVs merely posited that that particular problem never seems to end with just marrying a virgin as we have seen it play out many times in society.

Your brilliant position is clear enough. Please don't bother to shalaye any further.
Cheers

Antoeni:
Actually, a woman who gets married while she is a virgin, knows only one size of her man's manhood. Therefore, the size will not have any effect on her because she gets fitted to her man's pintle regardless of the size.

On the other hand, if a woman experienced different pintle sizes before getting married, when she gets married, the size of her man's manhood will have an impact on her.

Such a woman will begin to complain that her husband doesn't satisfy her in bed because she begins to compare her man's manhood strength, sizes, and weight with what she got outside from her ex fúckérs.

, a child who has never been trained to eat outside, will always believe that her mother's food is the sweetest and the best. Such a child will never know that her mother's food is not sweet.

But the pièce de résistance is, no man can satisfy a woman; man does not owe a woman satisfaction. What a man owes a woman is love, care and to get her pregnant; because, the greatest joy of a woman in a marriage is when you give her a child, a family.

You are right and wrong, I’ve seen a case of a man who got married to a virgin and the woman ends up being a public hole in the community..
When I was young I always thought any lady you deflowered will stay glued to you and also find it difficult to cheat or let go of you but, it’s a lie Israel dmw married a virgin from Christian home, we all know the marriage didn’t last despite access to money and fame…
most non virgin gave out their virginity out of love thinking it would leads to marriage just like how you didn’t end up getting married to those you deflowered..
Getting married to a virgin is good only if she possess good character, respect and peace of mind…I would choose a non virgin with the above attributes over a virgin with non of the attributes..

bayfed:
With the comment am seeing, am glad they’re still sane men in Nigeria, [b]who by all means most preserved our culture [/b]and also preserve the behavior of the unborn the children. I can not commit to any woman, I didn’t met with virtue.

There is no evidence the concept of virginity was ever part and parcel of any of the major African cultures, particularly those in Nigeria. Evidence instead continues to insist that these beliefs were imported into Africa from other parts of the world, where people worshipped virginity gods or the idea had previously been raised to religious/political status.

Just an FYI!

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

The non-virgins were once virgins and there's no guarantee that marrying a virgin would make her remain chaste since she'd eventually be dis-virgined.

🌺

This one no well ooo,so you think marrying a virgin is the best,what if you marry that virgin and she becomes a pain in the ass??

Some non virgin and more better virgin
And if you are still looking for virgin go sambisa forest they plenty there well well 😂

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

Nairaland is a funny place. How is a Junkie telling someone else, not himself, to seek a therapist?

rapheal5:
➜...Getting married to a virgin is good only if she possess good character, respect and peace of mind …I would choose a non virgin with the above attributes over a virgin with non of the attributes..

But is there really, truly, a benefit to getting married to a virgin man or woman, forgetting all other things you have thrown in there?

my babe wey dey collect only mouthaction anyhow those days, come dey claim virgin for her hubby.....

Moral lesson:
all dogs dey chop shit but na the one wey em runs cast na culprit

You are a very bitter old woman. Why are you this bitter about a man marrying a beautiful virgin?

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

Kobojunkie:
🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

Bitter non virgin, aka useless evening news paper somebody

After una done nack multiple dicks, una go dey find SIMPle Mr. SIMPson man wey go settle down with una slack, over used and infected puss**sy


Infact any man that marries a bitter non virgin, and wasted his hard earned money of paying bride price for useless evening newspaper with infinite emotional, psychological, sexual baggages should be beheaded to Ogun, because such may is useless to humanity.

Patrotism:
.... marrying a beautiful virgin?

Na the face you dey call beautiful abi na her virginity be the beautiful until right after you take it away from her, leaving her with nothing of value afterwards?

Continue looking, you will get.

You can reach out to Ned Nwoko


PS: This is madness because, marriage is beyond sex.

frankson1:




The non-virgins were once virgins and there's no guarantee that marrying a virgin would make her remain chaste since she'd eventually be dis-virgined.

Please be atleast sensible for once in your life.

If any woman would become non virgin, then she must be disflowered only by then man who has paid her bride price.

The only case to marry a non virgin is if she was rap*****d or if her husband who disflowered her is dead.

Only a stupid man will waste his hard earned money on a sexually and genetically polluted and damaged woman.

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

There are several benefits tho.
It's not usually ideal to keep a woman with history of war crimes between her legs. Especially those ones that scream harder, faster, more power, spank me. Most times their bodies have been through nuclear level warfare. They have been blasted, stretched, destroyed, rebuilt and destroyed by an army of men before you. Their past lovers have ripped them apart like savages and their insides are a crime scene.
If she is untouched, your dick will be the template.

yusufmurry:
Continue looking, you will get.

You can reach out to Ned Nwoko


PS: This is madness because, marriage is beyond sex.

Mumu man, because marriage is beyond sex is the reason why you chose to spend the rest of your life with a sexually and emotionally damaged and polluted female?

A woman you thousands of liters of semens has been deposited in her body by uncountable men

Would it not feel disgusting seeing such woman everyday you wake up for the rest of your life.

comodo:

There are several benefits tho.
It's not usually ideal to keep a woman with history of war crimes between her legs. Especially those ones that scream harder, faster, more power, spank me. Most times their bodies have been through nuclear level warfare. They have been blasted, stretched, destroyed, rebuilt and destroyed by an army of men before you. Their past lovers have ripped them apart like savages and their insides are a crime scene.
If she is untouched, your dick will be the template.

You have more wisdom than Solomon in the holy Bible of Christians.

I hail thee The Wise Man in Isreal

Lordbinsmar:
➜ ... The only case to marry a non virgin is if she was rap*****d or if her husband who disflowered her is dead....

This is as established by what law?

Kobojunkie:
Na the face you dey call beautiful abi na her virginity be the beautiful until right after you take it away from her, leaving her with nothing of value afterwards?

Bitter evening old newspaper